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Why I Love Canada: We Could Charm the Pants Off a Moose

Posted: 06/30/2012 12:00 am

"Oh, you're Canadian! Canadians are so nice!"

Yes, yes we are. Keep thinking that world -- but that's not all we are. We are talented, and disciplined and personable, and easy-going and really, just good at life. I love Canada and it's super nice people because while non-Canadians are thinking, "Isn't that cute how she says aboot and pardon me," we are busy getting exactly what we want.

Please don't misinterpret this as conniving. We are too Canadian for that. We are like smart puppies, or cute babies (don't tell me all babies are cute). People want to cuddle us, and we want to cuddle back. Maybe that's why my "slumming it" lifestyle has been working out so well. Our sorrys and humble smiles inspire people to give us things, invite us places. Canadians don't need to rent a room at the Ritz, because most likely, they can just say "Pardon me, but would you mind if I stay here, at your lovely hotel, the Ritz? I'm sorry if it's an inconvenience," and the Ritz says yes. Canada is loveable in all the right, and genuine, ways.

Busted? Yes. Blowing our cover? Possibly. But, celebrating our innate polite but secretly winning nature? With pleasure.

I believe our politeness is fueled by an easy-going nature. Canada promotes a positive "slumming it" mentality. We say "no worries" about sleeping in a tent or commuting by bicycle or bus. We gladly spend weekends at cottages with no electricity, and share dinners of wheat thins, cheese and cheap wine. We're not worried because we love it. To get esoteric, we love nature. With nature love comes an understanding that we are not in control, and when you realize you're not in control, things get a lot easier. So I guess my overwritten thesis statement is, "Canadians' innate connection to nature makes it easier to have 'no worries': relaxed disposition leads to likability."

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Georgian Bay


I think our ability to relax also connects to our pace. When I go to Toronto, I notice we walk slower. This gives us the time to enjoy our surroundings, to smile at passersby, and to notice the birds. The other day, I pointed out a Cardinal to my American roommate, and he responded, "You're so Canadian." Yes, yes I am, and I'm glad my bird identification abilities make me so.

I also like to think Canadians are good at identifying other Canadians. Just this past weekend, my cousin and I attended the Governors Ball Music Festival in New York. Within a half hour of being there, we were hanging out on blankets under the trees with other Canadians, talking about how good the Montreal DJ duo Duck Sauce was. We found people from our homeland, and we found a home base.


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At the Duck Sauce performance at Governor's Ball..with fellow Canadians Georgia Tanner and Christy Prada


So the stereotypes are true, and I want to celebrate them. This Canada day, I am going to be so damn charming to every New Yorker I meet, they will want to buy me a moose. I will also follow the laws of Canadian attraction, and find myself celebrating the day with a bunch of Canadians, and a bunch of pleases and thanks yous, and most likely, under a tree

 

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11:05 AM on 07/02/2012
You know, my favorite Canadian is the YarnHarlot. She is very nice most of the time, I say nice, like accurate and precise and polite all at the same time. But! she doesn't take crap from people, and I think it's cool that she can very clearly lay out her arguements without freaking and cussing. Most American's believe the only way to state their position is to yell, blame, and point fingers while cussing. (Hello Right Wing)....You guys be proud of your day, don't let anyone get you down. America's day of freedom is two days from now, and I'll be happy that we have progressed as a country. I'll still wish I could move to Canada though, lol
12:35 AM on 07/02/2012
I just puked in my mouth. Canadians are just really good about talking about how great Canadians are while no one else in the world gives a damn. Like my backpacking friends who kept asking me "Why do all Canadians wear their flag, in multiplies, on every item they own?". This was a good question and the only good answer I could come up with in the face of all these Europeans is that we are a small nation with an inferiority complex that can't quit talking about our selves.

You know what's awesome, knowing five languages you can fluidly switch between and not talking about how awesome you are all the time.

If we loved nature, we would protect it. If we were peace keepers, we would quit going to war. If we respected multiculturalism we wouldn't stand by while refugee health-care is eliminated. If we were equitable, the income gap wouldn't be growing at an unprecedented rate. And before you call me unpatriotic, I love this country and feel glad to be born here but know that this is a dangerous road to inflating all the good things while ignoring all the bad.

