We already get that it's in everyone's benefit for us to pitch in at home. You're less stressed and we get more sex. Everybody wins. But you need to give us points for trying.
We don't live in a Leave it to Beaver society; our cultural norms don't set fathers up for success. But we can support their roles as caregivers and chip away at the macho male formula for success, where a man is measured by his paycheque, the title on his business card and the speed of his car.