CALGARY - Calgary's Catholic school district is going to review its policy against allowing students to be vaccinated against the virus that causes cervical and other types of cancers.
Four years ago, the district said No to the HPV vaccine, a position that was strongly supported by Calgary Bishop Fred Henry, who opposed the vaccine on moral and religious grounds.
The district's board of trustees now says because of recent medical studies it will consult with parents about offering the vaccine to Grade 5 girls.
The Calgary Catholic district is the only school board in a major Canadian city that doesn't allow students to receive the HPV vaccination at school.
Earlier this month, researchers published a study in the journal Pediatrics that says the HPV vaccine has not been linked to increased sexual activity in girls.
A group called HPV Calgary said last month it may launch a legal challenge against the school district over its anti-vaccine policy.
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Stop by or call to chat
And be ready to talk. This might not be the easiest conversation you've ever had, but young women in treatment often feel quite isolated and have a lot of information they have to understand -- not to mention a lot of fear. Allow her to be sad and acknowledge that it's hard. Supportive emails or notes in her mailbox can also go a long way.
Make a meal
Food -- meals, muffins, fresh fruit, or restaurant gift cards -- it's all helpful. Groceries are often difficult while in treatment when you don't have the energy and smells in the store make you feel nauseous. This can be as simple as knocking on the door with some strawberries or a schedule of families that are interested in making meals.
Women in treatment don't expect gifts -- time and friendship are more important -- but if you are looking for something as a thoughtful token, waiting room gifts (ex. books, magazines and games) are always helpful. <a href="http://www.rethinkbreastcancer.com" target="_hplink">Rethink Breast Cancer</a> is a Canadian charity that works with younger women affected by breast cancer and they have an excellent list of helpful products for women in treatment called <a href="http://www.rethinkbreastcancer.com/support-programs/chemo-care/" target="_hplink">Chemo Care</a>. The suggested products could be purchased as a care package for a friend about to start treatment.
Help with kids
If your friend has children, this can be one of the biggest sources of worry and stress. Dropping off a new video or small toy for the kids is often helpful. Volunteering to pick up the kids or have them for play-dates is also helpful -- and sometimes even essential. I also appreciated when friends asked what they should tell their own children about my illness to make sure they were 'in-line' with what we were saying at our house.
Strive for normalcy -- and even fun!
Even though my life felt far from normal, I loved being invited out in the evenings or chatting about what everyone was doing on the weekend. What a relief to have a break from cancer!
Go with her to an appointment
As part of my treatment, I needed 17 rounds of Herceptin, which is a drug that is given intravenously in the chemo room. Going in that room was always tough so I often asked a friend to come with me. To my amazement, I ended up looking forward to these appointments! Afterwards, we would try to go out for lunch together which made it a "fun" outing rather than just a cancer treatment.
Offer to help her research
Looking online about part of your diagnosis seems like an easy solution, but it can quickly become a minefield of scary answers. If I had a burning question, I loved being able to pass it to a friend to look up and give me the shortened -- and safely edited -- version of the answers she found. Any helpful books, articles or resources friends found along the way were also greatly appreciated.
Know when it might be tough
For good friends, it can be thoughtful to send a supportive email or card after appointments when test results are discovered. It's also really helpful for friends to understand that while the physical treatment is hard in so many ways, the emotional fears <em>after</em> treatment can be almost debilitating.
A few words of caution
Most people have their own personal baggage around breast cancer and not everyone is able to have a deep conversation about it. Don't feel that you need to force it if you're not comfortable. However, if at all possible, try to be cautious about mentioning all of the people in your family who have died from breast cancer. It's not that your friend doesn't feel for your situation or that she might not be able to talk about it with you in the future, but when she is first diagnosed, she is clinging on to the thread of hope that she will be able to be one of the ones to beat this disease.