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Graham James Sentencing: Former Coach Apologizes For Sexual Abuse

Graham James Sexual Abuse Sentence Prison

First Posted: 02/22/2012 4:00 am Updated: 02/23/2012 6:18 am

WINNIPEG - "The most hated man in hockey" stood in a courtroom Wednesday and apologized for the sexual abuse which shattered the trust of the hockey world and the lives of some of its most promising players.

"I stand before you with regret, a word which has been described as insight that comes one day too late. I also stand before you to apologize," former junior coach Graham James read from a prepared statement at his sentencing hearing.

"I apologize to the Canadian hockey public whose interest in the national game should be found in celebration, not trouble like what I've caused."

Former NHLer Sheldon Kennedy, an earlier victim of James' abuse, rejected the apology.

"It doesn't mean anything to me," he said. "Really, Graham James is a liar. He's been a liar since the day I met him."

James apologized to the players he coached, whose only motivation was the love of hockey and the desire to win.

"Parents expected their sons to be safe. Not all were. I apologize to the parents and the families of those most personally affected. I knew you. I liked you and I abused the trust you put in me.

"The fault is mine alone."

He saved the most direct apology for last.

"Finally, and most importantly, I apologize to Theoren Fleury and to Todd Holt, against whom I have offended. I wanted the best for you but I did not give you my best.

"My actions forfeited our friendship. It is sad irony that it is you, being among the persons I liked the most, today like me the least," he said, his voice faltering briefly.

"I am deeply sorry. I was wrong."

James, 59, pleaded guilty in December to sexually abusing Fleury and Holt when they played for him in the Western Hockey League in the 1980s and '90s.

It's his third time before the courts for similar incidents. He pleaded guilty to sexual abuse against Kennedy in 1997.

He served about 18 months of a 3 1/2 year-sentence before he got out of jail in 2000 and dropped out of public view. While still in custody he received a concurrent sentence after pleading guilty to a similar charge involving another boy.

Crown counsel Coleen McDuff asked that James serve six years in prison. Defence lawyer Evan Roitenberg asked that he be given a conditional sentence of 12 to 18 months.

Justice Catherine Carlson reserved her decision to March 20.

Earlier, McDuff explained in court how James would groom his victims for the sexual abuse to come, then hold them in his sway by threatening to take away the hockey they so dearly loved.

She said his players looked up to him because he was highly respected in the hockey world. They also believed — and were told by the coach — that he could make or break their careers.

Fleury and his cousin Holt were teenagers hoping to make it big. Court heard both of their lives were almost destroyed as they struggled with their demons for years before coming forward to police with their accusations.

Holt's name was previously protected by a publication ban, but that was lifted Wednesday.

James faced a total of nine charges dating back to between 1979 and 1994 involving Fleury, Holt and Greg Gilhooly, who never played for James but said he was also abused by him. The charges involving Gilhooly were stayed.

Roitenberg said James' punishment has gone beyond the year and a half he spent in prison after his conviction in 1997. He said his client has become "the most hated man in Canada, certainly the most hated man in hockey."

He claimed James has been vilified in the media and is not the "beast" he has been made out to be. The lawyer likened the case to the Salem witch trials.

"He has become the bogeyman, all things are his fault."

Roitenberg suggested the sentence could include a curfew and any other conditions the court may wish to impose.

"You can't sentence to appease the public," Roitenberg told court as he argued that James did not deserve to spend more time in a jail. "You have to remember the easiest thing to do is often the most popular, but the right thing to do is often the hardest."

McDuff told how James kept Fleury close to him in the early 1980s when he played for the Western Hockey League Winnipeg Warriors and then in Moose Jaw, when the team moved there after the 1983-84 season.

McDuff said Fleury, who was only 14, had tremendous respect for James at first.

"James was effectively revered in the hockey world at that time," she said at the hearing Wednesday. "It was recognized and understood he had a tremendous amount of power."

"I was a boy with a big dream and the talent to match," Fleury said in his victim impact statement.

"I played hockey in the early morning hours, after school, on the weekends and holidays. I even dreamed of hockey. Everyone in my life knew of my passion and my talent, including convicted pedophile Graham James."

McDuff said James convinced the teenager to come to his apartment so he could tutor him. Staying the night became a requirement.

The bedroom windows were covered and lesser forms of sex assault — fondling and groping — eventually grew into more serious abuse as Fleury grew exhausted from fighting James off.

"This was predatory and thought-out behaviour," McDuff said.

