"Oh, you're Canadian! Canadians are so nice!"
Yes, yes we are. Keep thinking that world -- but that's not all we are. We are talented, and disciplined and personable, and easy-going and really, just good at life. I love Canada and it's super nice people because while non-Canadians are thinking, "Isn't that cute how she says aboot and pardon me," we are busy getting exactly what we want.
Please don't misinterpret this as conniving. We are too Canadian for that. We are like smart puppies, or cute babies (don't tell me all babies are cute). People want to cuddle us, and we want to cuddle back. Maybe that's why my "slumming it" lifestyle has been working out so well. Our sorrys and humble smiles inspire people to give us things, invite us places. Canadians don't need to rent a room at the Ritz, because most likely, they can just say "Pardon me, but would you mind if I stay here, at your lovely hotel, the Ritz? I'm sorry if it's an inconvenience," and the Ritz says yes. Canada is loveable in all the right, and genuine, ways.
Busted? Yes. Blowing our cover? Possibly. But, celebrating our innate polite but secretly winning nature? With pleasure.
I believe our politeness is fueled by an easy-going nature. Canada promotes a positive "slumming it" mentality. We say "no worries" about sleeping in a tent or commuting by bicycle or bus. We gladly spend weekends at cottages with no electricity, and share dinners of wheat thins, cheese and cheap wine. We're not worried because we love it. To get esoteric, we love nature. With nature love comes an understanding that we are not in control, and when you realize you're not in control, things get a lot easier. So I guess my overwritten thesis statement is, "Canadians' innate connection to nature makes it easier to have 'no worries': relaxed disposition leads to likability."

I think our ability to relax also connects to our pace. When I go to Toronto, I notice we walk slower. This gives us the time to enjoy our surroundings, to smile at passersby, and to notice the birds. The other day, I pointed out a Cardinal to my American roommate, and he responded, "You're so Canadian." Yes, yes I am, and I'm glad my bird identification abilities make me so.
I also like to think Canadians are good at identifying other Canadians. Just this past weekend, my cousin and I attended the Governors Ball Music Festival in New York. Within a half hour of being there, we were hanging out on blankets under the trees with other Canadians, talking about how good the Montreal DJ duo Duck Sauce was. We found people from our homeland, and we found a home base.

So the stereotypes are true, and I want to celebrate them. This Canada day, I am going to be so damn charming to every New Yorker I meet, they will want to buy me a moose. I will also follow the laws of Canadian attraction, and find myself celebrating the day with a bunch of Canadians, and a bunch of pleases and thanks yous, and most likely, under a tree
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You know what's awesome, knowing five languages you can fluidly switch between and not talking about how awesome you are all the time.
If we loved nature, we would protect it. If we were peace keepers, we would quit going to war. If we respected multiculturalism we wouldn't stand by while refugee health-care is eliminated. If we were equitable, the income gap wouldn't be growing at an unprecedented rate. And before you call me unpatriotic, I love this country and feel glad to be born here but know that this is a dangerous road to inflating all the good things while ignoring all the bad.
Museums were initially extensions of the state created to foster notions of patriotism and colonialsim. They same could be said for "Canada Day".
It gives examples and is a nice read on ... You know... Canada Day.
Then sure as rain falling on Vancouver Island out of the woodwork posts the critics with complaints about how wrong and wooly headed the article is.
Two words.... Lighten Up!!!!
What the heck is your problem if you can't handle a positive article about Canadians on .. You know ... CANADA DAY.
Happy Canada Day fellow Canadians.
Have a great day
Myself and a dozen companions were working in the High Arctic, and we had collectively decided to go to Ft. Lauderdale to attend spring break (I was considerably younger then). First day there, we were down at the beach enjoying the remarkably weak Florida beer when a fellow (from the south-west, by his accent) walked by and drawled, "Y'all er from Canada, aincha?"
"Yes!", we replied, Although the ghostly pallor in Florida in March was an obvious indicator we were from somewhere further north, that could still be in the USA, and thus far nobody had actually said or done anything except drink American beer. "How could you tell?"
"Y'all got them great big beards."
:-)
One day I was ringing up a sale for a woman and I dropped her credit card on the counter and, of course, immediately said "Sorry."
"Where in Canada?" was her response with a smile.
"Toronto ... how did you know." said I.
"You said sorry and you are polite."
As I road home that evening on a bus up Lake Shore Drive, realized I needed to come home ... to Canada.
Albeit, Chicago is my favourite city in North America and think of it as home ... I missed Canada more.
Chicago is my city ... Canada is my home.
Lucky me!