Canada Divorce

Co-Parenting Challenges: 7 Ways To Make Your Feelings Work For You

Karen Kristjanson | Posted 02.05.2016 | Canada Parents
Karen Kristjanson

Feelings are great, when they're positive. We smile and high-five to share our exuberance. As co-parents after divorce, we're more in the negative territory at first -- anger, sadness, longing. Who wants to feel those? Easier to ignore them, or distract ourselves with a glass of wine or a movie until the feelings go away.

How To Secure Your Financial Future Post-Divorce

Darcie Crowe | Posted 02.03.2016 | Canada Living
Darcie Crowe

It's now your responsibility to watch your income and expenses, and confirm that you're living within your means. Make sure you're paying your bills on time, setting a solid retirement plan in place, and saving for your children's education -- while also putting aside funds for major expenses or future emergencies.

Divorce Month: Why Marriages End In January

Nathalie Boutet | Posted 01.22.2016 | Canada Living
Nathalie Boutet

Most people, if they are unhappy in their marriage, are probably thinking about breaking up long before the holidays. But given that the holidays are a traditional family time, couples, especially those with children, loathe creating a sad memory for their children. Yet once the decorations are put away and everyone is back in their routine, many spouses are ready to start taking steps towards a separation.

Madonna's Son Doesn't Want To Live With The Material Girl

The Huffington Post Canada | Kristy Woudstra | Posted 12.24.2015 | Canada Parents

A New York judge has ruled that he must return to his mom.

How To Survive The Holidays With Your Ex-Spouse As Co-Parents

Anna Giannone | Posted 12.18.2015 | Canada Parents
Anna Giannone

Are you wondering how you will survive the upcoming holiday season with your ex-spouse as co-parents? For newly divorced individuals, life is often chaotic. You need to settle into a new routine and heal a broken family. But just because you are divorced, it doesn't mean that the holidays have to be sad.

These Are The Signs Your Spouse Is Having A Texting Affair

Debra Macleod | Posted 11.24.2015 | Canada Living
Debra Macleod

You look the other way and pretend not to notice or be bothered. You force yourself to not ask who your spouse is texting and not show how worried or hurt you are. You lay awake and stare at your partner's phone, wishing you could look through it but not wanting to cross that line. Finally, you crack.

Why Autism Isn't a Cause of Divorce

Linda Mastroianni | Posted 09.30.2015 | Canada Parents
Linda Mastroianni

The challenges parents face raising a child with autism is amplified a thousand times over. We often don't know what to do or how to help our child. But even with all the challenges, autism isn't what causes a couple to divorce.

► Little Girl's Wish For Her Divorced Parents: 'Be Friends'

The Huffington Post B.C. | Rhianna Schmunk | Posted 09.22.2015 | Canada British Columbia

Tissues at the ready.

The Reversal of Fortune Survival Guide

Jen Lawrence | Posted 09.15.2015 | Canada Living
Jen Lawrence

Recently, a friend asked me if I could help a neighbor whose life had fallen apart. I have the bittersweet reputation of being someone who's lived through some soul-shattering events and has managed to stay vertical, so she thought I might be able to offer some comfort and advice.

My Standards Are Simple and Mine Alone

Shanita Hubbard | Posted 09.06.2015 | Canada Living
Shanita Hubbard

"Your standards are too high." If you're 30-plus, educated, single, and a woman, you probably hear this at family barbecues and any company gatherings that take place after three rounds of drinks have been purchased. I used to hear this all the time.

For A Happy Blended Family, Take These 5 Ingredients and Mix Well

Shanita Hubbard | Posted 08.28.2015 | Canada Parents
Shanita Hubbard

Look at a blended family like baking a cake. You can't just carelessly toss some eggs, water, milk and butter in pan, throw it into the oven and expect something amazing to come out. Like any relationship, yours will endure some heat, but how it turns out afterwards depends on the level of preparation beforehand.

Is Ashley Madison to Blame for Broken Hearts and Ruined Marriages?

Collette Gee | Posted 08.21.2015 | Canada Living
Collette Gee

While cheating can be extremely damaging to most relationships, an affair actually begins long before the act itself. Having an affair is often one person's way of signaling to their partner that something is wrong in the relationship. And, often one person uses cheating as a catalyst to either fix or flee from the problems.

How Would Finding Your Spouse on the Ashley Madison List Affect Your Divorce?

