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Moments In 2014 That Reminded Us Politicians Are Just People

12/24/2014 09:42 EST | Updated 12/29/2014 10:59 EST

Canadians can be forgiven if they sometimes feel they have nothing in common with the people elected to represent them.

Politicians don't always make it easy for us.

Some seem to speak only in talking points, often with words carefully prepared by other people in other rooms.

Some deflect blame or obfuscate when a simple "sorry" now and again would do wonders.

Some attack and belittle in manners beyond the pale, even for a country that appreciates a clean hit.

And most operate in a world of us-versus-them partisanship that can turn so many of us off.

But it's important to be reminded sometimes that our politicians are just people.

Many are mothers and fathers. Many are wives, husbands and partners. And long before their names were on lawn signs, long before they were big shots, they too were just sons and daughters, sisters and brothers, friends and neighbours.

If we can think of them that way, at least once in a while, we can start to see them as individuals we might approach. Or challenge, fairly, on their ideas and beliefs. Or forgive, when they make the kinds of mistakes humans do and try that "sorry" thing we mentioned earlier.

And maybe by seeing them as people — imperfect and flawed, just like us — we can also appreciate the work they do and sacrifices they make so that the country can function.

In 2014, there were many moments that reminded us that politicians are people. Here are a few we will remember.

When this Tory MP gave a touching speech for his son on World Autism Awareness Day


Said Mike Lake of his "big little boy" Jaden, who was listening from the gallery: "He is the friend who always believes the best, the worker who never wants his shift to end, and the student who makes all of the others better people. He is the brother who loves his sister and is not afraid to show it, and the son who every single day reminds his parents that there is incredible joy to be discovered in even life's most difficult circumstances."

When Justin Trudeau and his wife welcomed a third child

And his top rivals sent along their congratulations

When Jim Flaherty passed away a month after resigning as one of Canada's longest-serving finance ministers

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Photo credit: THE CANADIAN PRESS/Ryan Remiorz

And his last tweet took on so much meaning

When NDP Leader Thomas Mulcair, who spent years battling Flaherty, grew emotional remembering a friend

 

And MPs of different stripes paid tribute to their colleague in different ways

Including Kellie Leitch, the cabinet minister and doctor who tried to save his life

 

Said Leitch of Flaherty: "His friendship, for those of us who benefited from its breadth, warmth, depth and humour, was the ultimate definition of loyalty."

When Flaherty's wife, Ontario MPP Christine Elliott, read a perfect poem at his state funeral

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Photo credit: THE CANADIAN PRESS/Frank Gunn

From Henry Scott Holland's "Death Is Nothing At All":

Laugh as we always laughed

at the little jokes we enjoyed together.

Play, smile, think of me. Pray for me.

Let my name be ever the household word

that it always was.

When a tearful Elizabeth May opened up after the loss of her friend, Farley Mowat

 

When Trudeau introduced his kids to the prime minister at the Calgary Stampede

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Because some things are bigger than politics.

When NDP MP Paul Dewar's facepalm charmed us all

And the guy nicknamed "Angry Tom" had some fun

When Kathleen Wynne said she wouldn't be Ontario's premier if not for the Charter

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Her sexual orientation was a non-factor in the June provincial election but at one campaign stop, Wynne said the Charter of Rights and Freedoms has meant she and her spouse, Jane Rounthwaite, can live without fear.

When Canada's first openly gay premier was later asked if there was a time when she felt she had to "live in the shadows," Wynne said it was Rounthwaite who spent "many, many years" not being fully open — "a very common story among gay, lesbian, bi, transgendered kids."

"I want to believe, and I do believe, because of where we live in Canada, in Ontario, that we can have a society that allows everyone to be who they are," Wynne said. "And so kids like Jane and kids who are growing up questioning who they are will have the support in all of our schools to be exactly who they are."

When Olivia Chow smacked down a racially-charged question

Said Chow: "I believe that everyone counts. No matter where we came from, what colour of our skin, what background, what income level, what neighbourhood we came from, it doesn't matter."

When they weren't afraid to behave like geeks

Like when Calgary Mayor Naheed Nenshi dressed as a "Dr. Who" character at the Calgary Comic and Entertainment Expo.

