Yep, it is that time of year again and the social media channels (the parenting ones anyway) start on the never-ending debate about who does or doesn't do Santa and who can mess it up for everyone else.
Why do people get all pissy about Santa? Every year I hear puffy people telling me that it is wrong to LIE to your kids and that they will be destroyed and messed up when they find out the harsh truth.
Now unless something really harsh happened to them as kids, I really do not recall being that crushed about the whole Santa thing.
NOTHING polarizes parents more than Santa. It is where religion, idealism and perfection of parenting clashes with more debate and bluster. My son Adam told me that a kid in his class is telling everyone that Santa isn't real.
This boy happens to be of a culture and religion that does not do Christmas. Adam and I feel that no matter your beliefs, you have to respect other peoples beliefs, cultures and origins so I tend to get a bit upset when other parents don't feel the same way I do.
Santa may annoy you for whatever reasons: the consumerism of Christmas, the paganism, etc. It is not your place to tell me or my kids that what I am doing is wrong. I have always considered myself an agnostic leaning towards atheism, but with a Protestant background, I respect the right of others to believe what they believe -- as long as it does no harm, and telling my kid that Santa isn't real is harm in my books.
My kids will no doubt figure it out for themselves, like I did. Like the tooth fairy, like monsters under the bed and so on. Reality rushes into childhood fast enough.
Do I like that Christmas is an insane mass of greed hidden among the glitter? No.
But our family will do Christmas OUR way. They have learned the pagan, religious and cultural significance of the holiday -- as much as they care to learn about at this stage anyway -- and Santa is part of that for us.
I am not lying to my kids. I am not fooling them.
Kids are way smarter than we allow. Kids generally allow themselves to be open to belief. That is how imaginations soar and free play gives them their creative outlets. When people tell them that they are "wrong" for that belief, they are telling kids they are wrong for having an imagination. I find that very, very sad. Without the permission to believe there would be no faeries, no dragons, no space aliens, nothing.
We in our house, wholeheartedly give permission to let our kids imaginations run wild.
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BTW: Santa as we know him was invented as an advertisement ploy for the Coca-cola company in 1906. They still own the copyright on him. It is, by far, the most successful advertisement campaign ever conceived.
Is this a serious question? Parents know that Santa isn't real, but many do indeed believe that God is real. Therefore, telling ones children that Santa is real is an outright lie, while telling ones children that God is real is not a lie. At worst, it is the passing on of a mistaken belief.
2. Your assertion is simply incorrect. Even if one completely ignores all Biblical texts and testimonies, one still has a number of Ancient Greek and Roman historians who specifically mention the existence of a person named Jesus, who was causing some sort of disruption, and was crucified by the Romans. Jesus existence and crucifixion is not in question, what is debated is whether or not he was the son of God and whether or not he actually rose from the dead.
You sure picked a wild and non-standard definition of "harm" then. Plus what parent tells another person's kids that Santa isn't real? I've never, ever even heard of this happening.
Speaking of curious definitions, if a willful misrepresentation of reality isn't a lie, what is? Kids aren't going to lose their imaginations just because their parents tell them the truth about Santa. What an absurd thing to even suggest.
`But,' says Man, `The Babel fish is a dead giveaway, isn't it? It could not have evolved by chance. It proves you exist, and so therefore, by your own arguments, you don't. QED.'
`Oh dear,' says God, `I hadn't thought of that,' and promptly disappears in a puff of logic.
`Oh, that was easy,' says Man, and for an encore goes on to prove that black is white and gets himself killed on the next zebra crossing.
Most leading theologians claim that this argument is a load of dingo's kidneys, but that didn't stop Oolon Colluphid making a small fortune when he used it as the central theme of his best-selling book, "Well, That about Wraps It Up for God."
Thank you, Douglas Adams
This boy happens to be of a culture and religion that does not do Christmas. Adam and I feel that no matter your beliefs, you have to respect other peoples beliefs, cultures and origins so I tend to get a bit upset when other parents don't feel the same way I do."
I am sorry but did the author reread her own words and realized how backwards her own thinking is. The boy simply said he didnt believe in Santa. How exactly did he disrespect you or your religion? Also arent you disrespecting that boy's religion culture and beliefs when you dont respect the fact that he doesnt believe in what you believe in? It is amazing how hypocritical religious people can be.