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Should Quebec Shame Me Out of Speaking English?

Posted: 01/16/2013 8:01 am

"Ici on gagne à parler français" -- it was a Government of Québec campaign in 2011, to promote the use of French language when doing business. But Madame Pauline Marois has inflamed this campaign in an apparent attempt to kill the English language in Québec.

From trying to wither English classes in Québec schools to forcing mandatory French communication in Québec businesses, the health industry, service industry, and prompting acts like Métro employees putting customers in headlocks because they spoke English -- there are obvious problems. Québec's Bill 101 Article 46, which states that an employer can't require employees to have knowledge of a language other than French, isn't helping. And Bill 14 will make it worse. Our social harmony is being uprooted.

Oui, je me souviens, on parle français. But we speak other things, too. Dogs woof; Immigrants don't get their native languages sucked out of their grey matter after clearing Canadian customs; and sure, there might just be some of Shakespeare's language heard in the QC as well.

I was born, raised and live in Québec -- I always write it with an accent regardless of what language I'm writing in. I also pronounce it as such, and not "cue-beck" or "qua-beck". I am not francophone but learned English and French concurrently. Living in predominantly English-Québec communities, English ended up being my dominant language. English people make light of the fact that I say things like "close the light" rather than "turn off", and French people still confuse me with slang sentences that don't quite translate like "Swing la bacaisse dans le fond de la boîte à bois." Sometimes, I've been told that I have an accent in both languages.

My ancestors were among those who discovered La Nouvelle France; "Drouin" was my paternal grandmother's last name. Since my maternal side is Italian and Anglo-Saxon, however, all my life I've been reminded by Québec pure laines, that I am not Québecois and will never be one of them.

As a child, I remember the very judgmental caterpillar asking Alice in Wonderland who she was, and I feel, at the ripe age of 35, the language gun of Madame Marois, wants me to make an identity decision based on whether I ever want to speak English in the streets of the province of Québec again. There are vigilante groups emerging tapping people on the shoulder as they walk down Rue Saint Catherine in Montréal while having a private conversation in English, being told "ici on parle le français." Waiters and others who work in the service industry are also refusing to serve people with an English tongue.

My head screams all the curse words I know in both languages when I hear things like these. Oui, je parle français -- but if "ici" means everywhere that I go, I am being asked to abandon the Anglo side of my identity. Is Madame Marois going to penalize French Québecois for using English words from time to time as well? Like "tapis welcome"? Couldn't we consider an evolution of language and culture? Even the Vatican has evolved the rules of God, so couldn't Madame Marois do the same with language?

My family, including my three children and their Nova Scotian stepfather -- who is doing his best to absorb and adhere to Québec culture -- speak both languages at our Gatineau home. It is exclusively French everyday from 5:30-7:30 p.m. and my four-year-old is akin to the Québec language police, reprimanding anyone for any illegal language activity during that time.

She mixes both languages in each sentence generally speaking anyways, so unless you're bilingual you might have a hard time understanding what she's saying. My older children tolerate being teased at their French school for mixing up a masculine and feminine article now and then. And I bit my cheek rather hard when told by a teacher that my children would never be as good in school as their classmates because they didn't dream in French.

The crux of my argument is this: I put a lot of effort into preserving the French language and culture in my family's life -- because I love my country within my country. But the Anglo-Franco, Canada-Québec schizoid identity is very onerous to own, and I certainly get no credit for it from French supremacist Madame Marois, whose credo seems to be that Anglos should be wiped out of the province and the province should be torn off like a limb from its Canadian body.

A recent Ipsos Reid Poll shows that half of Canadians outside of Québec don't care if Québec separates, so my Canadian compatriots have resentment towards me as a Québecoise as well -- am I overdramatizing when I say that it sometimes feels likes I have no country or countrymen to turn to?

In 2011, I ran in federal politics for the Conservatives in Gatineau, standing proud Tory blue and proud Québecois fleur de lis. Some campaign posters were vandalized with Bloc Québecois logoed tape across my mouth, there were some threats, and someone once spat at me when I approached them with an "Ici pour le Canada" sticker on my coat. I wish the culprits had known what I learned as Director of Communications for a Cabinet Minister -- the constant and determined push that the Harper Government makes to ensure that Québec, the French language, and the French people are always represented, stood up for, and respected in every event, announcement, activity, and so on -- whether a Cabinet Minister likes it or not.

