Featuring fresh takes and real-time analysis from HuffPost's signature lineup of contributors
Kerry Sauriol

GET UPDATES FROM Kerry Sauriol
 

Parents Need To Speak Up About How Kids Are Being Taught

Posted: 02/04/2013 1:46 pm

The media, online and off, has been buzzing about various education announcements coming from B.C. Premier Christy Clark's office. The last one about a proposed 10-year contract between the Government of B.C. and the B.C. Teachers' Federation (BCTF) sparked a lot of debate, none of it terribly positive for either side of the table.

For parents and students (the ones with an actual stake in the plan), there isn't much to be done about it except wait and see. Parents of school-age children don't actually have much of a say when it comes to who and how our children are being taught. We can show our opinions by our vote or we can move our children to private or home-schooling, if we are so lucky.

Something does have to change with the way our kids are being taught though. Every school year, the teachers bring out the same decorations for each season and theme. Nothing seems to change. I like most of the teachers at the school, I think it is a pretty good place and my children seem to be (after a few bumps along the way) be doing OK. Just OK, not exceeding, not failing, but going along in the middle, like a school wants their students to be.

But when I see the same old, same old, I really start to question the value of the curriculum in our ever quickly changing society.

Are our schools keeping up with what is truly relevant in our world? Our school has a large computer centre with its own teacher. I have NO clue what is taught there. The kids bring home printouts about "online safety," but I don't think these courses actually mention things like Facebook or Twitter.

My son came home from some sort of presentation on the topic and the only thing that stuck with him was a story about people spying on you through your webcams. None of what was told actually resonated with is already existing online life.

Wouldn't it be good if they taught kids how to research online? How to source information and not violate copyright? I don't think elementary school is too young to learn this, not if the kids are already developing Internet lifestyles at home. The kids are merrily cutting and pasting images with no lessons about the legality of this.

Could they not perhaps start to cover basic keyboarding skills too? I suppose I will have to request a special meeting with this computer person when the next parent-teacher conference rolls along.

I think the biggest thing we have to realize when the talking heads are discussing our children's future that it is up to us on the ground to make sure our kids are learning what we want them to learn.

A Twitter discussion set me off again when parents and teachers were discussing what to buy or make for their kids class Valentine's. My question is, WHY? Why are we teaching Valentine's at all in classes? And not the actual origin of the day but instead what the card, flower and chocolate makers want our kids to know: how to be good little consumers.

Why not just make cards for parents or sick kids or something. Why make a fuss of the day at all? I was told that parents would be upset if we didn't do it. Why? Is it really relevant to the world we live in today? We want to teach our children to be the next heroes and givers, but instead we mark a day by rushing out to the dollar store and writing 25 cards that end up in the garbage as soon as they are home.

If this attitude is just me, then I apologize for wasting all your time, but I just thought we wanted the future generations to be more enlightened than what we seem to be right now.

There is absolutely no point in agreeing or disagreeing with the premier or the BCTF if we the parents don't speak up and have a voice in how our children are being taught in the 21st century.

I will step off my soapbox now.

 

Follow Kerry Sauriol on Twitter: www.twitter.com/CrunchyCarpets

FOLLOW CANADA LIVING
The media, online and off, has been buzzing about various education announcements coming from B.C. Premier Christy Clark's office. The last one about a proposed 10-year contract between the Government...
The media, online and off, has been buzzing about various education announcements coming from B.C. Premier Christy Clark's office. The last one about a proposed 10-year contract between the Government...
 
 
  • Comments
  • 23
  • Pending Comments
  • 0
  • View FAQ
Comments are closed for this entry
View All
Favorites
Recency  | 
Popularity
11:22 PM on 02/06/2013
Well that was a fair wander around the block and back, not sure what point you were actually trying to make. But there is one point I would like to make about the 'middle of the road kid' that you claim the schools wants them to be. That is nonsense, how well a kid does at school is a 50/50 proposition 50% of the school and 50% of what a parent does to reinforce their childrens learning at home. If you don't know what your kid is doing in computer class that is your fault - go find out. You don't have to wait for teacher/'parent nights, you really can drop by at the end of school and just ask.
On-line saftey is all about social sites do's and don't's my kid learned it and they also learned to type properly at school and supported at home.
12:14 PM on 02/05/2013
I have posted about this before.....how many parents here have kids who learned how to type in public school?