Museums were initially extensions of the state created to foster notions of patriotism and colonialsim. They same could be said for "Canada Day".
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Whistlejackett
Hey stop doing that
06:37 PM on 07/01/2012
Not long ago I was visiting the El Garv in Portugal, having dinner coffee with myself. An argument was in session a table from me. After the display, I was approached by the waiter when he stated to me, "I just hate those '-------", then asked me if I was Canadian, I said yes I was, when he replied, "Canadians are much nicer than those people." The coffee was just splendid!
10:27 AM on 07/01/2012
Every year around the time there's a couple of articles written by people about how it's great being Canadian.
It gives examples and is a nice read on ... You know... Canada Day.

Then sure as rain falling on Vancouver Island out of the woodwork posts the critics with complaints about how wrong and wooly headed the article is.

Two words.... Lighten Up!!!!

What the heck is your problem if you can't handle a positive article about Canadians on .. You know ... CANADA DAY.

Happy Canada Day fellow Canadians.
Have a great day
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Shandra Brown Valyear
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10:10 AM on 07/01/2012
For the most part this article is very true! Like anywhere else, we have our share of rude, insensitive people but for the most part, I love being a Canadian and spreading "niceness"! It is the characteristic that all of us should be proud of.
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DrAWNiloc
Lies tell us twice as much as the truth.
10:34 PM on 06/30/2012
People who think Canadians are reserved and polite all have one thing in common: they've never been to a hockey game.
07:42 AM on 07/01/2012
or watched the House of Commons question period!
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lilkitten22
Be the change that you wish to see in the world
09:50 PM on 06/30/2012
I would say we are like big cats, cute, playful on the outside, but if you annoy us the right way, we will rip your face off :)
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07:59 PM on 06/30/2012
Should be "its" super nice people I think.
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YrthWyndAndFyre
05:37 PM on 06/30/2012
Canadians aren't always identified by their politeness :)

Myself and a dozen companions were working in the High Arctic, and we had collectively decided to go to Ft. Lauderdale to attend spring break (I was considerably younger then). First day there, we were down at the beach enjoying the remarkably weak Florida beer when a fellow (from the south-west, by his accent) walked by and drawled, "Y'all er from Canada, aincha?"

"Yes!", we replied, Although the ghostly pallor in Florida in March was an obvious indicator we were from somewhere further north, that could still be in the USA, and thus far nobody had actually said or done anything except drink American beer. "How could you tell?"

"Y'all got them great big beards."
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SeanMartin
Everything in moderation.
04:02 PM on 06/30/2012
About two decades ago, Macleans ran a poll on how Canadians see folks from the US and vice versa. As it turned out, Canadians viewed USians as "arrogant", "rude", "unthinking" — while the overwhelming majority of the USians saw Canadians as "nice".

:-)
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lilkitten22
Be the change that you wish to see in the world
10:09 PM on 06/30/2012
Most that I have met are that though..lol
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sgillhoolley
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12:34 PM on 06/30/2012
My wife and I went to Paris, and at the train station I quickly identified a fellow Canadian (sporting a flag, of course), and within minutes we had 2 more join us. We decided to find a hostel and all share a room that night. A couple was with us, and we went to the Eiffel tower, just minutes before it closes, so that the guy could propose to his gal. My wife, who is American, was amazed at how we found each other and instantly got along really well. I have had similar experiences many times in my life. I think that most Canadians like their fellow Canadians. I also agree that our mutual love of nature gives us an easy-going demeanour.
11:16 AM on 06/30/2012
I totally agree. Foreigners (especially arrogant Yanquis) constantly underestimate us, and we take 'em to the cleaners, over and over. Canada (except for the Cons) rules!!!
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AlisonCarnie
I am unique ... just like everyone else
10:51 AM on 06/30/2012
As a Torontonian, I lived in Chicago for twelve years ... part of that time was at one of the top ten art galleries in the world, The Art Institute of Chicago, in the modern gift shop.

One day I was ringing up a sale for a woman and I dropped her credit card on the counter and, of course, immediately said "Sorry."

"Where in Canada?" was her response with a smile.

"Toronto ... how did you know." said I.

"You said sorry and you are polite."

As I road home that evening on a bus up Lake Shore Drive, realized I needed to come home ... to Canada.

Albeit, Chicago is my favourite city in North America and think of it as home ... I missed Canada more.

Chicago is my city ... Canada is my home.

Lucky me!
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Whistlejackett
Hey stop doing that
06:41 PM on 07/01/2012
Thanks for your article.