I love Québec and I stand up for it. I wish I could say that my petit nation thought I was the ideal Québecois. But no, I feel like Madame Marois wants to turpentine the Anglo off of me or have the French Québecois alienate and exile me. There are many of us Québecois who are not pure laine, but Québec is the only place that is home to us. If people of all religions, of all races, of both genders can live together in harmony in this province, why can't Anglos and Francos?

I am Québecoise, and je me souviens. I remember and appreciate Québec language, traditions, ancestry...and I remember and appreciate the importance of a responsible provincial government. I've kept my end of the bargain, can the Québec government now please keep theirs?

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    Bachelor's degree in social services from Universite Laval; master's in business administration from l'Ecole des hautes etudes commerciales in Montreal. <em>Pauline Marois, chief of the Parti Quebecois speaks to the supporters after the elections results announced at Olympia theater in Montreal, Quebec, Canada on December 8, 2008. Liberal Premier Jean Charest won a majority in Quebec elections Monday, spoiling a separatist comeback with a mandate to bolster the Canadian province's slowing economy, said television predictions. </em>

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    Social services administrator from 1971 to 1979; political attache for PQ in 1978 and 1979; university professor, 1988. <em>Pauline Marois, chief of the Parti Quebecois speaks to her supporters after the elections results announced at Olympia theater in Montreal, Quebec, Canada on December 8, 2008. Liberal Premier Jean Charest won a majority in Quebec elections Monday, spoiling a separatist comeback with a mandate to bolster the Canadian province's slowing economy, said television predictions. </em>

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    First elected to legislature 1981; named to cabinet in 1982 as minister for status of women; ran for PQ leadership in 1985, losing to Pierre Marc Johnson; served in various senior cabinet positions in PQ governments from 1994 to 2003, including finance (1995-1996, 2001-2002), health (1998-2001); deputy premier (2001-2003); ran for PQ leadership in 2005, losing to Andre Boisclair; acclaimed as PQ leader in 2007; became leader of Official Opposition following 2008 provincial election. <em>Parti Quebecois leader Pauline Marois makes a speech for the announcement of new candidates, during a press conference held at Montreal on July 31, 2012. </em>

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    Married to Claude Blanchet, former head of Quebec government's investment arm. They have four children. <em>Parti Quebecois Leader Pauline Marois stands outside her bus as she launches her campaign in Quebec City on Wednesday, August 1, 2012. Marois held a news conference before Premier Charest officially called an election. </em>

 

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08:31 PM on 01/17/2013
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08:22 PM on 01/17/2013
Seems the blogger has a case of "white man's guilt"/ stockholm syndrome.
Repeat, 100 times,...it is not my responsibility to protect/ pay for their dialect.
It is theirs.
It is not my fault they are self destructive, self victimizers.
It is theirs.
repeat til cured of their blame shame game.
06:17 PM on 01/17/2013
I'm also of both anglo and franco origin going way back, never had any problem "being accepted" as Quebecois, as a Canadian, even as an American... So guess it's more something mot related to language. Just like at school some kids are popular other less so.
12:04 PM on 01/17/2013
Unfortunately for Marois, about 1/3 of the pur laines will be leaving the province in the next 15 years, never to return. Just check the obits. The majority of the educated french have their kids in English Language training, the most popular after school course in Quebec today. The really smart ones are also having their kids learn Spanish and Mandarin. Worldwide, the usage of French is going down, as well as Italian and German. Watch the look on Marois' face when the economy dives, and the feds won't allow her to subsidize her social programs with Alberta'a money as she has been doing. One well placed "NON!" and it will all unravel. You think the students were petulant? Wait until parents have to pay the full cost of daycare, $85/day instead of $7. Or when the bridges start collapsing because all the cash went to the Office de la Langue Francaise. Gestapo. It is a beautiful language, and it's sad that it is fading. But times have changed. I'm more concerned with getting food into my kid's bellies, than filling their heads with a dying language. Thank goodness poutine is so cheap.
11:58 AM on 01/17/2013
you made a critical error about the language law, article 46 say that other language might be given where the services warrent, ie. the subway/metro system and the buses.Otherwise i relate 100% as most do also.
11:19 AM on 01/17/2013
.... my lineage traces back directly to one of the original french setlers of quebec city

(i am cote - my moms side is Drouin).

my parents are both french canadians thrue and thrue, but having grown up in Southern Ontario, i am franglais

not really belonging to either side and as such, i am one of meny (not so lucky) who can see and understand the french / english rivalry in Canada for the lame duck it really is.

but shame isnt a language thing, you can spot the lack of it by any mode of qualification
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01:28 AM on 01/17/2013
Like clockwork, as soon, as a PQ government is elected, the Québec-bashing starts. The accusations that Marois wants to make English illegal and to eliminate the anglos is ludicrous, just plain ludicrous. The reality is that language laws in Québec have never taken rights away from the anglo minority. They always have been about protecting the rights of the franco majority not to be forced to speak English.

