Rob Ford Snubs Gay Pride Parade: Toronto Mayor Under Fire For Choosing Cottage Instead

Rob Ford

The Huffington Post Canada   First Posted: 06/23/11 08:10 AM ET Updated: 08/23/11 06:12 AM ET

Toronto Mayor Rob Ford is under fire this morning on all fronts after he announced he would skip Toronto's Pride parade in favour of a weekend at the cottage.

Ford would be the first mayor of the mega-city to miss the event, which draws an estimated million people to the city’s core each year for a celebration of gay life in Toronto, the Toronto Sun reports.

READ: Twitter reaction to Ford's decision fast and furious and some of your best comments below..

This year's parade is on July 3.

“We've been in Huntsville for the past 30 (years), as long as I can remember, since I've been a little boy,” Ford told reporters. “I'm carrying on a tradition my father had, last year I was there during the campaign, we’re there every year.”

The Globe's Marcus Gee blasted the mayor's decision, calling it "petty, stubborn and mean."

“Mr. Ford's decision to absent himself is an unmistakable snub, not just to an important city festival but to the whole gay community,” Gee writes.

Royson James of the Toronto Star said Ford is living a “black-and-white existence” that clashes with the diversity and colour of Big City Toronto:

“We thought someone would have reminded Mayor Ford that despite his own personal or religious views, despite his unease around gay people, despite his natural or cultivated antipathy towards such Torontonians, he had to do the mayor thing — the grip and grin, the bringing of greetings on behalf of the people of Toronto We thought wrong.”

Ford wasn't without allies. Barbara Kay, writing in the National Post, said "Good for Rob Ford. Canada Day is a day for all Canadians to celebrate their nation as a 34-million strong collective, not a small minority of people celebrating their sexuality."

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Still, widespread condemnation may be having an effect. The Toronto Star reports that Ford’s brother and chief advisor, Doug Ford, suggested the two could make the Pride parade after all.

"We have 20-odd people going up to our cottage for Canada Day, but if I can make it back I will, and we'll see if I can bring Rob," he said late Wednesday.

Toronto Councillor Kristyn Wong-Tam, a veteran activist in the gay community, characterized the mayor’s decision as a missed opportunity, The Globe and Mail reports.

“I think given the past historical remarks that he has made, for him to step forward and to march during this Pride weekend would have made a difference and would have gone a long way in making amends with the community,” she said.



VOICES

Councillor Adam Vaughan:

"As a city Toronto is celebrated for its diversity and its tolerance. It appears we must now find a way to tolerate a mayor who takes no pride in Pride. The good news is that more people will line the route and dance in the streets than voted for the mayor. Torontonians are proud of Pride with or without the Mayor's blessing."

Pride Toronto co-chair Francisco Alvarez:

"There have been a lot of hard-won and incremental gains over the years, for lesbians and gays in this country but they are all easily reversible...It may seem to someone who grew up watching Will and Grace that this is the normal state of affairs, but it’s not and it is fragile."

Councillor Janet Davis:

“I think he is sending a very clear message that they don’t count in Rob Ford’s city."

Former Councillor Kyle Rae:

“It offends me given all the work Torontonians have done making this an inclusive city.”

Councillor Doug Ford:

“We had a tremendous amount of gay people on our campaign that helped us out. When Rob picks up the phone he doesn’t ask people are you gay or are you straight, he goes and helps the people. That is just the way he is. He doesn’t give two hoots if you are straight, gay, whatever.”

Former mayor Mel Lastman:

"Maybe if (Ford) doesn’t come around this year, next year, I think he’ll work up his courage and go. Once you go, you’ll be fine...The only thing I didn’t like was those bare asses in front of me!”


BEST READER COMMENTS

jrsee:

"I think it is Ford's right to not to attend the parade. It does send a strong message that there are people who the Fords value and those he does not."

Rashomon:

"If it was a parade for straight people, or short people, or tall people or people of a particular ethnic group would anyone care? This seems to me to be completely political. Sure he should show his support as Mayor. However at the end of the day it seems symbolic. The key is the policies he favors and implements - not attending parades."

