Monogamy

Sexual Prudery Shouldn't Pass as Activism

Laurie Essig | Posted 08.27.2015 | Canada Living
Laurie Essig

Ashley Madison had the honesty to say it is for married people to have affairs as opposed to encourage married and partnered people to pretend they're single. And for that their customers have had their personal information, including apparently credit card information, released?

Is Ashley Madison to Blame for Broken Hearts and Ruined Marriages?

Collette Gee | Posted 08.21.2015 | Canada Living
Collette Gee

While cheating can be extremely damaging to most relationships, an affair actually begins long before the act itself. Having an affair is often one person's way of signaling to their partner that something is wrong in the relationship. And, often one person uses cheating as a catalyst to either fix or flee from the problems.

Why We Should Sympathize With the Exposed Ashley Madison Users

Heather Magee | Posted 08.20.2015 | Canada Living
Heather Magee

Let's be clear -- no one who signed up for Ashley Madison has committed a crime or participated in illegal activity. Shouldn't we be channelling our outrage towards a group of hackers for taking it upon themselves to determine what's immoral and what's appropriate conduct on the Internet? Using cyber-terrorism as a tool to shame people who may not navigate by the same moral compass as you is not only the ultimate breach in privacy; it's an attack on net neutrality. Imposing fear on people for how they behave online is just as repressive as restricting certain behaviours and content in the first place.

When We Sign Up for Monogamy, Are We Trapping Ourselves?

Sue Nador | Posted 02.02.2014 | Canada Living
Sue Nador

Should we still be signing up for monogamy 'til death do us part? When we sign up to be faithful, what assumptions are we making? There are so many assumptions we make when we sign up to be faithful 'til death do us part. But we shouldn't make promises we can't reasonably expect to keep.

My Marriage Is Like a Refrigerator Delivery

Sylvia Forrest | Posted 10.16.2013 | Canada Living
Sylvia Forrest

It struck me that our marriage has functioned a lot like the arrival of the new fridge. Like the delivery men, David and I have managed heavy burdens by sharing the load, reaching out towards each other, and moving carefully in the same direction. A cracked fridge doesn't even hit the radar.

Is Lifelong Monogamy Possible?

Heather Magee | Posted 03.06.2013 | Canada British Columbia
Heather Magee

Having recently married, I can't tell you if we'll remain monogamous forever. As it stands today, I certainly intend to try. But I think that's a lot of pressure to put on any relationship. Monogamy has to be a lifelong dialogue that takes place as you grow and evolve.

Adultery: Someone Always Loses

Barbara Sibbald | Posted 04.11.2012 | Canada Living
Barbara Sibbald

Once you have broken that promise, that vow of faithfulness, there is a terrible sense of loss, no matter how you dress it up. In addition to the betrayal of your shared intimacy, the lying takes a toll. Each lie adds a layer of deceit until you hardly know what to say to your partner anymore.

Why Doesn't Anyone Date Anymore?

Pega Ren | Posted 12.07.2011 | Canada Living
Pega Ren

Why are we so quick to abandon the freedom of choice dating offers, replacing it instead with lightning-quick courtships and instant sexual exclusivity?

What Do You Say to "I Don't Believe in Monogamy"?

Delaine Moore | Posted 10.19.2011 | Canada
Delaine Moore

What if having sex with someone other than your partner isn't just a 'lifestyle' choice? What if our culture has simply indoctrinated us with beliefs around love, commitment, attraction and sex that end up emotionally terrorizing us unnecessarily at some point, or all throughout, our lives?

What Makes a Good Relationship?

Beverley Golden | Posted 10.02.2011 | Canada
Beverley Golden

I admit I'm still the little girl who believes in happily ever after, but I'm aware how that must start with happiness from within instead of looking for something out there to "complete me."