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Exercise Your Way to a Hotter Sex Life

Caleigh Rykiss | Posted 09.02.2014 | Canada Living
Caleigh Rykiss

Sex is good. Good sex is great. And great sex... well that's the dream right? While I can't promise that the next guy you bring home will be a God in sack, I can all but guarantee that sweating it out at the gym will help turn up the heat in the bedroom. Now that's what I call an effective incentive!

Would You Own Up To Having An Affair?

Sue Nador | Posted 06.06.2014 | Canada Living
Sue Nador

By withholding the truth about her affair from her husband, Tabitha holds all the cards when it comes to their marriage. She is able to preserve what matters most to her-her family life, financial security and the love of her husband-but on her own terms. Her husband is continuing to commit to the relationship under false pretences.

Let's (Really) Talk About Sex

Carlen Costa | Posted 04.25.2014 | Canada Living
Carlen Costa

You've just woken up from a deep sleep and then remember that you've been romping all night with the Sandman who may also happen to be your Ex. That's when the WTF moment kicks in. Sex dreams happen to everyone. Sometimes they are as pleasurable as riding white horses in the meadow with George Clooney or getting naughty with Mila Kunis' legs wrapped around your waist.

My Tinder Bender Date #14: The Atheist

Christina Walkinshaw | Posted 01.23.2014 | Canada Living
Christina Walkinshaw

His tagline is facking hilarious: Toronto's most illegible bachelor. Good one, dude. It looks like he's at the top of Runyon Canyon in his profile pi...

My Tinder Bender Date #13 -- The Unemployed Guy

Christina Walkinshaw | Posted 01.23.2014 | Canada Living
Christina Walkinshaw

I've been pretty spoiled since I've been on Tinder. It's time for me to buy some drinks for a dude. This is the "Christina Gives Back" Tinder date. Plus, I just got a Trillium cheque in the mail. That should cover the tab. I message him first. Hey dude. How's Tindering going?

My Tinder Bender Date #12 -- The Cat Man

Christina Walkinshaw | Posted 12.27.2013 | Canada Living
Christina Walkinshaw

He walks in, smiling. I like people that smile. I smile A LOT. Within minutes of the date, he shows me pictures of his cat. Don't be foiled by an eyebrow ring, ladies. Sometimes the edgy looking ones are big softies. He LOVES cats! He shows me many pictures of his kitty, including painted portraits.

My Tinder Bender Date #10: The Out of Towner

Christina Walkinshaw | Posted 01.23.2014 | Canada Living
Christina Walkinshaw

I tell him he looks way younger than 43. "You don't look 34 either," he says. "Yay! We're just two people, defying age! We must look young, because we avoid things like marriage and babies!" He coughs a little. "Actually, I've had both."

My Tinder Bender Date #9: Come to Mommy

Christina Walkinshaw | Posted 01.23.2014 | Canada Living
Christina Walkinshaw

I can't believe I did it. I hit the heart button on a guy with KIDS in his profile picture. Not one, but TWO kids! How mature do I think I am? Still...(deep breath) he is attractive. And I am 34. I have to face the fact that guys in my age bracket might have offspring, whether it was on purpose, or they forgot to pull out.

My Tinder Bender Date #8: I Think I Bombed

Christina Walkinshaw | Posted 01.23.2014 | Canada Living
Christina Walkinshaw

As I approach the address of the restaurant, I see a sandy blonde hair dude standing out front of a nonexistent restaurant. There's just a big fence and a "Coming Soon" sign. Oops. Nice choice, Christina. Pick a bar that doesn't open for another two months, why don't you?

My Tinder Bender Date #7: I Probably Shouldn't Have, But...

Christina Walkinshaw | Posted 01.23.2014 | Canada Living
Christina Walkinshaw

Now I know I should immediately block this guy. Still... I'm oddly intrigued. My show ends around 10:30 p.m. I check my phone, and there's a message from him. You're my little nasty girl. I take a deep breath, and pray he's just kidding.

My Tinder Bender Date #6: As Exciting as Mild Wings

Christina Walkinshaw | Posted 11.30.2013 | Canada Living
Christina Walkinshaw

A couple beers in, we're both yawning. The conversation starts to dry up. We're now talking the ceiling fixtures. Talking about lamps hanging from the ceiling is a sign we're both starting to space out. I'm also getting tweets from my comedian guy friends, who know I'm on a date. All of a sudden, I wish I was with them.

My Tinder Bender Date #4: A Tinderella Story

Christina Walkinshaw | Posted 11.23.2013 | Canada Living
Christina Walkinshaw

I head to my date. I warn him I look like a dirtbag. Pink Jack Daniel's shirt, jeans and Toms. I'm wearing a padded bra, so boobs are not to scale. I notice he's getting texts from a phone number that doesn't have a contact name. They seem to be coming in quite rapidly. I call it out: "Haha! You're getting messages from another Tinder, aren't you?" He denies it. I'm not buying it.

My Tinder Bender: Date #2 - Pushing Cougarism

Christina Walkinshaw | Posted 11.18.2013 | Canada Living
Christina Walkinshaw

"We're the same age, aren't we? You're 27?" He says. UH-OH! "Um... no, actually...I think I'm a little older," I spit out, along with a laugh that sounds like I might be choking. "Really? How old are you?" all of a sudden, I'm feeling a little cougary. So I suggest a place that's good to take a younger man.

When it Comes to 'Female Viagra' Lybrido, Don't Believe the Hype

Dr. Ferrukh Faruqui | Posted 08.19.2013 | Canada Living
Dr. Ferrukh Faruqui

Women, take a deep breath. Sexual nirvana, the latest elixir in a bottle, has arrived. Enter Lybrido. The makers of Lybrido, ironically called Emotional Brain, are cynically cashing in on our insecurities as women. Lybrido might help but make no mistake -- another pill to pop does not replace the old-fashioned virtues of respect, love and affection, all of which were contained in the erstwhile activity called courtship.

Some Modern Love Advice From Cleopatra

Debra Macleod | Posted 03.04.2013 | Canada Living
Debra Macleod

As a couples' mediator, I see many women who have stopped having fun in their relationships. This year, I'm going back a couple thousand years to excavate some ancient advice from history's most cunning women, such as Cleopatra. How'd she do it? If it worked for the Queen of Egypt in 41 BC, it may work for you in 2013 AD.