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9 Ways To Initiate Sex With Your Partner

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This recent Dear Prudie column might seem like the sign of a marriage on the brink — one partner who won’t initiate sex, and another who is despondent about it. But this scenario can be a lot more common than expected.

Anyone in a long-term relationship has been turned down for sex at least once, says sex therapist Vanessa Marin.

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"Even if you understand the reasons why your partner wasn't open to connecting in that moment, there's still no denying that being turned down hurts,” she says.

Rejection can make a person feel bad or remind them of past rejections, even when the reasons for it are 100 per cent non-personal, she says.

And when those feelings are allowed to fester they can cause real problems for a couple. But the good news is that the problem is not unusual or unfixable. These nine expert tips can help you find out why initiating sex has become a problem and give you strategies for solving the issue before it becomes serious.

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