Canada Divorce

Is Ashley Madison to Blame for Broken Hearts and Ruined Marriages?

Collette Gee | Posted 08.21.2015 | Canada Living
Collette Gee

While cheating can be extremely damaging to most relationships, an affair actually begins long before the act itself. Having an affair is often one person's way of signaling to their partner that something is wrong in the relationship. And, often one person uses cheating as a catalyst to either fix or flee from the problems.

How Would Finding Your Spouse on the Ashley Madison List Affect Your Divorce?

Andrew Feldstein | Posted 08.21.2015 | Canada Living
Andrew Feldstein

With the recent Ashley Madison hack and the release of information for the affair-oriented dating site, it is no surprise that the internet is making wise-cracks about excited divorce lawyers rubbing their hands together in glee. But aside from being the final nail on the coffin, how would finding your spouse on the Ashley Madison list affect your divorce?

This Is What It's Like To Be A Single Mom

Her Magazine | Posted 08.20.2015 | Canada Parents
Her Magazine

Single mom accurately depicts how I feel a lot of the time because I am alone during the times I actually have to parent. For the times I need to discipline, do homework, have tough conversations, navigate hurt feelings, get to the bottom of behavior, I am the one and only parent in my son's presence.

How to Tackle the New School Year As a New Divorcee

Nathalie Boutet | Posted 08.13.2015 | Canada Parents
Nathalie Boutet

With the new school year around the corner, parents who are facing separation or divorce often find this a very contentious time for themselves and their children. In addition to the painful process of undergoing a separation or divorce, starting a new school year adds extra pressure.

You're More Likely To Get Divorced If You Say 'I Do' After 32

Huffington Post Canada | Joy D'Souza | Posted 07.18.2015 | Canada Living

If you thought getting married too young was a recipe for divorce, you might be surprised to learn that getting married in your thirties leads to the ...

Autism Destroyed My Marriage, But I'm Not Mad

Trish Klein | Posted 07.15.2015 | Canada
Trish Klein

Autism has a bad rap with families and marriages. Pulling them apart. The stress, the constant worrying, the lack of time with your spouse and other children. The focus becomes your affected child and there is no time for you and forget about your partner. I thought my marriage was strong. It wasn't strong enough.

6 Tips to Get You Through a Long Custody Battle

ByBlacks.com | Posted 07.14.2015 | Canada Parents
ByBlacks.com

Every time I tried to communicate with the father of my child, he turned it into an argument, chastised me, tried to humiliate me, or walked away. I felt helpless trying to have a decent and cordial conversation regarding the needs of our child with him.

What Ben Affleck and Jennifer Garner Teach Us About Parenting

Anna Giannone | Posted 07.14.2015 | Canada Parents
Anna Giannone

Even from the very beginning of their split Jennifer Garner and Ben Affleck show that sensitivity and devotion to the kids is the top priority. They're quoted by People Magazine saying, "We go forward with love and friendship for one another and a commitment to co-parenting our children."

Why You Should Go on a Beach Vacation With Your Ex

Anna Giannone | Posted 06.30.2015 | Canada Parents
Anna Giannone

Before you dismiss your co-parenting communication style as hopeless, remember why you keep trying to make it work: your kids. If you want to send a message of undivided love then consider doing the unthinkable; beach vacation together.

What Led Me to Seeking Solace in Psychics

Katie Boland | Posted 06.30.2015 | Canada Living
Katie Boland

"What's Lily Dale?" my husband asked. "Lily Dale is a spiritualist community in upstate New York. Seriously, everyone who lives there is a psychic," I said. "People have been going forever to talk to the dead. I really want to go."

'I Was Drugged The Day Of My Wedding'

Connected | Posted 05.16.2015 | Canada Living

Lori’s parenting comes into question during her and Jan’s weekend in Connecticut with the kids. After nine years of marriage and seven years apart...

Love Can Be Better, The Second Time Around

TamilCulture | Posted 05.11.2015 | Canada Living
TamilCulture

Amidst the carnage of a failed marriage, as your days become consumed with prying the broken shards of glass from the wounds of a shattered life, it is hard to conceive that anyone will ever be worth the risk of going through all of this again. But a life without love is incomplete -- Love is always worth it.

My Divorce Made Me Realize Our Home Was Never Mine

Allyson Eamer | Posted 05.06.2015 | Canada Living
Allyson Eamer

When relationships end, it is a sad fact that people take sides, assets are split, and someone, if not both parties, must relocate. The "Geographies of Divorce" is the shifting of boundaries, the renegotiation of territory, the displacement, isolation and the staggering trauma of homelessness that accompanies divorce.