It seems a no brainer to me as kids are expected to use the computer daily but my stepson never learned to keyboard correctly (we are in Ontario). If we can't do even the basic stuff.....what hope is there for more complex learning?
11:55 AM on 02/05/2013
This is a completely ill-informed opinion piece. When teachers talk about "online safety", 95% of what we discuss is Facebook and smartphones followed by Twitter, Tumblr, Wordpress, etc. etc.

Further, we base vast amounts of projects and assignments on social media, and modern information sources, since it actually resonates with students and will, hopefully, make it meaningful.

We spend huge amounts of class time teaching how to do proper online reasearch, and you can bet that at least 50% of essays and research papers handed in still list Wikipedia as a source.

Both teachers and parents need to work together instead of blaming one another. And schools and parents need to allow teachers to fail students.
HUFFPOST SUPER USER
Cael
11:11 AM on 02/05/2013
Our school systems are based on the regurgitation method. it definitely needs to focus more on the research method.
photo
albertarick
These are questions for wise men with skinny arms
09:52 AM on 02/05/2013
Does it ever dawn on you that you and your children may be, just OK, not exceeding, not failing, but going along in the middle. Not like a school wants them to be, just because they are OK. What is wrong with that?
03:44 AM on 02/05/2013
The Minister of Education had some kind of a project not long ago where he brought this discussion to the table (meaning, how education should look like). Like what Enden described below, many recognized that there is a wide range of abilities and different speeds of development. One of the solutions to that was to scrap the system where we have age-centric schooling in favor of an ability-centric one. I looked for the actual website I read this, but couldn't find it. It was a while ago, when Abbott was still the Minister. I did find this report, however:

http://gelponline.org/sites/default/files/resource-files/case_study_bc.pdf

As for me, personally, I would definitely prefer if the level of my children's education was higher, and would motivate more critical thinking. I would also like to see more hands-on real-life teaching such as Permaculture. They are still very young though, in K and grade 1, so I tend to feel that I'm being impatient in that regard...
11:46 PM on 02/04/2013
Given the enormously diverse aptitude of students in every classroom, in all grades, fewer and fewer students are developing at speeds best suited to their capabilities. Lessons go by either too quickly or too slowly; are too detailed or too superficial, are too difficult or too easy.

The range in abilities can be attributed to ever more reasons; poverty, malnutrition, poor parenting, poor teaching, family issues, language issues, diminishing work ethic, overblown curriculums, student distraction, fewer disciplinary options, more students with mental health concerns, anxiety, bullying, poor social skills.

While at school, there are additional reasons why student's brains function in low gear; never ending classroom interruptions due to assemblies, holidays, PD days, sick days for students and/or teachers, teacher seminars, fire drills, lock down drills, computer malfunction, Internet malfunction, photocopier malfunction, switch days, boredom.

Successful students are invariably the result of good parenting. When parents accept the idea that lessons at school are merely a bonus over and above what MUST be taught at home, they will understand the responsibilities they have in their child's development.

Reading, writing, addition, subtraction and knowing the multiplication tables have all become HOME LEARNING TOPICS. Teach your children these things and they will be less fragile within school and in life.

All the other stuff, keyboarding, copyright laws, research, these are small potatoes. Intelligent students will pick this stuff up in no time. And for the less intelligent students sorry, but it doesn't matter. They must develop their HOME LEARNING TOPICS first.
photo
HUFFPOST BLOGGER
Kerry Sauriol
01:10 AM on 02/05/2013
"Successful students are invariably the result of good parenting. When parents accept the idea that lessons at school are merely a bonus over and above what MUST be taught at home, they will understand the responsibilities they have in their child's development. "
But there is not enough communication until usually it is almost too late for those parents who are unprepared for the 'home learning' and some do not have the resources themselves to take it on.

