Women Travelling Alone: 'Wear Fake Wedding Ring,' Says Canadian Government

Women Travelling Alone Ring

The Huffington Post Canada   First Posted: 02/28/2012 12:02 pm Updated: 03/11/2012 8:38 pm

The latest version of a travel brochure released by the Canadian government has sparked some controversy among those who have no interest in lying about their marital status. The "greater obstacles" faced by women travelling alone, especially in relation to cultural and religious beliefs, could require donning a wedding band, whether it's real or fake.

"Her Own Way: A Women's Safe Travel Guide" was first published by Foreign Affairs and International Trade Canada in 2000, and outlines female-specific tips for travelling. Its advice includes coping with sexual harassment and ways to find safe accommodation, "one of a woman traveller's primary goals."

But as OpenFile Toronto reported earlier this week, the 2011 version -- the third reprinting of the brochure -- includes information about travelling that can also mean changing your relationship. "Wear a (fake) wedding ring," it reads. "Also carry a photo of your husband (or an imaginary one), which you can show to persistent suitors. Being seen as married will lower your profile and stave off uninvited advances."

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"The suggested strategy to 'wear a (fake) wedding ring' was first included in the most recent edition of the guide, following extensive consultations with dozens of experienced women travellers, missions abroad, consular case management officers and travel experts," explained Foreigns Affairs spokesperson Jean-Bruno Villeneuve told the Huffington Post Canada in an email. He went on to say that the advice was situation-specific, rather than country-specific.

But the segment has come across as judgemental, and even dishonest, to some.

"It's an approach that some Canadians believe is deceitful, paternalistic and preachy, while others think the lie is a good safety technique for women," wrote OpenFile reporter Carol Thomson.

While the Canadian government isn't the first to suggest such a practice -- travel forums like HostelBooker.com and TravBuddy.com are filled with similar such advice -- Ottawa appears to be the first authoritative body to publish these findings.

An equivalent document in Australia, "Travelling Women," carries similar tips about being careful after dark and even bears a warning about starting overseas relationships (as does the Canadian brochure). Nothing is mentioned about relationship status.

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02:54 PM on 05/20/2013
Safety always gets the big headlines. We believe that women should check the US, Canadian, UK etc foreign advisories to get a balanced nonpolitical view, then try to find an English written newspaper in the destination they are investigating. One gives you a diplomatic view and the other the street scene. Phyllis Stoller, from www.thewomenstravelgroup.com
08:38 AM on 09/21/2012
I think this is unnecessary and misleading information I've travelled all over the world, currently I'm living in Oman and I've never worn a wedding ring. On one occasion I've said to someone I was waiting for my husband, but that's it. In the first place, a ring is not going to keep you safe from whatever danger may lurk around the next corner and in the second, I think it creates an aura of paranoia. Where's the joy in travel if you have to be afraid of whomever you meet? Might as well stay home! See all the dangerous spots I've travelled - Colombia, Ecuador, Peru - and I wasn't wearing a ring!
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08:35 PM on 03/14/2012
It took me two weeks before this was the most important thing I could find to read...
as
I read the title...
wear a fake ring while travelling...
(good idea for a married couple to not lose their rings)

not wear a fake ring while travelling ALONE...

which is much more interesting...less..travel tips..
reading.
03:26 PM on 03/13/2012
When I was young, thin, and blond I would chat up just about anything female that wandered near me. However, a ring indicated that a girl/woman was off limits so I looked elsewhere. Pretty simple idea.

The ring can keep more than wannabe Lotharios at bay, a ring means that there is someone at home who will miss you very soon if you don't call that evening. Another layer of safety.

Face it folks, men don't have the problem of strange women persisting after we say "No." Men also don't get kidnapped very often and sold into white slavery. It's just the way the universe works.
08:29 PM on 03/03/2012
shocks the hell out of me. Vacationing in foriengn countries for 40 years. Now I, like 1.4 million other Canans winter safely in Mexico. Never believed anybody was stupid enough to wear real bling on vacation. A few people that stupid make it risky for every traveller. I wear a $10.00 watch. Anything else in any tropical area would be too stupid for words.
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04:13 PM on 03/04/2012
Bling is not necessary--and as you say, ill-advised. A thin, simple band is enough.
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04:18 PM on 03/04/2012
I should add, in many situations. There are some men who remain undaunted--there are boors and bullies in every country.And men with warped identities.
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12:33 PM on 03/03/2012
When I was a flight attendant, the woman who trained us strongly suggested we wear rings when we worked. She called it a "no pest strip".

