Life After Divorce

What Led Me to Seeking Solace in Psychics

Katie Boland | Posted 06.30.2015 | Canada Living
Katie Boland

"What's Lily Dale?" my husband asked. "Lily Dale is a spiritualist community in upstate New York. Seriously, everyone who lives there is a psychic," I said. "People have been going forever to talk to the dead. I really want to go."

I Found My Prince Charming While Dating After 50

BrazenWoman | Posted 06.04.2015 | Canada Living

My self-esteem post-divorce sucked from being told I was old and that I would never find anyone who would want me. And let's face it, when someone throws you away after 20 years, you tend to think there's some reason why. Then I decided, "Screw him. I'm doing this."

My Divorce Made Me Realize Our Home Was Never Mine

Allyson Eamer | Posted 05.06.2015 | Canada Living
Allyson Eamer

When relationships end, it is a sad fact that people take sides, assets are split, and someone, if not both parties, must relocate. The "Geographies of Divorce" is the shifting of boundaries, the renegotiation of territory, the displacement, isolation and the staggering trauma of homelessness that accompanies divorce.

How to Manage Divorce, Distress and Debt

Jeffrey Schwartz | Posted 06.22.2015 | Canada Business
Jeffrey Schwartz

Kevin's wife wanted a divorce. Suddenly, his household income was split in half and the cost of moving to a new place with his kids meant his expenses doubled.

This 60 Year Old Gave Up His Marriage, But Gained So Much More

The Huffington Post Canada | Joy D'Souza | Posted 04.09.2015 | Canada Living

Jeffrey Alford started writing about food in 1988, and though things have drastically changed in his life since then, his passion for cooking and cult...

I'm a Child of Divorce -- And Happy About it

Brittany Goldfield Rodrigues | Posted 05.27.2015 | Canada Living
Brittany Goldfield Rodrigues

When my parents were together, my dad would come home, kiss my sister and me, and go to work upstairs. I used to wait all week for Sunday -- the one day we spent together as a family. But after the divorce, I could look forward to spending every moment of every second weekend with him.

15 Tips for Managing a Divorce Over Christmas

Alyson Jones | Posted 02.10.2015 | Canada Living
Alyson Jones

Children may worry they are being disloyal if they start to have too much fun with one parent. They also worry about the parent that they are not with, wondering if that parent is okay. Sometimes they just deeply miss the parent they are not with. The familiar traditions may be gone and this can leave the children feeling as though something or someone is missing.

What Most People Don't Know About 'Deadbeat Parents' and Child Support

Andrew Feldstein | Posted 12.02.2014 | Canada Living
Andrew Feldstein

A CBC investigation yesterday uncovered that 'deadbeat parents' in Canada collectively owe more than $3.7B in support. As a divorce lawyer for 20 years, it struck me that there is a lack of knowledge of how court-ordered support payments work. Here are three things to think about and two actions that you can take which should help Canadians understand spousal and child support a bit better, help you understand why the divorce support payments situation is such a mess, and help explain why it is not even worse.

Go Ahead, Have a Breakdown. Repeat If Necessary

Sarah Vermunt | Posted 03.25.2014 | Canada Living
Sarah Vermunt

A word to the wise: one cannot scale the side of a mountain while sobbing uncontrollably. You need your breath for the exertion. You can climb or you can cry. Not both. I soon realized I didn't need to compose myself and carry on. What I needed to do was to stop and let myself have a big fat embarrassing breakdown.

10 Ways To Find Love Again After Divorce

The Huffington Post Canada | Arti Patel | Posted 01.25.2014 | Canada Living

Whether you're a recent divorced single or have been looking for love again for several years, marriage the second time around can sometimes be more c...

8 Things You Should Never Say to a Divorced Woman

masalamommas | Posted 09.10.2013 | Canada Living

One of the most difficult things to deal with in a divorce is the questions, comments, advice and commentary from family and friends. I've heard some gems over the years. I'd like to share with you some of my top picks for what you should never say to a divorced friend.

What I Wanted Most After Divorce? My Name Back

masalamommas | Posted 06.03.2013 | Canada Living

The moment the judge said in the court that my divorce is granted and asked if there was anything else I wanted to add to the list of wishes granted on my behalf, it was a no-brainer -- I wanted my name back. Little did I realize then the implications it would have for days, months, and years to come.