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Romance is Alive and Well in Cape Breton

Posted: 11/14/2012 12:42 pm

WHITE POINT, CAPE BRETON, NOVA SCOTIA -- In February 2012, just prior to Valentine's Day, Vacay.ca named Cape Breton as the most romantic place in Canada to visit. Immediately, I received emails decrying the selection. And they were all from Cape Bretoners. Cape Breton is too isolated, I was told. There's nothing to do there. Its cities are run down and depressed. Too rainy. Romance is about champagne and chocolates and roses, an interviewer from CBC Radio in Sydney, Nova Scotia told me. It's about Paris and Montreal, not backwater Cape Breton.

At that point, I had never been to Cape Breton. To defend the selection, I turned to my team of travel writers whose effusive praise of the island clinched the selection. (Quebec City was my pick.) They told me about the beauty of it and the warmth of the islanders and the refreshing lack of cell-phone signals, which gave two people looking for an escape from the hectic pace of urban life the time to connect.

Their thinking made sense but one of the reasons I chose to come to this island was to validate our selection for myself. I drove through the rain from Halifax, becoming cynical, as journalists usually do, thinking that Cape Breton couldn't look or feel any different than the rest of Nova Scotia, which was certainly beautiful and charming, though not remarkably romantic. How could Cape Breton be so distinct? I wondered as I neared the Canso Causeway.

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As soon as I crossed that bridge and glimpsed the Bras d'Or Lakes, Cape Breton did indeed spin its magic. By the time I left after a four-day visit, I would have the ammunition of my own words to tell you that yes, Cape Breton is incredibly, undoubtedly and overwhelmingly romantic. And not just because of the astounding beauty of the Cabot Trail, and not just because it offered an escape from busy Toronto to a place that seemed of a different era, and not simply because it has a unique culture that takes you away, and because the 150,000 or so people who occupy this enclave settled primarily by Scottish immigrants are so friendly and kind they instill in you a desire to come back. The reason Cape Breton is romantic is because when you come here you want to share the experience with another.

I sat on a rock at White Point, on the eastern edge of the Cape Highlands National Park, and gazed out beyond the large cross that honours The Unknown Sailor and deep into the azure of the Atlantic and revelled in the aloneness of being there with my wife. You might think you can enjoy such moments in any park in this country or on any picturesque lookout off of a highway. But you can't, not to this degree.

The Cabot Trail makes you stop. Not stop and start. Stop. Stop with all the myriad thoughts racing through your head about work and responsibilities and where to go next. Here, you stop, you linger, you give in to the views that beat you to your knees with their beauty. Of the magnificent roads I've been on, the Cabot Trail is most reminiscent of the Cape Peninsula loop in South Africa, which starts and ends in Cape Town, and thunders through beach villages, passed vistas where you can spy wine country, and over rocky cliffs with dramatic drops that dive into the Atlantic and Indian oceans.

There are other highways in the world that also have splendid scenery and spectacular viewpoints and heart-pounding asphalt descents. The stretch of the Cabot Trail that starts in the Cape Highlands National Park packs all of that in on a 103-kilometre parabolic thrill ride that knocks into you a sense of appreciation for all that really matters in your life.

When you stop to realize that truth, you'll never question the magnitude of Cape Breton's romantic nature.

 

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haggis MacBagpipe
Duns Scotus was right!
07:45 AM on 11/20/2012
Cape Breton surely must be Hy Brasil, the Isle of the Blessed visited by St. Brandon I was born and raised there, in the country, and I hope to die there, if I am fortunate. It is home, no matter where my body resides. I return time and time again, to recharge, visit family. pursue the salmon and trout, and flirt with the prettiest women in the whole land. I summer in PEI, where my beloved is from, and it is such a more domesticated place, although as pretty as can be. Most of it has been tamed.e xcept for the moonshine drinkers up west and elsewhere! May God Bless them,!But I like the wild places, the dark spruce, the mountains, and above all else, the people. my people.
09:27 AM on 11/18/2012
I was born & raised in Cape Breton.
I left at 18 and lived in Toronto for nearly 16 years.
I came back to Cape Breton for all the reasons you mentioned & more.
There are things about the big bad city I miss but this land is The Home of my Heart. . .