While ideologically it is discouraging that such advice is necessary, IT IS NECESSARY. Wishing things were different doesn't make it so.
08:30 PM on 03/03/2012
Bet she never aaid "wear a diamond"
03:30 PM on 03/02/2012
other part of the world(Arab). Why it is believed that kids are properly cared by mothers only? Why women control 62% of earning of men and who never spent on himself as compare to women? Men often harassed by women but they never tells. There should be a strict rule for violation of law (for harassment ) but there should not be huge influence or support to particular Gender without any reason. Because gentle men often face fake complaint by empowered gender. Men are not Criminals they do have feelings like Human. WE SHOULD HAVE STRICT RULES BUT NOT PERSONAL INTEREST FOR PROTECTION OF PARTICULAR GENDER. BECAUSE BOTH GENDER ARE HUMAN. NONE OF THEM IS STRONG ENOUGH TO FACE ANY SERIOUS PROBLEM IF EVER EMERGED. I am sorry If anything goes wrong way and i am not against women. Rest do whatever you want. Take care
03:29 PM on 03/02/2012
Why discrimination towards men. Why women are believed to be so weak. Women are preferred in all corner for the jobs. A robber will hurt equally to men too if he want money. Why women are supposed to be molested by men? Why men are exposed to hard and harmful jobs? Why average life of men have been reduced by 7 years as compare to women? Why they need extra power every time in the countries like Canada, USA etc even women empowerment/ protection required in other part of the world(Arab). O FACE ANY SERIOUS PROBLEM IF EVER EMERGED. I am sorry If anything goes wrong way and i am not against women. Rest do whatever you want. Take care
03:27 PM on 03/02/2012
where is my comment
08:40 PM on 03/03/2012
It was too stupid for words. so they held it back for a while, waiting for inteligent people to comment. then, out of desparation, they posted it.
09:02 PM on 03/04/2012
I forget, some people believe they are born intelligent as you. This was not for request for rely. It was an request to admin for showing my comment on site. No one would wait for a while only a super star like you can think that far. I thought you could read the fact but i realized that you are super start and they know every thing better than every one.
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03:14 PM on 03/02/2012
Why discrimination towards men. Why women are believed to be so weak. Women are preferred in all corner for the jobs. A robber will hurt equally to men too if he want money. Why women are supposed to be molested by men? Why men are exposed to hard and harmful jobs? Why average life of men have been reduced by 7 years as compare to women? Why they need extra power every time in the countries like Canada, USA etc even women empowerment/ protection required in other part of the world(Arab). Why it is believed that kids are properly cared by mothers only? Why women control 62% of earning of men and who never spent on himself as compare to women? Men often harassed by women but they never tells. There should be a strict rule for violation of law (for harassment ) but there should not be huge influence or support to particular Gender without any reason. Because gentle men often face fake complaint by empowered gender. Men are not Criminals they do have feelings like Human. WE SHOULD HAVE STRICT RULES BUT NOT PERSONAL INTEREST FOR PROTECTION OF PARTICULAR GENDER. BECAUSE BOTH GENDER ARE HUMAN. NONE OF THEM IS STRONG ENOUGH TO FACE ANY SERIOUS PROBLEM IF EVER EMERGED. I am sorry If anything goes wrong way and i am not against women. Rest do whatever you want. Take care.
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12:26 PM on 03/03/2012
Please return to your MRA sites, Yanibha.
02:10 AM on 03/02/2012
What's new about this? Women and girls have been doing it for years, and it's simply sensible advice. We cannpt expect or demand the world to bend over backwards to adopt our attiudes when we make our entrance in a foreign culture. In my case, I went backpacking around South America when I was 19, back in 1971. In Brazil, Colombia, Peru, everywhere I was hassled the moment I was alone. Mostly I was travelling with friends, a coupld, and sometimes people thought I was the man's second wife -- or something. When I travelled alone I let it be known I was married (though I didn't bother wearing a ring).
I also travelled overland to India shortly after that - and lived there as a single woman for over a year. I didn't have to say I was marriedf there; once people knew I was there for spiritual practice I was highly respected and went everywhere on my own, even slept on the ground outside my hut.

These countries are not necessarily "backward". That's just from the Western perspective. We have no right to demand they change for us. If you cannot deal with another country's culture then don't go.
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01:12 PM on 03/01/2012
I travelled alone in Northern Europe in the 70s - restricting myself to that area because I thought it was the safest for a young woman travelling alone. I always wore long sleeves, trousers or full length skirts - and usually wore a hat - and experienced routine harassment - except in Norway and the UK. The youth hostels were particularly dangerous at the time because of all the young men from Turkey, Egypt, etc., who lurked around and preyed on women. They assumed North American women were there on a sex holiday and treated them accordingly.

My daughter and her friends have travelled abroad more recently hand have had similar experiences, although they avoided youth hostels. To blame women for this conduct, or to say that confident women who conduct themselves in the "appropriate" fashion won't be harassed is either naive or dishonest and I favour dishonest.
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11:52 AM on 03/01/2012
It's actually good advice for travel in certain countries that don't value women much, and value single women without children even less.

It's practical advice, not ideological.
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12:38 PM on 03/01/2012
which is the majority of the world.
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01:24 AM on 03/01/2012
Don't think a fake wedding ring is going to help too much. They are not looking at a woman's hand when they start groping and pinching. Being a lone woman is sufficent to bring on harrassment.
03:49 AM on 03/02/2012
Seeing the ring is insignificant. Men will look at women no matter what and looking isn't the part women have trouble dealing with. The trouble begins, for a woman traveling alone who wants to keep it that way, when men engage and that is when a ring comes in handy. It can be a huge time and energy saver.

I've done this and it doesn't work like a magic shield but once the ring is waved and the husband shaped road block is mentioned it often fully deters casual suitors and alleviates pressure from the disrespectfully persistent ones.
Nothing short of a tazer is going to stop a groper but that's far from the only sort of disrespect and harassment women deal with when traveling alone. I've tried honesty until I was blue in the face more often than I've claimed matrimony and surprise, surprise honesty is often no match for men on a poon hunt.
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04:03 AM on 03/02/2012
Yep. When we travel in Islamic lands my wife is always treated with respect when she's with me. Let her get separated or go out alone, and they consider her fair game.
05:35 PM on 02/29/2012
actually , despite the heavy religious posturing, the men of the middle east are really the most promiscuous , and will bang anything with fair skin , be they female , male ,young or old.
its not only the women that get propositioned , and they don't consider it gay as long as they are the aggressor .
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Ashok Hegde
09:20 PM on 02/29/2012
Yes, every time the women I would travel with would walk a few feet away, the men would hound them, tell them they love them, compliment anything...general harassment. Then, if I would walk with them, it's back to the posturing.
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01:21 AM on 03/01/2012
Yes. My wife and I are frequent visitors to Islamic lands. When we are together she is treated with utmost respect. When she ventures out alone or gets too far apart from me, she is 'fair game'