Fleury estimates he was assaulted about 150 times in total. He was told he could return home — with no prospects of a hockey career — or stick it out with James, who promised to get him into the National Hockey League.

"I was just a kid. A child," Fleury said in his statement. "I was completely under Graham James’s control. And I was scared. I did not have the emotional skills, the knowledge or the ability to stop the rapes or change my circumstances.

"I felt lost, alone, and helpless."

McDuff said it was much the same with Holt, who endured hundreds of assaults starting in 1989 and going until 1994. Holt, who played with the WHL Swift Current Broncos, would eventually be offered money by James in exchange for sexual acts.

James told the young player he was lonely, gay and had no friends.

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Graham James walks out of a building connected to the Law Courts following his sentencing hearing in Winnipeg, Wednesday, February 22, 2012. One of Canada's most abhorred sex offenders and notorious former junior coaches stood in a courtroom Wednesday and apologized for the sexual abuse which shattered the trust of the hockey world and the lives of some of its most promising players. (THE CANADIAN PRESS/Trevor Hagan)

Holt remembers sitting in his car, looking at the money, and crying, McDuff said.

She asked that the judge take into account the effect James had on his victims and that he was in a position of trust.

She turned to a psychiatrist's report that said James is "indifferent and remote, rarely responsive to the actions and feelings of others, and chooses solitary activities."

The doctor said James "is still fully admitting his sexual preferences" and has "deeply ingrained erotic preferences" which require long-term treatment.

Roitenberg pointed to another report that said there was little chance James would reoffend now that he has accepted what he did to his victims.

McDuff noted James went to Spain to continue coaching young adults after he got out of jail the first time.

"You would have expected he would have avoided these type of situations, and yet, he didn't."

Fleury prompted the latest charges against James several years ago when he came forward. The one-time hockey star was in Vancouver preparing to host the National Aboriginal Achievement Awards and was not in court to face his abuser.

He did, however, hold a news conference at which he read his victim impact statement. He said he hoped the judge would make the right decision.

When James pleaded guilty last year, Fleury said he would like to see the former junior hockey coach locked up for 27 years — the length of time Fleury struggled privately before coming forward.

James was quietly pardoned for his crimes in 2007, but that didn't come to light until it was reported by The Canadian Press in 2010. The Conservative government has since overhauled the pardon system, increased fees and banned pardons for those convicted of sexual offences against a minor.

Note to readers: This is a corrected story. An earlier version said James served 3 1/2 years in jail for his previous conviction.

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SkeeBee
Offending InFoxtrination Sufferers With Facts.
06:40 PM on 03/20/2012
Just read an article about the (equally twisted) church castrating boys to cure homosexuality.
I wonder if the Church would offer to funds/conduct a program where they castrate child abusers?
11:19 AM on 02/23/2012
i'm sure the people who make Columbia outerwear aren't too happy with that pic
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nikki717
War...what is it good for?
08:16 AM on 02/23/2012
Coward!
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SeanMartin
Everything in moderation.
07:38 AM on 02/23/2012
While I'm certainly glad to see this piece of human waste get his just rewards, part of me cant help but ask: why didnt these three say something earlier on? According to the article, he was with Fleury from 1979 to 1994. That's fifteen years, folks. Fleury was well into adulthood when it apparently stopped.

I dont know. As I say, I'm glad they finally nailed this guy, but I cant help but walk away from this with the feeling there's a bit more to this story than meets the eye.
11:28 PM on 02/22/2012
I hope that this enables other young children to speak out against abusers. I hope that that path has become more clear...that is the good in this debacle.
11:24 PM on 02/22/2012
James wrecked three lives and may get six years, two years a life. Shameful
10:47 PM on 02/22/2012
I am not excusing this person's behaviour but I do find it hypocritical teenagers are described as children ONLY when the allegations are gay in nature. If it were a teenage boy with an an attractive adult woman or a teenage girl with an older man, and was also a "willing" encounter (meaning no force involved), people would not be nearly as outraged, nor would the crime be called pedophilia. Again, I am not excusing this person's crime or its impact, just saying we should try to be consistent and punish crimes based on harm caused, and not describe or punish crimes differently based on who commits them.
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novabird
It's me, novabird
06:26 AM on 02/23/2012
I respectfully disagree. A teenaged girl named Courtney Stodden willingly married a has-been middle aged actor in the United States and the public reacted with outrage and disgust.
And here have been many recent news stories of teenaged boys entering into sexual encounters with much older women and those women subsequently being charged and put in jail.