Chicago0048:

"Well, he's being honest. He doesn't want to be there, so he won't. I don't go along with his excuse of family time on that day. But if that's how he feels so be it."

bomland31:

This guy is trying to do his best GOP impersonat­ion. Don't fall for it Canada.

arkymorgan:

"Being mayor is a job and it comes with duties, some of which may not be to your taste, but are considered part of your job. Your time is not wholly your own and you don't get the right to pick and choose which constituen­ts you want to represent: you campaigned to be mayor of all of Toronto, Mr. Ford, not just mayor of the people you agree with. You chose to serve, and that means the bulk of your time belongs to the job."

Northern Observer:

"Toronto voted for him and knew who he was to begin with. This is no surprise. It's not like the only time he can see his family throughout the year is only during the pride parade. I'm sure his family would not even notice not seeing him for the half day he'd need to appear at the parade."

LeftLeanWing:

"I remember during the early early 80's in Boston... our Mayor.. Mayor White... would show up at a Few of the gay clubs with his staff and sometimes speak. Just to let us know that we were no longer 2nd Class Boston Citizens..­."

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haselcheck
Had enuff...Get active....
09:17 AM on 06/28/2011
Apparently Dalton McGuinty is planning to attend the Gay Sex Parade. Norman said that he will be attending dressed up as his mother....He will try to pick up a few radical gay activist and progressive (gay - in the closet) votes for October. God knows that he needs all the help that he can get...to support his Nanny State ---> Ontario
08:38 PM on 06/29/2011
Rob Ford had his mummy defend his decision to go to the cottage and you of course see nothing wrong with that.If George Smitherman or David Miller did the same you would be rolling in the aisles.
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Tyler Austin
Women = people. Corperations ≠ people.
09:13 PM on 06/27/2011
*hmpt* You'd hope he could at least fake bonhome for a day for the sake of the 10% of his constituents who are gay.
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Brian Gorrell
Is this the 1950's or what?
10:07 AM on 06/27/2011
I'm happy he is not going.
He is like the size of a float!
NOT healthy and NOT a good example for Torontonians!
Stay away FOREVER BULLY!
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haselcheck
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12:20 PM on 06/27/2011
Why is the radical gay activist community so angry and bitter ?
07:56 PM on 06/27/2011
Because they have been the victims of hate crimes for centuries? Just throwing that out there.
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Tyler Austin
Women = people. Corperations ≠ people.
09:16 PM on 06/27/2011
Nice lure, subtle, but with a hint of ignorence. I'm sure this post will get you hours of trolling fun.
10:18 PM on 06/26/2011
Why does the Gay/Lesbian community think the Pride Parade is a political event. They shouldn't force/expect/pressure the Mayor to be at their parade. Just like they have the right to go to this event, he has the right to NOT go. Also, he works so much, he has the right to choose to spend his holiday with family and friends. Give him a break and let him enjoy his day with family. That is his right and privilege. Not everyone wants to go to the pride parade!
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gwinegarden
She's an Arctic Wolf
11:48 AM on 06/27/2011
Blah, blah, blah. Being mayor has responsibilities. He knew that, when he ran.
04:25 PM on 06/27/2011
The two reasons it is considered a political event are that

1) Pride Day parades/marches were founded to commemorate the Stonewalll Rebellion

2) Toronto Pride is the second-largest in North America & draws in thousands of tourists, global media and millions of dollars for the city
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haselcheck
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09:03 PM on 06/27/2011
It's only and entertainment event...not a real political event...only a political event to the radical gay activists in Toronto..It's the Toronto Sex Parade....it's a parade about sexuality....
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haselcheck
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09:06 PM on 06/25/2011
NEWSFLASH......The good news is that, after a whole century of heading in the wrong direction, a moral and intellectual challenge to the bleeding-heart version of liberalism and radical gay activism is finally welling up in Canada. This is in no small part thanks to the liberating force of the Internet that has made freedom of expression possible again after decades of suffocating mass media orthodoxy.

