Marjorie Raymond Suicide: Group Rallies Against Bullying As Funeral Held For Quebec Teen

Marjorie Raymond Suicide Bully

First Posted: 12/03/11 06:26 PM ET Updated: 12/04/11 04:28 PM ET

MONTREAL - Friends and family of a 15-year-old girl who killed herself after being apparently bullied by classmates gathered in Granby, Que. today for her funeral.

Marjorie Raymond took her own life on Nov. 28 in the tiny town of Ste-Anne-des-Monts, Que.

She told her mother in a suicide note that she couldn't endure the physical and psychological abuse any longer.

Meanwhile a group in Montreal held an anti-bullying rally in an East End park.

The rally was organized by a local mother whose own son was also bullied at school.

It had already been planned before organizers learned of Raymond's suicide.

Organizer Isabelle Marchand said they decided to dedicate the rally to her memory.

"We need to raise awareness about this issue together," she said.

"I've organized this rally along with my son but we can't change things alone."

Marchand said it's crucial that teachers and school administrators work with parents to eliminate bullying.

Raymond's death has sparked outrage in Quebec and fuelled debate across the country about how to deal with the problem.

Her mother Chantal Larose has called for tougher laws to discourage bullying.

The recent suicide of 15-year-old Jamie Hubley, a boy who was targeted as an openly gay student at his Ottawa school, also touched a nerve.

Hubley's death helped drive the Ontario government to introduce new anti-bullying legislation.

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MONTREAL - Friends and family of a 15-year-old girl who killed herself after being apparently bullied by classmates gathered in Granby, Que. today for her funeral.Marjorie Raymond took her own life on...
MONTREAL - Friends and family of a 15-year-old girl who killed herself after being apparently bullied by classmates gathered in Granby, Que. today for her funeral.Marjorie Raymond took her own life on...
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12:25 PM on 12/05/2011
How about enforcement? How many of you have kids in a zero tolerance school that in practice is anything but. How many of you have seen the issues with schools where the bullied are protected and the bullied chastised? There's a school in Squamish where cellphone video of bullies forcing two kids to pit fight resulted in the evidence being confiscated and the fallout landing anywhere but where it belonged. Those bullies that move on in life to police departments can apparently expect the same protection in some places (please don't take this as blanket criticism of police but protected bad apples are well documented now) . Those in charge of our children at school need to be focused on their duty to them, not on their preservation of personal or school image at the expense of duty. Don't get me wrong there are plenty of good teachers and staff, that deserve to be recognized but how many of them are withering in places where they can see the problem but are prevented from acting.

Perhaps administration believes their mandate is to provide a product, docile workers free of the belief they have rights they can stand up for.

I try to respect the veterans of Canada by remembering their sacrifices and reasons for them a little every day. When I encounter bullies in everyday life I think about victims like Marjorie and I know that doing the right thing is not my choice but my duty.
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08:24 AM on 12/05/2011
My daughter was being bullied by a girl at school. So much hateful stuff at school and on facebook. Well, I tracked down the bullies mother and father. Gave them a call and calmly explained what was going on, how it was effecting my daughter, and could they please put a stop to it. Her parents were very upset that their daughter was acting this way (I sent them a copy of the facebook bullying I had taken a snapshot of) Needless to say, the bullying stopped and the girl apologized to my daughter. They now get along fine. My point is, its up to us parents to put a stop to this. We can do it if we work together.
01:14 AM on 12/05/2011
When you're dealing with pathology there is no easy answer to ending the cycle of abusive behaviors. Cluster b personalit­y traits can be seen in children and also the parents who encourage/­defend bullying. There is no treatment. Awareness and education is key to understand­ing personalit­y disorders and the effects on the rest of society, especially it's victims.
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11:27 PM on 12/04/2011
Join us. http://www.standtogether.tv/
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piceaglauca
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11:09 PM on 12/04/2011
Schools play a lot of lip service to bullying due to community pressure. Administrators would rather sit on issues hoping they will go away rather then be confrontational, establish boundaries and deal with parents who support their kids who bullying by refusing to accept the facts.
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Cye
11:20 PM on 12/04/2011
I agree. Its easier to just hope it all goes away. Schools really need to put their money where their mouths are and be proactive about it. And they shouldn't be afraid to refer matters on to the police in cases where bullying involves physical violence. For some of these bullies, that is the only way they'll get it.
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10:07 AM on 12/05/2011
Don't know why but my Favourite button is not working...but F/F anyway! One of my children faced the same thing almost 10 years ago and the school did nothing. They just kept telling her not to retaliate. She did once or twice (verbally) and was suspended for zero tolerance policies. When I complained about it I was brushed off like yesterday's news. Like you said a lot of these kids also had parental influence in the school so many times it was overlooked. I know that this practice continues to flourish in the school system.
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09:45 PM on 12/05/2011
They will do nothing in any way short of monitoring and some talking to but when it comes down to talking directly to the offender and bringing parents in for accountability they are running so scared right now right up to the school divisional office. They want everything to go smoothly. No waves. Most of the administrators are milk toasts.
09:58 PM on 12/04/2011
There no needs to be a severe penalty for anyone caught bullying someone else... there is no excuse for this kind of behaviour. Maybe if parents were held responsible for the behaviour of their minor children and fewer people were too coward to get involved when they see this behaviour more people would take note and action would be taken swiftly...perhaps the guilty should be handed over to the families of those they bullied to do what they see fit!
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08:22 PM on 12/04/2011
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