Mothers Favour Daughters Over Husbands As They Age, Study Suggests

The Huffington Post Canada  |  Posted: 04/23/2012 12:23 pm Updated: 04/23/2012 1:30 pm

Move over husbands -- as women age, their focus shifts from partners to daughters, a study published in Scientific Reports suggested.

In an analysis of cell phone activity, researchers found middle-aged women most often contacted young females, presumably a daughter, based on age analysis. A male from the same age group, possibly the husband, came in second, while younger males (assumed to be sons) came in third.

Who are men calling? Primarily their wives, researchers believed -- and phone calls to children were an equal amount for both genders.

The study researched 1.95 billion phone calls and 489 million texts from a mobile service provider in a European country over a seven-month period.

Scientists suggest the trend reflects a change in priorities, as after age 40 women’s biological roles tend to shift from finding a mate and reproducing to nurturing grandchildren.

Project lead Vasyl Palchykov told the Toronto Star the study could indicate “that however modern our society this ancient, instinctive feature finds a way govern our behaviour.”

Other experts, however, believe these findings have other explanations.

The dynamic could indicate the existence of marital problems, leading wives to turn to their daughters for companionship, Beverly Hills psychoanalyst Fran Walfish told ABC.

Or it could simply mean mothers and daughters become better suited to offer each other advice as the years progress, hypothesized one 24 year old, Anouk, in The Daily Mail.

"I know [my mother] will tell me what is the right thing to do, rather than tell me what I want to hear,” she said, adding that her parents maintain a strong marital foundation.

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08:06 AM on 04/24/2012
Does anyone else find it extremely disturbing that our text messages and phone calls are traceable to the point of the relationship between the sender and receiver being known??? I think we need to worry more about the invasion of our privacy than the number of text messages being sent between husbands and wives (who presumable live together and likely do not need technology in order to communicate on a day to day basis).
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Billk29
Justified Ancient of Mu
06:22 AM on 04/24/2012
This will leave men more precious time to watch football.
04:07 AM on 04/24/2012
This is silly. Women call their husbands less often than their daughters because they live with their husbands and don't need a phone to talk to them.
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Ranta
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12:30 AM on 04/24/2012
It's been my experience that husbands and daughters come in far behind the grandies.
08:24 PM on 04/23/2012
"In an analysis of cell phone activity, researchers found middle-aged women most often contacted young females….
"The study researched 1.95 billion(!!!!) phone calls and 489 million texts…
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How could they do this study? Did the researchers select middle-aged women using their personal data to spy on them and on the people these women were calling?
07:01 PM on 04/23/2012
This is wonderful news as Men prefer Boats, Trucks, Garages, Pets and quiet all before wives. The main problem is we can`t get them to leave, now I know women believe that we would die with out their immeasurable Love`` but at least we would die happy. `Maybe now maybe we can get them to move in with their Daughters the problem of course is that about 99% of all daughters love their father and tolerate their mother, well their is always the Sister (Single) Hopefully.
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jf12
Esta vez saldré como las otras y me escaparé.
04:38 PM on 04/23/2012
If they exist, it's daughter, mothers, sisters, all before husbands.