We need a better vehicle for communication and understanding between schools and parents..I really don't think parents feel that they are stakeholders in the whole education system at all.
HUFFPOST SUPER USER
cdncommentator
09:51 AM on 02/05/2013
Absolutely true. If you rely on school to teach your children basic skills like reading, writing, and maths, then your child will fall behind. It is up to the parents to teach these skills because schools have abandoned systematic and proven methods of teaching these skills. The problem is that this increases the inequality of children and ensures a continued gap, because the child's ability to master skills essential to independence in adulthood depends on a parent's own education, resources, intellect and time.

Parents should march to their local teacher's college and to their provincial Ministry of Education and demand changes to the curriculum and how time is used in the classroom so that all children can be taught the skills they will need in the adult world.
11:24 PM on 02/04/2013
i don't disagree with all you have to say but just think before you write it!

i agree with you about valentine's day - in the end it always amounts to the same "participation" phenomenon that plagues the sports program in schools

the other point you have to remember is that teachers spend an awful lot of extra time preparing materials for curriculum and unless your kids are repeating grades they don't generally see the "same things every year." remember that we spend what, 6 hours, with your kids and you spend the rest. you, as a parent, have an obligation and opportunity to extend learning into your home. most computer/technology teachers DO teach keyboarding and privacy stuff but it's your call if your kid has facebook, mobiles, ipads, and even access to the internet. we the teachers are not your babysitters, but we often have to be because many parents see us that way, and we have to bridge the gap between your lack of teaching your kids basic manners and listening skills. (i say "you" not as in all parents but some). and we have tons of resources so if you want work to give your kid at home - JUST ASK!

also, the next time i come into YOUR office you better have changed the decorations on the wall. i don't want to see your awards and certificates in the same frames as before. and please, get a new coffee mug - "World's Greatest Journalist" is getting
photo
HUFFPOST BLOGGER
Kerry Sauriol
01:05 AM on 02/05/2013
lol......the issue I have is that there is not much room to ask. When I had questions about my son's education the union rep was called into the meeting. What has the union got to do with a parent wanting some answers about issues going on with my kids education?

And yes..parents do have an obligation to teach the rest of the time and many sadly don't and so the burden is on the school the teachers and the other parents out there having a better way to communicate and build a system that addresses curriculum issues, questions about what is being learned and perhaps new ways that do indeed push parents to being more involved in their kids education.

My point is...there has to be a better way than what we are currently wading through.
12:29 AM on 02/06/2013
i agree.  unfortunately sometimes the union rep is necessary.  it depends on how you approach it with the teacher and whether the teacher is hiding behind the union or not.
photo
HUFFPOST SUPER USER
Gabriel Oakes
12:11 PM on 02/05/2013
I distinctly recall wasting at least a third of the year, every year, going over the previous year's lessons, when we could have been getting on with it. I swear they went over basic multiplication three times running, Acting as if the summer break evaporated everything past how to tie one's shoes. So yeah you do see the "same things every year".
10:59 PM on 02/04/2013
Did it ever occur to you that your son can't "remember" anything about a presentation or topic at school is because he wasn't... listening? Or didn't care? Or was distracted by his iPhone or someone else's that parents all seem to think it appropriate to send to elementary school children these days?

What if... parents worked as being PARENTS and we raised our kids to be curious, disciplined, respectful beings, and teachers worked at being TEACHERS, whose job is to motivate, encourage, and impart knowledge and skills!? How would you like it if teachers told parents how to parent? There are enough examples where parents need a bootcamp session or two about effective parenting.

If you knew anything about the school system, you'd know that my children are in classes where the teachers are too busy parenting other children who come to school with almost no skills to learn, and teaching becomes secondary. You'd also know that teachers bring an ENORMOUS wealth of creative, dynamic, and interesting educational practices into the classroom. I'm shocked you would judge the content of their ENTIRE curriculum based on some window or wall displays. Seriously?