I thank you for the compliments you have given Cape Breton on its behalf.
:-)
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billdfalls
09:23 PM on 11/16/2012
Cape Breton has a window the size of a peep hole when it is romantic otherwise it is a backwater. Definately a must see for travellers of Canada but no way romantic. Same could be said for Newfoundland except the people are fantastic & I'm not from NFLD.
06:52 PM on 11/16/2012
When I think romantic cities the first one that comes to mind is Quebec City or Montreal.
Other ones are Vancouver, Tofino and Charlottetown
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piceaglauca
The picture says it all....
10:02 PM on 11/15/2012
The slide show had nothing for Quebec and I would have thought Saguenay—Lac-Saint-Jean would be nice. Aussi, Charlevoix.

Pour le premier:

Cette vaste région tire son nom de la rivière Saguenay et du grand lac Saint-Jean qu’elle relie au fleuve Saint-Laurent. Le cours de cette rivière emprunte un fjord aux saisissantes parois rocheuses qui exerce depuis toujours un incroyable pouvoir de fascination.

et le deuxieme:

La mer et la montagne composent dans Charlevoix un décor grandiose. Sur la côte, les caps se succèdent; de coquets villages se nichent à flanc de montagne ou au creux d’anses paisibles. Sur la route alternent les champs fertiles et les points de vue vers les sommets de l’arrière-pays.
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Harry Bradford
04:29 PM on 11/15/2012
The most romantic place in Canada must be Windsor, Ontario, because this lovely city gave me my beautiful wife.
03:21 PM on 11/15/2012
Adrian
Great article and slideshow, but I believe you missed a greater and beautiful place: New Brunswick.
Whenever you can, please pay a visit.

Regards,
Catalin
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Harry Bradford
12:46 PM on 11/15/2012
The most romantic place in Canada is wherever my wife happens to be at the time.
05:34 PM on 11/16/2012
Awwww...that's so awesome
05:35 PM on 11/16/2012
Awww...that's so sweet.
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Inclousid
11:21 AM on 11/15/2012
Barrie? Are you f'ing kidding me? Wow.
09:38 AM on 11/15/2012
I am a true homegrown Cape Bretoner who like others moved away for brighter lights and bigger things. But in the end, we all yearn to return to the home of our hearts, Cape Breton. My family is from the highlands from which the author speaks of. As often as I have been surrounded by the sights, sounds and smells of the places from which I grew up in, I am still always hit by the magical wonder of nature in all her glory. Cape Breton is majestic, the people are fiercely proud, giving and humble. We think nothing of opening up our door, inviting you to sit in our kitchen with a good cup of tea, a shared meal and great tunes of our ancestors. It is not in our nature to stand and convince someone else how great our island is, we know we have a gem. Keeping it off the beaten track will ensure it`s survival and natural beauty.
08:25 AM on 11/15/2012
Adrian,
Thanks for visiting and sharing such a great experience with your readers! It is great to read such comments about our Island, and welcome any of your readers to visit and experience Cape Breton Island for yourself. www.cbisland.com is our official tourism website.
Thanks again and we hope to welcome you to our Island again soon,

Cape Breton Island
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07:42 AM on 11/15/2012
This is just an ad. The West coast is way better ;p
08:22 AM on 11/15/2012
Actually it is not an ad. An ad would have been paid for, but this was an unsolicited, and unpaid designation, and article. Great to see such great place get a little recognition.
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08:32 PM on 11/15/2012
Nope.
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dentuso
Chewing up and spitting out irrelephants.
06:15 PM on 11/15/2012
Been both West and East, big city and small, Canada and abroad. I also now ended up here in Nova Scotia. Mountains are beautiful. Yes. But it's the people here. That's what makes it amazing.
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09:14 PM on 11/15/2012
Yup, no matter where one chooses to live it should be about the people  :)