Fill in Boyfriend

Is a "Fill-in-Boyfriend" Stopping You From Finding Love?

Christine Hart | Posted 11.28.2012 | Canada Living
Christine Hart

Sometimes when I sit down with a new client, we review how and with whom they are spending their time. What I often see is that women have a "fill-in" boyfriend in their life, meaning a purely platonic guy-friend that they hang out with, laugh with, do activities with, confide in but are not involved with. I've come to learn that this type of closeness can sometimes get in the way of meeting a boyfriend because you are already getting all your needs met by this guy-friend, except for physical intimacy.