And Edmonton mayor (and avowed 'Trekkie') Don Iveson wore a "Star Trek" shirt to meet the stars of "The Big Bang Theory" during that city's fan expo.

When the mayor of Vancouver turned into a DJ at Pride

When they weren't afraid to joke around

 

Said Trudeau to "22 Minutes" star Mark Critch: "You're not going to hot-box my office."

And our prime minister refused to stop singing for his supper

In Israel…

And at the Conservative Christmas party…

 

When Tory Minister Michelle Rempel put her mother's mind at ease after a shooter stormed Parliament Hill

And, after the chaos, partisan differences were put aside for a brief, shining moment.

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Photo credit: THE CANADIAN PRESS/Adrian Wyld

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When MPs paid tribute to Sergeant-At-Arms Kevin Vickers...

 

And Barbara Winters, the woman who tried to save Cpl. Nathan Cirillo and told the dying soldier he was "so loved"...

 

And the House of Commons security officers, including Samearn Son, the unarmed guard who took a bullet while trying to stop the shooter

 

A few health scares prompted even those who most vehemently disagree with them to wish them well

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Photo credit: THE CANADIAN PRESS/Darryl Dyck

Former Tory minister Keith Ashfield received treatment after the return of his Hodgkin lymphoma.

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Rob Ford dropped out of the Toronto mayoral race after he was diagnosed with a malignant liposarcoma, a rare type of cancer. After John Tory won the election, the new mayor put forward a motion thanking Ford, who won a spot on city council, for his public service and wishing him a quick recovery. The motion passed unanimously.

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Transport Minister Lisa Raitt underwent surgery to remove a "solid growth" on her ovaries. Raitt also urged other women to be vigilant about any "reproductive issues" they experience.

Again, rival politicians sent along their best wishes.

Earlier this month, Raitt confirmed she was cancer-free.

When two women bravely went public with their stories about sexual assault

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Photo credit: THE CANADIAN PRESS/Frank Gunn

Former Liberal deputy prime minister Sheila Copps came forward in November to say she was sexually assaulted as a young politician and later raped by a man she was dating more than 30 years ago.

Copps wrote in The Hill Times that she did not report the man who assaulted her but went to the police after the rape, and was told "a conviction was impossible."

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Photo credit: Cheri DiNovo Facebook

Ontario NDP Cheri DiNovo also said in December she was the victim of sexual assault and was raped by an ex-boyfriend more than 30 years ago. She did not report the attacks to the police.

Their disclosures came amid a wider national conversation about sexual violence and harassment toward women, spurred by the charges against ex-CBC radio host Jian Ghomeshi and the suspension of two male Liberal MPs for alleged misconduct toward two female MPs.

DiNovo told Maclean's that she even thought about what disclosing her assault might do to the man who attacked her.

"This is so typical too. As women, we still care about what our attackers feel! It's just so bizarre," she told Maclean’s. "I think of myself as a pretty damn strong woman. I always have been. I don't put up with a lot of s–t. So the fact that I felt that way is pretty telling. That's rape culture."

When a retiring MP discussed the toll politics can take on a marriage and family

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Photo credit: THE CANADIAN PRESS/Sean Kilpatrick

Liberal MP Frank Valeriote, who will not run again in 2015, gave a very revealing interview to The Ottawa Citizen's Jason Fekete about how a life in politics can sometimes wreak havoc on a marriage and family life.

Valeriote said the time he spent away led to his separation from his wife and that he is now giving up politics to spend time with his young children.

"What happens over time is your family acclimatizes themselves to your absence, begins their own routines. Sometimes, dropping in on a weekend, you feel like a visitor into what is a family routine that they have established. That's what happens to some of us," he told The Citizen.

"Some relationships, some families are able to withstand that, and some aren't. Clearly, mine wasn't."

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Of course, there were many times this past year when the actions and choices of our politicians sparked disappointment and anger.

There were many times when we had cause to point at an elected representative and wonder how they ever achieved a position of such privilege.

There were many times when we felt justified shrugging our shoulders and saying: see, this is why people don't vote.

But here's hoping that, as we head into a federal election year, we can occasionally see in a new light those who summoned the courage to put their name on a ballot.

And believe, without cynicism, that maybe they aren't so different from us after all.

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With files from The Canadian Press, previous files