And personally, I believe that on the scale of human depravity pedophiles rank up there with mass murderers and crooked bankers. While most pedophiles don't murder their child victims, they kill the spirit and damage the souls of the children they use for sex, which causes their victims years of suffering afterwards.
12:49 PM on 02/23/2012
there's miles of difference between "willing" and "not fighting" or "giving in". these boys weren't willing.
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MsCanuck
Wife, Mother, New Democrat, Pro-Choice, Atheist
10:45 PM on 02/22/2012
THat monster should have his d*ck cut off, nothing else will stop him. All those poor boys he completely destroyed, and destroyed their careers as well, nothing the Court hands to Mr. James can make up for the lost opportunities - Shame. And to have the ba!!s to ask the Court for leniency.
06:51 AM on 02/23/2012
I'd go for euthenization. These people are simply "wired wrong". There is no rehabilitation. They are like rabid animals.
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MsCanuck
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07:41 AM on 02/23/2012
Sounds good.
10:44 PM on 02/22/2012
An apology. Are you kidding me???He did this because he liked them best? It makes me ill thinking that he won't get the time he deserves, which is the rest of his life in prison. To Sheldon Kennedy, Theoren Fleury and Todd Holt--it took great courage for you to come forward. I hope and pray you all find some type of peace in your lives now. Be kind and forgiving to yourselves, you did nothing wrong. NOTHING. Not even staying silent and suffering. That's what happens and pedophiles know that. Thank you for being the men you have become. I am apologizing for a court system that may not give a sentence that reflects the horrors you have lived through. Wishing you all the best. God Bless.
10:22 PM on 02/22/2012
I hope they bunk this guy in jail with a brutally ugly, drooling, brain damaged 280 lb Calgary flames fan... Joel Otto or Jim Peplinski are probably in there...go Canucks!
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Canadiananana
I used to be disgusted...
10:08 PM on 02/22/2012
I was a victim of abuse myself. Enough said.
I am usually a strong believer in rehabilitation for criminals. But, I am ashamed to say, that in the case of Graham James, I might actually agree with Pierre-Hughes Boisvenu's cell with a rope idea.
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see-ellen2001
09:02 PM on 02/22/2012
"He claimed James has been vilified in the media and is not the "beast" he has been made out to be. The lawyer likened the case to the Salem witch trials.". Big difference; those men and woman killed during the witch hunts were INNOCENT. Mr. Graham is not.
07:12 PM on 02/22/2012
This guy was not just an abuser. He abused potential NHL hockey players in Canada no less. It's a wonder this guy has survived this long. I think he's going to have a tough life on the inside.
07:09 PM on 02/22/2012
This ruling smacks of a horrific disrespect for the victims. There lives have been changed forever. This was chronic abuse by someone able to completely control them without interference.

It is ridiculous to call this a witch hunt, this is a criminal who should have been held accountable. The message is clear, it is not that serious to abuse and take young people's innocence from them.

He is not rehabilitated at all, his history as a highly skilled manipulator is very capable of telling the court exactly what they want to hear. He is a sociopath. I am sorry for the victims - you did not deserve this outcome.

Well at least we can all be assured that this pedophile, who spent most of his life abusing young people will certainly not do that again!!!!

The law should not focus on the best interests of the guilty.
06:54 PM on 02/22/2012
I really cant stand Chris Brown but for the life of me cannot understand how adults who have lives and apparently successful ones can go around poking him. Yes thats what that is-Poking also known as provoking. And react about how he has a short temper because he reacts to you provoking him.
Some of you even go as far as hoping Rihanna would get beat up again and I quote someone "hope she ends up in hospital" What kind of so called "mature" adults are you. All these self righteous people going in on Chris Brown actually have nothing better to do with their lives. If they were trully concerned about the young man wouldnt have it been better to reach out to him and talk to him like mature adults should. Seriously all of the concerned parties involved need to grow up. As for Lambert you want to talk domestic violence then talk about it but it does sound like you are using Chris Brown for publicity. Further more you keep provoking him which is extremely classless. Must be nice being the spokesperson for morals when you are a homewrecker.Lastly Chris Brown needs to leave Twitter .As for the idiot putting a ransom on Chris Brown's head I hope you realise that there are some crazy people out there and that you should be careful what you ask for because you might just get it. Yes that really makes you more mature #sarcasm
07:30 AM on 02/23/2012
... what?
12:51 PM on 02/23/2012
F&F