Rob....It's OK to go to the cottage....
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gwinegarden
She's an Arctic Wolf
11:52 AM on 06/27/2011
Something tells me you have a man-crush on Ford.
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haselcheck
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11:58 AM on 06/27/2011
Calling people homophobes is a direct form of political correctnes­s and stealth censorship­. It is used by all Liberals and Progressiv­es. Luckily, it NEVER WORKS
03:34 PM on 06/28/2011
I agree Have you noticed the number of posts he has made on this site about this topic. The greatest enemies of gay people are Closeted gay people.
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Brian Gorrell
Is this the 1950's or what?
01:41 AM on 06/28/2011
Is Rob your boyfriend?
Oh you naughty bears you
04:33 PM on 06/25/2011
And this is a surprise to whom?
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PortlandZoo
Wait... what?
11:39 AM on 06/25/2011
CTV aired a report from the Bollywood events in Toronto last night - and gee, who was spotted in the crowd but the mayor himself. He'll show up when a bunch of Indian stars come to town (don't get me wrong - that's good for TO too), but refuses to attend when it's the city's own internationally famous party. A curious double standard.
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haselcheck
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08:36 PM on 06/25/2011
A lot of those Indian stars are gay....Why doesn't this event count ?
07:21 AM on 06/25/2011
So, being Mayor, you think he could take it upon himself to drive 185km to Toronto to support a good majority of the tax paying community.... Isn't that part of the job description! Not only is he offending the Gay and Lesbian community, but all of their supporters, their friends, their family, the people that care about them! I live in Edmonton, AB and our wonderful Mayor held a Pride brunch, he participated and showed his support. For this I thank and respect him. As far as I am concerned, Mayor Ford set Gay Rights back a few years and confirmed the acceptance of prejudice and animosity towards the entire community. I do understand the importance of family and tradition, however, when you are in a position of power and people look up to you for guidance, this should not be a hard decision. I am sure he understood the sacrifices he had to make when he accepted the position. I hope he can find it in his heart to make the right choice and support his people, this is Canada, a country built and run on love, support, acceptance and respect,
10:25 PM on 06/26/2011
Everyone having a difficult time with his decision, should be tolerant of HIS decision and "support and accept" with "respect" his decision NOT to go. It is his family's tradition to spend this weekend together for years. Why is this event political? The gay/lesbian commumity want the parade, not everyone has to be there. He's not gay. Let him enjoy his family time. Support his decision. He has a right to make his own mind, just like everyone else has.
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02:24 PM on 06/24/2011
The Gay Sex Parade is not a cultural event but purely an entertainment forum. Personally I find it to be of very poor entertainment quality so I don't attend. I believe that only gays and progressives (closet gays) actually attend this day of entertainment because they like to see nude men. The sad part is that they expose this event to children in an attempt to get their validation or to recruit them.
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mbazid
Just smile and nod
06:32 AM on 06/25/2011
Clearly your homophobic. That;s very sad and I pity you.
You sound as though you have the I.Q of a llama.
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haselcheck
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08:37 PM on 06/25/2011
Calling people homophobes is a direct form of political correctness and stealth censorship. It is used by all Liberals and Progressives. Luckily, it NEVER WORKS.
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haselcheck
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08:43 PM on 06/25/2011
Hey mbazid...It's not a llama...It's an Alpaca....
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PortlandZoo
Wait... what?
11:40 AM on 06/25/2011
I don't understand why your posts stay up for even a minute. Free speech isn't h8 speech or didn't you get the memo?
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haselcheck
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08:41 PM on 06/25/2011
You like censorship don't you....At least you not as much of a turkey that called me a homophobe....Calling people homophobes is a direct form of political correctness and stealth censorship. It is used by all Liberals and Progressives. Luckily, it NEVER WORKS.
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turkeylurky
Just keepin it real........
12:58 PM on 06/24/2011
Rob Ford has never attended a Gay Pride parade and has made going to the cottage on that weekend a family tradition for 30 years.
It's nice to see a politician remain consistent to his values and not become a phoney by sucking up to self-aggrandizing special interest groups..
The public will like that and he'll be more popular than ever.
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mbazid
Just smile and nod
06:34 AM on 06/25/2011
If he had the courage of his convictions he would say that he simply is not comfortable with homosexuality. He wouldn't get his brother and Mommie to speak for him.
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haselcheck
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08:49 PM on 06/25/2011
You and the rest of the radical gay activist community would not accept Rob Ford unless he agree to have sex with a man....please tell the truth...
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Brian Gorrell
Is this the 1950's or what?
10:10 AM on 06/27/2011
Values?
HAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHA
Oh my that is funny.
12:46 PM on 06/24/2011
Previous mayors have been at Toronto Pride for 16 years. This is because one of the many responsibilities of the Office of Mayor is attending and overseeing large community events.
When millions of people are attending an event in a city, it becomes part of the mayor's job to be at said event. A person who is unwilling or unable to fulfil his or her requirements is unsuitable to be the head of a Megacity municipal government.
Certain vocations bring certain obligations; imagine what would happen if Toronto's firefighters, hydro workers and paramedics all decided that they were too lazy to work on the holiday weekend and left town to stay at various cottages?
If Ford wants a part-time 9-4 job where all his evenings, weekends and holidays are free, then he should not be the mayor.
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butchcliff
The future is unwritten
08:46 AM on 06/24/2011
Headline..Snubs.. Special interest groups claim everyone should have tolerance for their cause. Seems most of them tho dont show any tolerance for others. Why use the word Snubs in the lead? Seems even the press cant see tolerance either
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FaceTheTruth00
I'm a girl.
04:14 AM on 06/24/2011
Hmmm, ok, in 2010, President Obama went home to Chicago to spend Memorial Day with his family.