But whining about not being able to force employees to speak White or to force businesses to communicate in English isn't a winner politically, so the anglosupremacists prefer to talk of their "rights"... While not being able to say which right of theirs is violated exactly. Their real aim is to make Montréal English and then to extend English presence until English becomes the primary language in which business and politics are done. Theirs is Durham's dream of assimilation. That's why they are so frustrated by laws that make immigrants learn the language of the majority (as is the case EVERYWHERE in the world).

Thank you for this article, which reminds us of the need to keep defending the French language and the contempt anglosupremacists have of us who refuse to assimilate in their society.
08:47 PM on 01/16/2013
As an American in Quebec I've always felt outside of the language conflict. I have a french speaking spouse, and a bilingual child. I've enjoyed the opportunity to speak in french rather than felt like an obligation. Since I was not considered to be an "anglais" no quebecois seemed to mind my accent. This was until I was directly discriminated against and mistreated at a job due to my anglophone mother tongue. It was only when I started a cruel job search following that firing for my "possible inability to understand french in a crisis situation one year into the post," that I realized I was not Quebecois...no matter how fluently I speak French, how talented I am, nor how far east I live I will never be on the same playing field employment wise as native Quebecers. I have a job I love now but with no chance for advancement. I'm qualified and talented at my work but 80% of jobs in my field are excluded because I studied in the US or because I am at advanced but not fluent level of french or because employers hire who they know. It really gave me a reality check that after years of studying french I'm not as valuable in the work force. I was working with a masters degree with individuals with technical degrees and it was me they let go first. I no longer feel welcome in the same way to this province.
09:01 PM on 01/16/2013
That's a story that has been told many times in this country, welcome to Quebec? Only if you are pur lain.
11:40 AM on 01/17/2013
Wrong... you're welcome if you make the effort to try. For me, I find it hard to believe that somebody who was born here 50 years ago can't speak one word of French. Go in Algeria for 50 years or in Chile, you'll have to learn the language way quicker than that. Now go make a run in the Eastern townships and you'll be amaze to see how many people can't or don't want to speak French. Maybe 90% of the Anglophone community can speak French fluently but most of the time... they just don't want to make the effort. Next time I'll go to Ontario or Alberta, I won't expect to be serve in French, but since Quebec has only one official language I think it's perfectly fine and normal to defend it all the way through. Even more, I personally encourage the other provinces to do the same to defend theirs. When I say bonjour and somebody reply Hi... I personally believe it's an insult. Because it means that the person doesn't want to make the effort to try, like it's lowering their level. In my family, there is English and French and both made the efforts to understand each other. Bilingualism shouldn't be a one-way policy in neither of the communities. But since Anglophone lives in the only French speaking state of the entire American continent, I don't think it's asking too much of them to try to understand who they're speaking with.
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08:35 AM on 01/17/2013
Lynn Lessard, It makes me very sad & angry for you to feel/be so unappreciated and discriminated against within the Canada. My family has been in Canada for six generations and if I went to PQ I would be treated as a badly or worse than you. I do not know what the solution is for my beloved country to deal with the PQ satisfactorily . I feel confident in suggesting you look into moving your family to British Columbia. We have many Americans who have sojourned to BC or live here on a permanent basis. There are lots of opportunities for educated, experienced professionals in BC. Lots of different types of communities to choose from. Best of luck to you and your family.
05:08 PM on 01/16/2013
So It seems that many Texans wants independence from the U.S and so do the people of Quebec from Canada.... A perfect match? Well maybe for the comedians out there at least. I truly think it would be worth it for the rest of North America to allow them independence if they agreed to join together, for the pure entertainment value it would provide.
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08:37 AM on 01/17/2013
Ha. Jimmy45 ,I think you just have just come up with a great basis for a sitcom. I'd watch it.
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09:20 AM on 01/17/2013
Maybe 1 in 3 in Quebec want independence. They are a tiny and shrinking minority.
04:13 PM on 01/16/2013
As a transplanted Anglo, born and raised in Alberta, I find that the media continually tries to create the impression that francophones in Quebec are all xenophobes disliking anything English or rather English Canadian. Having been here now for eleven years, I can truly say that that is just not the case. Almost all of the francophones I have ever dealt with have been very accommodating, and it is only a relative few (mainly the political elite) who have ever given me the impression of being anti-English. In fact, most francophones realize the value of learning English, be it from a pragmatic/economic sense of just purely for personal reasons.

