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Are We Bad Friends for Serving Cheap Wine?

Posted: 03/ 1/2012 8:58 pm

Not too long ago, we recommended a few crowd-pleasing wines, that are not only delicious, but completely affordable. With a few priced at under $8 a bottle, some would even say our suggestions were downright cheap.

Heralding our own advice, we went to the LCBO to pick up a couple bottles from that list to share with a few friends we were entertaining. But in the midst of shopping, something strange happened: we immediately felt guilty about serving inexpensive vino.

It didn't matter that they were excellent wines, or that we even drink the bottles ourselves as well as recommend them to friends and strangers. For some reason, which surprises us still, we put down the bottles and went in search of something more expensive to serve instead.

Was it because the bottles came from the General List of Ontario's LCBO, and not the exclusive Vintages section? Could it be because we had already touted the value of these (cheap!) wines in print for all the world to see? Were we worried our bargain bottles would make us look miserly and ungenerous? Bingo.

This is shocking to us. We've always bragged about how we search out premium wines at premium prices for our private collections. So if we'll do it for ourselves, why are we not confident in treating our friends with the same philosophy?

What it came down to is that when we host company, we would put more emphasis on the dollar value, and taste and quality comes in second. Sort of in the same vein as putting out the "good" towels.

Now let us offer a little bit of a disclaimer: our friends have always been generous with us. One of the group has enjoyed a successful media career and always edits everything we write before it's sent on to editors, so we don't look grammatically challenged on the professional stage (and believe us, this is no small feat).

Another has sprung for Leafs tickets -- more than once -- and while she has never mentioned the cost, I can bet it was more than 7 bucks.

So we guess with those extraordinarily beneficial and lavish perks not far from our thoughts, our minds immediately warped into altruistic overdrive and we decided to see their benevolence and raise them an indulgence.

But is that really the name of the game? Is that what friendship is all about? Because one friend doles out for a swank evening on the town, or another her professional services, are the others then obliged to return the favour plus some?

I guess in our minds, yeah. We don't want to come off as ungrateful, or ignorant to their efforts. But where does it stop? At some point we'll be footing the bill for weekends in Vegas if this weird goodwill competition doesn't end.

So, in short, we should just get over ourselves. We've fallen victim to the good-karma, what-goes-around-comes-around wheel. If we were really honest with our friends, as they justly deserve, we should just uncork the plonk, cause they'd probably like it more than the expensive stuff, anyway.

 

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merlin57
Hey hey my my...out of the blue and into the black
04:06 PM on 03/07/2012
What I have found is that some people do not appreciate a good bottle of wine. My mother for example and nothing against her as she is a very fun dinner companion, will pour whatever bottle is hanging around on the table into her coffee cup after she has finished her coffee and desert. We also have 2 friends who will mix 7-Up into their wine.... no way are they getting their glasses filled with a $40 bottle of wine LOL.
02:13 AM on 03/04/2012
My taste in wine doesn't seem to follow what it costs or how fancy the label looks.

A honest way is to serve the wine you like to drink.
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rickthaluddite
What noisy cats are we
08:57 AM on 03/03/2012
It all comes down to this:
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07:36 PM on 03/02/2012
Serve what you like and can afford, and find out who your real
friends are.

A real friend will drink your Old Milwaukee and not bitch. Rib
you, maybe.
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InedaName
Clowns to the Left of me. Jokers to the Right.
06:03 PM on 03/02/2012
I have found that most people don't know, or care, how cheap a wine is as long as it doesn't taste like vinegar. So if you just keep quiet about the price and decant it into a carafe, no one is the wiser...
03:21 PM on 03/02/2012
hee hee hee, I do the same. I buy better than I drink at home when I have guests over. But hey, they are a special occasion.
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Brad Haskel
09:31 AM on 03/02/2012
I would think that what you serve would have a lot to do with the context you serve the wine in. Good wine is good wine. First and foremost, it has to be good for its type. If it isn't expensive, good for you. Do you have to show them who made your watch, your car, and your eyeglasses to be accepted as their friend?
After that, are you having a casual get together, or a more formal dinner? If the food is very casual and easy, then I think it is a natural that the wine is the same. If the food is more intricate and detailed, then probably the wine should follow suit.
08:25 AM on 03/02/2012
I wouldn't serve cheap wine, even if it tastes good...but it doesn't mean you aren't good friends!!!
Francois G
(S)trolling... don't feed me...
05:44 AM on 03/02/2012
Where I started reading, I was thinking about "is it about the kind of wine for the kind of friend topic ?"...

I understand what you feel and the kind of competition going on between friends to open up the best bottle. I remember serving a Montrachet to a special friend who always treated us very nicely (is Leflaive Chevalier 200 more Chevalier than the 2001 ?). Thank God, we got over it.

Unfortunately, to some, best means more expensive than better. My wife and I call them "label drinkers", meaning they're more interested by the label (and the price) than by the wine itself. Of course, we ourselves are label dinkers since we like Grands Crus Classés but not at any price...

My point is if your friends are truly friends (and wine lovers like you are), you don't have to feel ashamed, they'll understand. Else, make new friends.
11:16 PM on 03/01/2012
I hate to break it to you but yes, you're cheap. there are NO good wines under $8.00 and if you truly appreciate good wine you would know that. Suck it up and return the favour and serve your wine appreciative friends a decent quality wine priced between 15-25 dollars. It won't break you and they won't have to pretend to smile while they choke down the undrinkable plonk you put in their glass.
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09:34 PM on 03/01/2012
As long as it doesn't send them blind ... you're a good friend.

Now perhaps we should just enjoy each other's (slightly tipsy) company. THAT'S the important point.