How To Divorce: 5 Best Practices For Telling The Kids You're Separating

The Huffington Post Canada | Alyson Schafer | Posted 05.06.2015 | Canada Parents

Deciding to get a divorce is tough, especially if you have children. Parents can be in anguish over how to break the news to their children. They suff...

5 Great Things About Living Next Door To Your Ex

The Huffington Post Canada | Brandie Weikle | Posted 04.28.2015 | Canada Parents

When I tell people my co-parenting situation -- that I live next door to my ex-husband and his new wife -- I'm met with a combination of disbelief and...

How to Manage Divorce, Distress and Debt

Jeffrey Schwartz | Posted 06.22.2015 | Canada Business
Jeffrey Schwartz

Kevin's wife wanted a divorce. Suddenly, his household income was split in half and the cost of moving to a new place with his kids meant his expenses doubled.

This 60 Year Old Gave Up His Marriage, But Gained So Much More

The Huffington Post Canada | Joy D'Souza | Posted 04.09.2015 | Canada Living

Jeffrey Alford started writing about food in 1988, and though things have drastically changed in his life since then, his passion for cooking and cult...

I'm a Child of Divorce -- And Happy About it

Brittany Goldfield Rodrigues | Posted 05.27.2015 | Canada Living
Brittany Goldfield Rodrigues

When my parents were together, my dad would come home, kiss my sister and me, and go to work upstairs. I used to wait all week for Sunday -- the one day we spent together as a family. But after the divorce, I could look forward to spending every moment of every second weekend with him.

I'm Single, Tamil, Female... And I'm Divorced

TamilCulture | Posted 05.15.2015 | Canada Living
TamilCulture

There are many titles I have been taught to wear in my life -- daughter, sister, aunt, wife and graduate -- but I never thought I would add one more to the list. Divorcee. This article is NOT being written because this is a title that I am proud of and definitely NOT something I ever expected to happen, but it happened.

Woman Can Sue Ex-Husband Who Got Rich Years After Divorce

CP | Danica Kirka, The Associated Press | Posted 05.12.2015 | Canada Business

LONDON - Britain's Supreme Court ruled Wednesday that the passage of time is no barrier to a financial settlement in a divorce case, giving a British ...

How To Tell Your Children You're Getting a Divorce

Alyson Jones | Posted 03.17.2015 | Canada Living
Alyson Jones

Allow your children time to grieve and remain open to ongoing conversations after the big announcement. If your children are asking you questions, this is positive. Encourage further conversations and be open to their questions, thoughts, and feelings. You may want to consider setting up a time for the children to talk with a therapist at some point.

How to Help Your Kids Relax this December

Kids Help Phone | Posted 02.10.2015 | Canada Living
Kids Help Phone

While the holiday season is often depicted as a special time of year -- so much so that many people strive to make their holidays "perfect" -- the reality is that the happiness that is widely portrayed can often be a myth for people across Canada, including young people.

8 Lies That Parents on the Brink of Divorce Might Tell Themselves

Debra Macleod | Posted 01.31.2015 | Canada Living
Debra Macleod

As a former divorce mediator and current couples and family mediator, I have heard every excuse that parents use to feel better about breaking up their family. Here are eight of the most common lies that, if you're considering divorce, you might be telling yourself.

Dysfunctional Divorce Leads to Dysfunctional Children

Andrew Feldstein | Posted 12.09.2014 | Canada Living
Andrew Feldstein

What divorcing spouses and partners don't realize is there are very real consequences of dysfunctional divorce that affect mental, emotional, and developmental well-being and behaviour of children. The effects of divorce trauma become more pronounced the longer a divorce drags on. And two or five years in the life of a child is a huge percentage of time.

What Most People Don't Know About 'Deadbeat Parents' and Child Support

Andrew Feldstein | Posted 12.02.2014 | Canada Living
Andrew Feldstein

A CBC investigation yesterday uncovered that 'deadbeat parents' in Canada collectively owe more than $3.7B in support. As a divorce lawyer for 20 years, it struck me that there is a lack of knowledge of how court-ordered support payments work. Here are three things to think about and two actions that you can take which should help Canadians understand spousal and child support a bit better, help you understand why the divorce support payments situation is such a mess, and help explain why it is not even worse.