It disturbs me to read in media or listen to relatives and friends from western Canada the anti-Quebec sentiments; most of of which are baseless and are only used by politicians/governments to further their own agendas. The fact that this young woman ran for the Conservative Party in the last election is a red light in itself . The Conservative Party is famous for its divide and conquer tactics, of which they played to the hilt during the last election. Quebecers were told and promised one thing; Westerners another and both were played against each other. And when the media starts to whip up this frenzy day after day, is it no wonder people start believing the distorted "truths" they are presented with.
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09:23 AM on 01/17/2013
I agree 100%. I was born in Montreal, but my family left in '84 (with the 2nd exodus). I moved back to Montreal 2 years ago with my American wife and children. We love it here, and the only time we feel the anti-Anglo sentiment is when I read it here on the Huffpost. When I left the English and French absolutely did not get along. Were I to go to a convenience store outside of the West Island as a kid the staff would have feigned ignorance of English and found it far too difficult to understand my imperfect French. Today I could go to a convenience store in the Frenchest areas of Montreal and still be served in English. Attitudes have changed, and those who still feel anti-Anglo are relics of the past.
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03:13 PM on 01/16/2013
First of all, like it as been said already, Congratulations for integrating french in your life that is all that is expected of you in truth. It is so much more than most of the people complaining about the Marois Gouverment are doing.

Myself, I am a French-Quebequer exiled in BC who has done the effort of learning English to be able to communicate. Do I ever get a clap in the back for doing so? Do any of the French Canadian who speak English everyday get any credit for adapting to the majority's language? Very, very rarely, but we do get some dirty looks whenever we speak French amongst ourselves and it is considered rude to do so in the presence of an English speaker. So why shouldn't it be rude for English speaker to not try to speak French in front of us? Isn't that a double standard?

Maybe Marois is scared for her language, maybe she is going too far with her campaign, but this ridiculous anti-frenchi propaganda you are doing here Jenn doesn't do any favors to anyone! I was in Quebec just 2 months ago, I was talked to in French and English and it seemed to me like the old war between the 2 is on the verge of dying. Maybe the hatred you feel isn't related to your language after all?
05:21 PM on 01/16/2013
Yes it is rude to speak in an alternate language in the presence of someone who can't participate when there's is another language that will allow everyone to be involved in the conversation. No matter if its French to English or vice-versa or any one of the 1000's of other languages in the world. My Spanish is only passable, yet when in Spain if someone addressed me in English I would always respond in Spanish if there were non-English speakers around. It is incredibly rude to exclude them by choice.
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09:24 AM on 01/17/2013
So you are saying that people need to cater to those who dont bother learning more than their mother tongue?
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06:45 PM on 01/16/2013
Canada is an English country. The VAST majority (80+%) speak English, nearly 70% as a first language. The % that speak french MIGHT top out at 30%.

If you don't like that, I hear France is looking for tax payers.
07:50 PM on 01/16/2013
That is why we make the effort of speaking English when we get out of Quebec, all we ask for is the same in return. Too much to ask for or did your mom raise you to be rude to people?
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08:18 PM on 01/16/2013
Maybe it is you who should get out of Canada. Go to US, England, Australia, but get out.
Someone mention xenophobe in this forum...
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02:56 PM on 01/16/2013
First things first, I strongly disagree with your brandishing the Conservatives as defenders of Quebec society. The Conservatives themselves like to pretend they are, but the vandalism you faced as a Tory candidate is as much, if not more, because many Conservative's values clash with French Canadian values and the Harper government shows nothing but disdain to all those who disagree with his view or methods.

I mostly agreed with you until you put politics into it, though I disagreed by you putting everyone in the same basket.

I am really "pure laine" Quebecer. For 400 years, my family has been in Quebec. Yet I am fluently bilingual. Ironically, I happen to speak English mostly to allophone people who settle here.

