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Ashley Smith: The Need to Bear Witness

Posted: 01/28/2013 5:16 pm

I have tried to avoid looking at pictures of the treatment of Ashley Smith from still photos to videos. But, it is wrong to look away for my own sake. It is wrong for any of us to look away for our own sake.

I read about Noah Pozner, the beautiful 6 year old who was one of 20 beautiful babies gunned down with an assault weapon that fired hundreds of bullets in seconds.

We did not see the pictures of the children of Sandy Hook Elementary after they were mutilated. The mother of Noah insisted on seeing her son. Prior to his burial, she insisted on an open casket. His lower jaw was blown away; his left hand gone. She brought the Governor of Connecticut to see him, as well. The Governor wept. As should all of us. We should force ourselves to witness the aftereffects of carnage. Perhaps then we will fight harder for change.

The same is true of Ashley. We need to see the way she was treated. We need to bear witness to the way she was allowed to die. We need to see it so that we never let our government treat the mentally ill as "lesser than." So that we demand that the mentally ill be treated with the same respect as we treat those with physical illnesses.

We need to see the videos and the photos and hear the testimony of all those involved so that we ask ourselves the question, "What would I have done if I had been told to stand by and watch?" The answer to that question goes to the very core of our being, our personal and societal ethical and moral priorities. Can we rise above orders that go against the right to human dignity and compassion?

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10:18 AM on 01/29/2013
Very sad! From what I read she was a very difficult person but perhaps if people had tried to understand her, helped her, showed her some kindness...didnt move her 17 times , didnt transfer her into a federal adult institution @ 17 yrs of age...etc I wouldnt mind but she didnt murder anyone. She didnt belong in jail or @ least she didnt deserve the treatment she got. She wasnt an angel but still they were all petty offences, the girl was frustrated, depressed, lashing out.. read that she didnt think anyone cared about her. Her treatment in prison would have made her worse!!! I feel sorry for her, dont care she was difficult. How else could she have been. How could a young person cope. I personally think they need to treat the worst offenders- the child murderers- worse than they do...I dont care if they are a difficult person to get along with or not....they deserve it, Ashley did not. Maybe she was just trying to get attention, I dont know but what i do know is that her tying up behaviour was not normal & she needed more help than she was getting in prison. Its shameful @ just 17 she had her future ahead of her if she had just gotten more help. I hope lessons can be learned frm inquest. Im glad this went public!
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02:06 PM on 01/30/2013
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06:34 PM on 01/30/2013
Thank you for your comment. The only way our society will prevent these deaths is to treat mental illness with the same love and attention we provide all other diseases. Ashley was trying to get attention-no one was listening. Ashley should have been in a psychiatric facility where she would have been treated and hopefully lived a good life.
Preventing other deaths like this requires more people like you speaking up.
03:06 PM on 02/13/2013
 It had to be said. I dont think some people care because she was incarcerated so they think who is she, she is in prison, who cares which is so wrong. Ashley was a person and they were petty offences and she was not well. she seemed like a sensitive person, &she was struggling inside too..So many mistakes we made in her case. It's sad  - not only because of her age (altho she was only 17 and for me that means a lot) but also because its a senseless death regardless of her age. She had a family that loved her. She was going to get out of prison soon. She had a bright future ahead of her. And it was stolen from her because they didnt give her the help she needed. It was obvious she needed help and i dont get why they turned their back on her. Esp. a young  person. It makes me so mad as I am mother. It saddens me.  Even in psychiatric institutions they need to have more compassion for people. We all should. 
11:35 PM on 01/28/2013
What is the name of the person who gave the order not to intervene? What were his/her reasons for it?
10:20 AM on 01/29/2013
Apparently they thought she was just acting out, pretending, they never thought she'd commit suicide, never thought she was serious. they dismissed it as asking for attention. They considered her an attention seeker. But regardless she was troubled, this was not normal behaviour. Who does that if they are happy and content. She was a very troubled girl.