Now, in the U.S., Memorial Day is an important day where we pay tribute to our fallen soldiers. Part of the President's duty usually includes laying a wreath at the tomb of the Unknown Soldier during a memorial ceremony at Arlington National Cemetery.

But like I said, last year Obama left D.C. to spend time with his family in Chicago instead. VP Biden then administered the ceremonial events that day.

So, are you guys who are criticizing this mayor for missing a parade just as outraged at Obama? He didn't miss a fun parade; he missed a somber day/ceremony meant to honor our war dead.

So if you're outraged by this mayor, you should be outraged by Obama opting to spend time with his family on an important day for the entire U.S.

I'm guessing you're not outraged though. Why is that?

Personally, I think he should've been in D.C. but I'm not outraged or upset that he spent time with his family.

But please tell me how not attending a parade even comes close to not attending events that pay tribute to fallen heroes?

In my opinion, it doesn't. And again, I don't hold his actions against him, and I didn't get on a public message board and bash him.

Just a little food for thought.
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turkeylurky
Just keepin it real........
12:48 PM on 06/24/2011
Jeebus dude, get with the program. If a lefty political leader doesn't do something, it's O.K., because we KNOW they really care.
Only righty leaders need to kowtow to whiny special interest groups in a vain effort to get that group to like them.
12:58 PM on 06/24/2011
The reason residents of Toronto Canada are outraged at our own mayor for neglecting an important tradition that attracts millions of tourist dollars and hundreds of thousands of visitors from all over the world each year is because he is supposed to represent the population of this city.

Actually I do agree with you in the fact that I think your president should have followed his duty to his constiuents. However, he is the president of a foriegn country that 'snubbed' a holiday that doesn't exist in this country. Expecting us to be outraged at him for you, rather than at our own elected official is a little odd.
02:32 AM on 06/24/2011
The only "outrage" is the radical gay activists and their puppet enablers in the media. The overwhelming majority of people in online polls agree with the mayor's stance to sit this one out.

Mainstream media: please stop pushing the radical homosexual agenda down our throats and move to another topic!
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BabylonDon
My macro-bio is full
08:14 AM on 06/24/2011
You certainly don't have to come to a well-known progressive web-site, if you don't like their agenda. I don't go stormfront and complain about their content.

Your words say you don't want 'homosexuality pushed down your throat', but your actions are saying something different.
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turkeylurky
Just keepin it real........
12:49 PM on 06/24/2011
We're going to try to make this a more balanced website where both sides are heard.
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oxjr
02:18 AM on 06/24/2011
I loved living in Toronto - rich or poor there was always something fun to do, festival after festival so many different kinds of people living, working, and playing together.

Pride is one of the biggest of those festivals - and it is not even a gay pride festival anymore. It has truly become a celebration of diversity and inclusion where all are welcome. pride is a celebration of Toronto - hosted by the gay community.

I am sure Rob Ford really does have a long standing family tradition - but dude you ran for mayor of Toronto and were blessed with the job. That means you have to make a sacrifice from time to time. And by choosing to skip this particular festival (your personal issues with gay people aside) you are basically saying you have no respect for what Toronto represents.
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haselcheck
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07:14 PM on 06/28/2011
I just spoke to Rob and it's because he has no respect for you personally my victim friend...
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oxjr
07:29 PM on 06/28/2011
I just spoke to Joe and he has no idea why you think you are witty.
fail...