I laughed out loud re: Valentine's day and parental pressure. And you are advocating for.. what, exactly, if not that very thing?
HUFFPOST SUPER USER
cdncommentator
09:58 AM on 02/05/2013
If schools had more consistent discipline in the classroom and more consistent and systematic ways of teaching basic skills that require practice and repetition and memorization, then there'd be fewer problems.

The biggest problem is the curriculum. The whole language method of learning replaced basic progressive systematic teaching tools like phonics, memorizing math facts, graded reading, spelling, handwriting, etc. etc. Not to say that these systems didn't leave out kids. The problem is throwing out the baby with the bath water. Schools and teachers should have both tools in their tool kit. This way all the children learn, instead of many (mostly boys) who are now offloaded into the pseudo-educational medical system which has grown up around the whole language method of instruction. Now, children who can't learn by osmosis (totally normal) are shunted off to therapies, psychologist, neuropsychologists, physiotherapists and the like as early as SK or Grade 1!!!

As for the classroom, it's time for the learning to take place at desks arranged to face the teacher, and for there to be progressive discipline and strategies to keep the classroom quiet and a proper place for learning. Instead of a free for all, periodic breaks to get energy out are better, and for god sake, don't teach children on the carpet, which seems to be very popular, but a recipe for misbehaviour and squirming, especially on the part of boys who generally learn better when they understand the expectations and have clear boundaries.
09:07 PM on 02/04/2013
She writes: " my children seem to be (after a few bumps along the way) be doing OK. Just OK, not exceeding, not failing, but going along in the middle, like a school wants their students to be."

Really?!! That is very strange assumption.

She says: " Our school has a large computer centre with its own teacher. I have NO clue what is taught there." Why doesn't she go to the school and find out?

Then: "If this attitude is just me, then I apologize for wasting all your time." Apology accepted. Please go to the school, ask some questions, and the next time you write, please write from an informed point of view.
photo
HUFFPOST SUPER USER
Medusa Sant
Jedi on the streets. Sith in the sheets.
12:17 PM on 02/05/2013
Apparently she DOES go into the and asks questions, LOTS OF THEM. To the point where the Teachers need to bring in a rep to deal with the onslaught of questions.
"When I had questions about my son's education the union rep was called into the meeting. What has the union got to do with a parent wanting some answers about issues going on with my kids education?"
07:41 PM on 02/04/2013
The unfortunate fact of today's society is that the ONLY way parents are going to be heard is if they form an association that can compete with the Teacher's Union and get the attention of the government. The current state of education is somewhere between poor and terrible and part of the reason is that parent's have no say.
This user has chosen to opt out of the Badges program
04:03 AM on 02/05/2013
By high school Canadian students are some of the most educated in the world and THE most educated in the English speaking world. Check out PISA if you think I am BSing you.
01:48 PM on 02/05/2013
Sure, if the three tests administered to a random (???) sampling of students by a group that is trying to make money by marketing their products is your test of education then yes, Canadian kids are educated. Of course according to many of the comments above, the subjects of the tests are material that has to be taught at home - by parents.
05:48 AM on 02/05/2013
Why do you feel our education system is this terrible? I can't say for certain how good it is, but my experiences through school were mainly positive. If you feel parents should have a say in forming curriculum then absolutely you are right. If it's other issues the one thing I can say is that if Parents stopped treating teachers like the enemy and started working with them, that would be a good start.
08:10 AM on 02/05/2013
In any system, some kids will do well. They will learn and they will have a positive experience. That's great - and to a large degree accidental. Their learning style happens to be one which allows them to succeed regardless of the system they are learning in. It's the rest that are being failed - and I say that as a former teacher. And as for parents treating teachers like the enemy - my experiences over the past many years has shown me that it is increasingly the opposite.
05:29 PM on 02/04/2013
I am not a parent, but I think parents need to be constant communication with their teacher as to what their kids are be taught. The reason that they teach "middle" of the road is so that all students can be taught the same material. If you are that concerned of what your kids are being taught, teach the opposite at home and maybe you as a parent should do some teaching as well; teachers can't teach everything that YOU want taught.