I agree with you, many "champions" of the French language are actually xenophobic who can't live in a bilingual world. They feel threatened, and those goes on badly on English speakers (the others get sympathy instead...if they try to learn French). They see the English as conquerors yet. The all-comprising Americanization of the world is no stranger to this either and strikes a particular cord here.

I wish both people would get along. And they do get along well in many places. But radicalism doesn't solve problems and antagonizes people. I also see English speakers who declare themselves victims because they don't want to learn French when they live in all-French environments. I wouldn't think of speaking only French in Saskatoon...
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09:57 AM on 01/17/2013
If one speaks English and French (less proficiently) you think the person should only speak French while in PQ? That's ridiculous.

Why do all PQ claim to have 4 hundred years of family in Quebec?
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11:03 AM on 01/17/2013
It is not merely a claim : I did my own research and genealogy. It just happens it's true for 3 of my grandparents. I mentioned it only to show not all "pure laine" are insulted by English speakers and feel invaded. My generation is usually quite tolerant, in fact.

I'm not defending people insulted if you talk to them in English first in Québec. They're xenophobic and fearful. I will speak the language of easiest communication for all involved, either French or English. That should be the case for all people.

So I'm not saying you should speak French all the time in Québec....but if the people you're speaking too don't speak English, you better try French in the end... Makes for easier communication, the key for all understanding.
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Dolly Lama
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12:19 PM on 01/16/2013
I consider myself French Canadian even though I do not live in Quebec, after-all my Mother was born there and her family lived there for over 400 years. My French is horribly mangled but when I visit Quebec I try my best to make myself understood, if they want to hear French then they are going to hear my wretched version come hell or high water! I think French language lessons should be free anywhere in Canada, I can no longer afford to keep taking lessons!
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02:12 PM on 01/16/2013
I think everything french should be free. French toast, French fries, French maids.
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05:22 PM on 01/16/2013
I agree!
09:16 PM on 01/16/2013
That all stems from the socialist utopia of Quebec, give everything for free. Sort of reminds me of the FN. Get over it, you lost the war and we allowed you to keep your language as well as your culture, the same couldn't be said if the french had won said war.
11:11 AM on 01/16/2013
In other parts of Canada, French classes in schools are mandatory, our labels are bilingual, and speaking both languages is seen as an advantage. During the last separation referendum, I signed documents, went to demonstrations, and did many other things to show that I wanted Quebec as part of Canada. I feel that our French heritage is an important part of our national identity.

I now feel that Quebec doesn't want me, though. I am expected to respect the French language and heritage, and if I didn't I would be reprimanded. It is applauded, however, when Quebecois refuse to use English, insult anglophones, and try to keep anyone else from speaking English as well. If this behaviour - and the condoning of it - continue, I am less certain of what my own views on another referendum will be.
I feel hated because I speak English. It is difficult for me to tell how widespread these incidents of harassment of anglophones are, but it makes me reluctant to bring my two daughters, who have very little French, to Quebec. That makes me sad.
01:18 PM on 01/16/2013
There might be French-Canadian that insult anglos but its true on both side. Although I appreciate your dedication to the french cause in Canada, historically it was not that way.

I found it suprising that anglos don't understant Quebec resentment against anglish canada. And it's not just in the past. Contempt is still alive. The reality is that Quebecois are not at home anywhere but in Quebec. I've been everywhere in Canada and I don't feel it's my country. That's what made me a independantist. I fell more at home in the U.S. than in ROC. That's sad but it's a fact.
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07:56 PM on 01/16/2013
@redmaple, I agree with you. I worked +20 years in Ottawa, travel around the world for my work also in Canada from Ouest to East, North to South. It is sad but it is impossible to feel home in the rest of Canada but in Quebec.
09:18 PM on 01/16/2013
Then you best learn Spanish, or is it that you prefer to speak English only?
01:59 PM on 01/16/2013
In Quebec learning english is mandatory also and speaking both languages is strongly encouraged.

''when Quebecois refuse to use English, insult anglophones, and try to keep anyone else from speaking English as well.''The Quebecois living in montreal has to deal daily with English speakers who have this exact same attitude towards french that you condone against English. Yet that fact is rarely brought up in huffpost canada.

Do come with your daughters most Quebecois who see you try to make an effort in french will be quite understanding and will even switch to english if they can. Don't believe the anti-french hype you read you will be quite safe. The real problem lies with those from both the French/english side who are unwilling to make an effort. Bigotry exists in all peoples of all countries and cities don't forget that.