Andrew Feldstein | Posted 08.21.2015 | Canada Living
Andrew Feldstein

With the recent Ashley Madison hack and the release of information for the affair-oriented dating site, it is no surprise that the internet is making wise-cracks about excited divorce lawyers rubbing their hands together in glee. But aside from being the final nail on the coffin, how would finding your spouse on the Ashley Madison list affect your divorce?

This Is What It's Like To Be A Single Mom

Her Magazine | Posted 08.20.2015 | Canada Parents
Her Magazine

Single mom accurately depicts how I feel a lot of the time because I am alone during the times I actually have to parent. For the times I need to discipline, do homework, have tough conversations, navigate hurt feelings, get to the bottom of behavior, I am the one and only parent in my son's presence.

How to Tackle the New School Year As a New Divorcee

Nathalie Boutet | Posted 08.13.2015 | Canada Parents
Nathalie Boutet

With the new school year around the corner, parents who are facing separation or divorce often find this a very contentious time for themselves and their children. In addition to the painful process of undergoing a separation or divorce, starting a new school year adds extra pressure.

You're More Likely To Get Divorced If You Say 'I Do' After 32

Huffington Post Canada | Joy D'Souza | Posted 07.18.2015 | Canada Living

If you thought getting married too young was a recipe for divorce, you might be surprised to learn that getting married in your thirties leads to the ...

Autism Destroyed My Marriage, But I'm Not Mad

Trish Klein | Posted 07.15.2015 | Canada
Trish Klein

Autism has a bad rap with families and marriages. Pulling them apart. The stress, the constant worrying, the lack of time with your spouse and other children. The focus becomes your affected child and there is no time for you and forget about your partner. I thought my marriage was strong. It wasn't strong enough.

6 Tips to Get You Through a Long Custody Battle

ByBlacks.com | Posted 07.14.2015 | Canada Parents
ByBlacks.com

Every time I tried to communicate with the father of my child, he turned it into an argument, chastised me, tried to humiliate me, or walked away. I felt helpless trying to have a decent and cordial conversation regarding the needs of our child with him.

What Ben Affleck and Jennifer Garner Teach Us About Parenting

Anna Giannone | Posted 07.14.2015 | Canada Parents
Anna Giannone

Even from the very beginning of their split Jennifer Garner and Ben Affleck show that sensitivity and devotion to the kids is the top priority. They're quoted by People Magazine saying, "We go forward with love and friendship for one another and a commitment to co-parenting our children."

Why You Should Go on a Beach Vacation With Your Ex

Anna Giannone | Posted 06.30.2015 | Canada Parents
Anna Giannone

Before you dismiss your co-parenting communication style as hopeless, remember why you keep trying to make it work: your kids. If you want to send a message of undivided love then consider doing the unthinkable; beach vacation together.

What Led Me to Seeking Solace in Psychics

Katie Boland | Posted 06.30.2015 | Canada Living
Katie Boland

"What's Lily Dale?" my husband asked. "Lily Dale is a spiritualist community in upstate New York. Seriously, everyone who lives there is a psychic," I said. "People have been going forever to talk to the dead. I really want to go."

'I Was Drugged The Day Of My Wedding'

Connected | Posted 05.16.2015 | Canada Living

Lori’s parenting comes into question during her and Jan’s weekend in Connecticut with the kids. After nine years of marriage and seven years apart...

Love Can Be Better, The Second Time Around

TamilCulture | Posted 05.11.2015 | Canada Living
TamilCulture

Amidst the carnage of a failed marriage, as your days become consumed with prying the broken shards of glass from the wounds of a shattered life, it is hard to conceive that anyone will ever be worth the risk of going through all of this again. But a life without love is incomplete -- Love is always worth it.

My Divorce Made Me Realize Our Home Was Never Mine

Allyson Eamer | Posted 05.06.2015 | Canada Living
Allyson Eamer

When relationships end, it is a sad fact that people take sides, assets are split, and someone, if not both parties, must relocate. The "Geographies of Divorce" is the shifting of boundaries, the renegotiation of territory, the displacement, isolation and the staggering trauma of homelessness that accompanies divorce.

How To Divorce: 5 Best Practices For Telling The Kids You're Separating

The Huffington Post Canada | Alyson Schafer | Posted 05.06.2015 | Canada Parents

Deciding to get a divorce is tough, especially if you have children. Parents can be in anguish over how to break the news to their children. They suff...