Stop striving for perfection! You'll drive yourself crazy, you won't be able to stop and you won't enjoy being in the moment. A better goal is to aim to be happy instead of perfect. Perfection is overrated. If you ever attain it, you'll realize how empty it feels.
While past experience teaches people the importance of things like trustworthiness and loyalty in relationships, society's most popular people tend to possess more superficial attributes. So, which qualities are most important for likeability?