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The Shafia Women: Killed By Double Standards

Posted: 01/30/2012 7:09 am

Thankfully, we have a conviction in the Shafia "honour killing" trial. The verdict for the three accused family members is guilty as charged on four counts of first-degree murder. The Shafia couple and their eldest son Hamed will now face the almost inevitable prospect of life in prison.

Perhaps at the time of committing the heinous crimes, the trio had forgotten they were no longer living in Afghanistan where such crimes go unreported and unpunished. Indeed, in those parts of the world, such atrocities are often not even regarded as crimes. But Canada's legal system did not fail the victims. After weeks of exhaustive testimony and hours of jury deliberation, justice was delivered to the unfortunate victims of the unthinkable crime.

The jury had to decide between three possible outcomes: guilty of first-degree murder, guilty of second-degree murder, and not guilty. The jury could also pass a different verdict for each of the accused. However, the facts of the case being as incontestable as they were in terms of damning evidence, no other outcome of the jury's deliberations seemed likely.

A second-degree murder verdict was a non-starter. There ought to have been some immediate provocation to the convicted trio for things to have escalated to the point where all four victims were led to their brutal deaths. The jury therefore faced two stark choices: arriving at a guilty verdict for premeditated murder or a "not guilty" verdict because of lack of evidence.

But evidence was aplenty. The inconsistencies in the testimony of the three, the Google searches, the email conversations, the forensic evidence, all pointed to one thing alone: that the murders were planned and executed by the trio to protect the family honour from what they perceived to be the girls' sinful and dishonourable behavior.

But even though justice is served, the girls and their sympathetic stepmother are gone forever. That is a sad reality we must now live with. Yet, we must also strive to learn from this tragic episode. Indeed the trial has exposed a cultural pathology that needs a closer and unbiased examination.

Regrettably, far too many men raised in patriarchal settings regard their female offspring as liabilities. The birth of a female child is often marked with anxiety and dismay. Later on, the issue of family honour kicks in when the girl reaches puberty. In fact, the notion of honour revolves primarily around women and their sexuality and conduct. The men in the family are rarely subjected to the kinds of constraints their female relatives endure. It is mostly when the conduct of the women is perceived as dishonourable that matters worsen.

Mr. Shafia's polygamous marriage is an example of such double standards. His eldest son, the now convicted Hamed, also enjoyed the liberty to move around town freely. His sisters on the other hand, were forbidden even from visiting the local library. Rona Amir, the fourth victim of the crime also wished to leave the oppressive polygamous arrangement, but was unable to procure a divorce from the patriarchal Mr. Shafia.

Little wonder most victims of honour crimes happen to be women. Such too was the case with the Shafia sisters and their stepmother. But justice is now served. Let this be a lesson to all who wish to impose patriarchal values on their daughters, sisters, and other female relatives: Canada will not tolerate such horrendous violence in the name of patriarchy, honour, or religion.

 
 
 

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Thankfully, we have a conviction in the Shafia "honour killing" trial. The verdict for the three accused family members is guilty as charged on four counts of first-degree murder. The Shafia couple an...
Thankfully, we have a conviction in the Shafia "honour killing" trial. The verdict for the three accused family members is guilty as charged on four counts of first-degree murder. The Shafia couple an...
 
 
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10:17 PM on 01/30/2012
Thank you Ms Hassan for speaking up the truth. You have the courage to state what is real and you have made an amazing effort to educate those uneduacted people who do not know that such brutal bahaviour as displayed by the murderers of Shafia sisters cannot be tolerated under any circumstances. Please do not let people who try to intimidate you for speaking up the truth stop you from continuing the noble job of promoting social justice and equality. Hats off to you.
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09:58 AM on 01/31/2012
Thanks all, for the comments. Needless to say, some people are not happy with what I have stated in the above blog post. For me, however, the protection of innocent lives is far more important than defending practices rooted in patriarchy. Unfortunately there will always be individuals who will continue to turn a blind eye to the horrendous cultural attitudes that lead to such despicable violence toward young women. Most victims of honour killings are under 18. Breaks your heart!
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07:34 PM on 02/03/2012
May I also add my support, Farzana. You are indeed doing excellent work.
07:58 PM on 01/30/2012
The murderers of Shafia sisters got what they deserved, life in prison. Kudos to Farzana Hasan for views on this sad event in the history Muslims in Canada. Every Muslim must declare his conviction that this will not ever happen again in Canada. we should all be on the look out for the safety of young Muslim girls.
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05:11 PM on 01/30/2012
Bravo Farzana Hassan. You the man!
04:30 AM on 01/31/2012
Yup - she the woman!
04:33 PM on 01/30/2012
Finally, there is justice. But I can't help but feel that it was a little too late. These girls repeatedly called out for help to all the "right" people...teachers, shelter counselors. I'm not placing blame here, these people probably did all they could do under the law. It's just so unfortunate that it took their deaths for them to finally get away from these monsters.
For me, this case had nothing to do with Islam. This case was about a narcissistic, abusive father, a brainwashed,unstable "mother"(I say that word very loosely), and a brainwashed, unstable son. All seeking to permanently hide their abusive deeds.
I would hope that this case would be a warning to others, but I just don't think it will. Because right now, as statistics have shown, there is a woman being brutally beaten or killed right now as I type this.
It's not just an "Islamic issue" it's a world issue.
08:15 PM on 01/31/2012
"It's" mostly an Islamic issue.
03:30 PM on 01/30/2012
I wonder if it is a matter of abandoning religion as it appears more liberal views on many things, including views on women in the west has coincided with a less religious society. Does there exist a conflict between Islam and the rights or role of women that is accepted in the west?
08:16 PM on 01/31/2012
Yes.
02:39 PM on 01/30/2012
Ms Hassan hit the biggest issue right on the head with "men raised in patriarchal settings". As a man, I am personally appalled by the number of males over twenty I encounter who are emotionally 13 or lower. I find this particularly true of males from strongly patriarchal upbringings. Part of the maturation process is learning to deal with and/or learn from dissenting/conflicting perspectives from your own. However, if you are raised as a little prince and never challenged or told you are wrong, how do you grow emotionally? Patriarchal is a disease that needs to be eliminated.
02:15 PM on 01/30/2012
How can it really be said that Canada's legal system did not fail the Shafia women? They were murdered after all... in Canada.... for rebelling against an oppressive family regime. It has also been remarked by the prosecutor that "Canada's legal system protects the rights of ALL". Surely that cannot be said either, so long as women are still being murdered for exercising their rights in this country. It may be the only justice that can be had at this point, but protection? really?
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01:58 PM on 01/30/2012
This was a good beginning to an article about patriarchal double standards. It lingered too long on the facts, which are known, but only briefly touched on the duplicity in which girls are raised. A cultural comparison would have been useful to illustrate that Western "standards" are really not that different in their messages to girls.