Lori Gard
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Lori Gard is a teacher, parent to four children, life-partner to her husband Brian, community volunteer and expert in multi-tasking, all of which can be combined simultaneously in any random order in her current passion, blogging. She has found each facet of her life to provide endless writing material for her blog. Lori was born and raised in the Maritimes, and has lived “up West” in P.E.I. since graduating with a degree in Education from the Island’s only university in 1999. Although she will never be a born and bred Islander, she still tries to embrace life the Island way.

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I May Not Be a "Good Mother", but I Am Good Enough

(3) Comments | Posted April 25, 2013 | 5:06 PM

Confession time. Along with many other like-minded mothers out there, I concur: Greatness should not be the standard when it comes to mothering. On the contrary, I think it is okay -- dare I say desirable -- to instead be a "good enough" mother. Good enough mothers should at the...

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A Reminder to Live Life Large and in Colour

(0) Comments | Posted April 20, 2013 | 8:04 AM

When tragedy strikes and disaster hits our fragile world. When calamity occurs and life is lost. When that life lost belongs to a child -- a precious son or daughter. When it is a mother's life, a wife's life, a sister's life that's taken. Or worse: when that loss of...

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Personal Best: Very Different for Everyone

(2) Comments | Posted April 8, 2013 | 5:15 PM

A few years back, when I was teaching high school instead of five-year-olds, I use to know a thing or two about teenagers. For instance, I knew that you can't try too hard to be liked by them. It helps to be funny. And don't take yourself too seriously, or...

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Who Are We to Judge Moms Who Need a Break?

(18) Comments | Posted March 28, 2013 | 8:44 AM

I am scrolling down my Facebook feed. Behind me, my second-to-youngest impatiently sits on the couch waiting for me to look up. I have been here exactly 3.5 minutes. Or thereabouts. Who's counting, right? Don't judge, people.

I am tired, frayed around the edges. And I need to zone...

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International Women's Day: Keep on Keeping on, Soldier

(0) Comments | Posted March 8, 2013 | 11:30 AM

That moment. When you feel so very, very horrible. And all because you have left your middlest child at the rink, waiting for the better part of an hour because you had no way to get in touch with her. And all because you were driving from Point A to...

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People Don't Want a Real Answer

(0) Comments | Posted March 1, 2013 | 3:07 PM

Someone asked me yesterday, "Do I enjoy teaching this age?" (I teach Kindergarten). Which really threw me for a loop, as those kinds of questions often do. Whenever I am asked the question "Do I enjoy teaching?" or the more broad "Do I enjoy parenting?" or the more specific "Do...

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Even Mothers Sometimes Need a Mother

(1) Comments | Posted February 23, 2013 | 7:31 AM

Sometimes a body just needs to know. To feel a mother's love. To know that she is there. That she's within arm's length, when story lines grow dark. Becoming ominous, sinister. That she is only a whisper away. When the plot thickens to a portentous climax. When the theatrics prove...

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Does Proper Grammar Still Matter?

(0) Comments | Posted February 18, 2013 | 9:34 AM

I REFUSE to allow my children the usage of the word ain't in everyday conversation. So. Of course Littlest One says it as much as possible. Every time I turn around, actually. There it is. Inserted into every response, comment or answer she gives me or any other family member.

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Dispatches From Down East: Thank God It's Sunday Night

(0) Comments | Posted February 10, 2013 | 8:01 PM

Whoever claimed that "storm days are fun" did not have the exquisite pleasure of living with a bevy of kidlets, as is my distinctive delight.

Two storm days back-to-back, courtesy of the Nor'easter that hit the Maritimes this past weekend, and I am more exhausted and wrung...

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Why Gratitude Matters

(0) Comments | Posted February 8, 2013 | 2:38 PM

I am steering the van towards after-school destination numero deux, in project "My Life as a Chauffer." A tired Kindergartener rides solo in the backseat, a motley assortment of grocery bags, backpacks and other odds and ends ride shotgun in the passenger side. And all the while, "Veggie Tales" blares...

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The Parent-Teacher Phonecall Needs a Makeover

(1) Comments | Posted February 4, 2013 | 7:37 AM

It's little recess.

I have maybe nine minutes to run to the washroom, grab a glass of water in the staff kitchen, and check my mailbox in the office. En route, I duck into an adjacent classroom to mine so as to make a quick phone call. To a...

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The Importance Of Being Alone

(0) Comments | Posted January 26, 2013 | 6:51 AM

Solitude. Not loneliness, of which I speak. Not isolation, nor seclusion. Neither separation, segregation, emptiness. Rather. The peaceful equilibrium without. That quiet moment spent. In prayer. In supplication, meditation, reflection. In contemplative thought. Tranquil moments that restore the soul within. Returning the body to its truest nature, a relaxed state...

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Dear Robert Munsch: Love You Forever

(0) Comments | Posted January 16, 2013 | 4:15 PM

Dear Robert Munsch,

I don't know if you read the Huff Post, but I am taking a chance that either you or someone you know does. At the very least, I figure this medium is the quickest way to reach you, as time is of essence. So here goes.

Our...

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Dispatches From Down East: Remember to Play in the Snow

(0) Comments | Posted January 14, 2013 | 4:26 PM

It is a breathtakingly beautiful day. I send the Fearless Foursome outside for fresh air and exercise. What I wish I could write about this experience is this: everyone played in harmonious co-operation whilst enjoying some excellent winter recreational activity, all while tromping around in the sparkling snow.

What...

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A Mother's Story: How to Love Your Angsty Pre-Teen

(4) Comments | Posted January 10, 2013 | 2:09 PM

He sits beside me. Calm, quiet-like. In between me and his father. I have just nestled myself into a seat, in a row of black chairs connected by a small hinge along one side. We call them a pew. That's church speak. They're really just uncomfortable, black chairs with a...

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Why I Never Want to Take the Perfect Picture

(0) Comments | Posted December 31, 2012 | 4:06 PM

I have been fascinated and greatly inspired by the portraits, pictures and photographs other people have taken and posted online over the holidays. A slew of pictures came across my Facebook feed over the past couple of weeks featuring beautiful shots of homes and décor, along with gorgeous family pictures...

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Ten Things That Restored My Faith in Humanity

(3) Comments | Posted December 22, 2012 | 6:41 AM

In wake of the recent tragedy in Newtown, Connecticut, there have been waves of anger and sorrow washing over us all. Young and old. Rich and poor. Believer and non-believer. Pain spares no one its icy grip; it holds ransom with vice-like shackles. The world over, we are united in...

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What I Want Parents to Know About Lockdown Drills

(17) Comments | Posted December 15, 2012 | 11:00 PM

We sit, huddled tightly together in the cramped space of a corner. The blinds are darkly drawn, the door is shut. Locked. Little bodies press in close together to the wall. I place my body as a barrier along the tips of their tiny feet, all the while smiling into...

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Dispatches From Down East: Christmas Shopping is a Gong Show

(0) Comments | Posted December 1, 2012 | 7:58 AM

What happens when three excited children, one grandmother and two mamas/aunties go shopping together, manoeuvring a crowded mini-van through a torrential down-pour? A whole lot of candy gets bought, that's what. And very few Christmas gifts ever make it from the shelf to the cash register.

Santa could at...

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Dispatches From Down East: When Your Son Calls You a Redneck...

(9) Comments | Posted November 25, 2012 | 7:49 AM

Husband and I have embarked on a dangerous journey, riding at break-neck speed down the slippery slope of parenting an adolescent. I'm talking about the downward spiral, baby. The dangerous slide into the abyss. Of being under the same roof as a child going through puberty, that is. And if...

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