Motherhood

Getting To Know Your University Kid All Over Again

Shantelle Bisson | Posted 05.24.2017 | Canada Living
Shantelle Bisson

There's an incredibly interesting thing that happens to a parent when our children reaches the age to move away and go to college/university. All of a sudden you're thrust into this new phase of life, surprisingly unprepared, even though you knew that it was coming eventually.

She Wasn't Sick, I Was: My Battle With Postpartum Anxiety

Jessyka Gagnon | Posted 05.23.2017 | Canada Parents
Jessyka Gagnon

I was certain something was going to take her away from me, that my time with her was limited. My fear made us prisoner to our home, our safe space. I wanted to run with her to keep her from everyone and anything that could harm her. Going to the grocery store was no longer a chore, it appeared life-threatening.

Online Therapy For Postpartum Depression Makes The Most Sense

Patricia Tomasi | Posted 05.17.2017 | Canada Parents
Patricia Tomasi

It's crazy to expect a new mother with postpartum depression (PPD) to attend regular therapy sessions. That's if she can get access to therapy at all what with the ongoing shortage of psychiatrists and psychotherapists across Canada and the U.S.

My Kids Are Amazing, Thanks To Everyone In Their Lives

Erin Silver | Posted 05.16.2017 | Canada Parents
Erin Silver

Did they finally realize what I've been telling them all along: that they are brothers and brothers have to get along? Did they just want to make me happy and realize getting along would be the only way to accomplish this all-important task? Do they see my siblings, friends, parents and our family doing kind things for one another? Have they seen their dad and I do kind things for each other despite our divorce? Despite being a single mom, they are seeing a lot of love from a lot of sources and it makes me so grateful and proud.

Public Breastfeeding Is Natural. Why Is This Still A Debate?

Linnie von Sky | Posted 05.15.2017 | Canada Parents
Linnie von Sky

Breasts are sexualised at every turn. They bounce up and down reality television shows and pageants (granted, more often than not, the ones we see don't move), adorn magazine covers, sell lingerie to make bedroom fantasies come true and yet are still publicly rejected, shamed, and bullied when openly exposed in their most natural of states. I often wonder how we made it to the overly advertised earth of the 21st century and still can't publicly display our babies' favourite place to grab a quick snack.

A Letter To A Grieving Mom On Mother's Day

Emma Hansen | Posted 05.12.2017 | Canada Parents
Emma Hansen

I want you to know that you are not alone. Through your grief and pain and loss you have joined the club that no one wants to be a part of. But the most astonishing thing is that this club is made up of some of the most powerful, compassionate, and inspiring women.

A Village Of Support Helped Me Get Through Postpartum Depression

Meaghan Grant | Posted 05.12.2017 | Canada Parents
Meaghan Grant

Birth and postpartum mental health issues don't get the attention they deserve, says Meaghan Grant. We don't talk about the pressure to meet expectations or the fact that other people's opinions impact the way we parent and the way we view ourselves as parents.

Thank Your Mom For All The Lessons She Has Taught You

Dr. Marie Bountrogianni | Posted 05.11.2017 | Canada Parents
Dr. Marie Bountrogianni

My daughter once said to me, "even if you were not my mom, you would still be my role model." Beyond a doubt, this was the best compliment I could ever receive. Throughout my life, I have been asked many times if I personally have a role model. My answer to this is simple: my mother.

What I Wish I Knew On My First Mother's Day As A Stepmom

Sarah Paterson | Posted 05.11.2017 | Canada Parents
Sarah Paterson

"When do I call myself a stepmom?" "When do I show up for events?" "When do I get involved in logistics and planning?" When do I... when do I... when do I? Questions that all went unanswered, as I had nobody to ask. Without fail, one of the big ones came up each year up in time for Mother's Day.

To The Most Special Kind Of Mothers

Gail Hodge | Posted 05.10.2017 | Canada Parents
Gail Hodge

These are the moms who have outlived their children. They are mothers without official titles and have concocted clever ways to answer, "how many children do you have?" when asked by well meaning folk. These mothers cling to old memories, photo albums and painful frequent visits to cemeteries.

Honouring Mom's Memory On Mother's Day

Ken Rabow | Posted 05.10.2017 | Canada Living
Ken Rabow

One day, before you expect it, you get to the place where me, my brother and my sister are. Where every subsequent Mother's day has a different sort of sadness. Why is the first year different from the fifth year and why does this twelfth Mother's day without mom feel completely different? I'm not entirely sure.

The 12-Step Cure For Helicopter Parenting

Marcia Sirota | Posted 05.08.2017 | Canada Parents
Marcia Sirota

If parents and schools make it too easy for young people to shirk their work, it's unlikely that these youth will ever be willing or able to do what's necessary, in order to excel in their training or in their future jobs. If a young person has had helicopter parenting and/or has graduated from a college that coddled them, how can they overcome these disadvantages and achieve success in the workplace? It's simple, if not easy. They have to learn the attitudes and skills that will make it possible for them to succeed.

Things We Only Know Because Of Mom

HuffPost Canada | Joy D'Souza | Posted 05.05.2017 | Canada Parents

Basically everything.

I'll Always Be Her Mom, No Matter Where Her Feet Take Her

Alyce Kominetsky | Posted 05.04.2017 | Canada Parents
Alyce Kominetsky

Her feet will carry her wherever she needs to go. The road ahead is endless and full of dreams of possibilities. And, although I can't walk everywhere with her, she will always be by my side because she is a piece of me. And I am a piece of her. No matter the size of her shoes.

Weed-Loving Moms Deserve To Be In On The Conversation

Unity Marguerite Whittaker | Posted 05.04.2017 | Canada Living
Unity Marguerite Whittaker

Bringing the public perception of marijuana to a place where women, especially moms, are comfortable being identified as cannabis users may not sound like a big deal, but this is about so much more than enabling more moms to get high - it's about data, health and wellness.

Quebec's Natural Birth Movement Needs To Make Space For Diversity

Hirut Melaku | Posted 05.03.2017 | Canada Parents
Hirut Melaku

Dear white women, you do not speak for me. You are not the standard for representing all "wombn," especially in Quebec. You need to stop appropriating. If you truly are committed to progressing the natural birth movement, you will focus on understanding and addressing your individual and collective place of privilege and embedded assumption of white supremacy.

My Favourite Mother's Day Gifts For New Moms

Angie Campanelli | Posted 05.02.2017 | Canada Parents
Angie Campanelli

Looking for something special for a new mom in your life? These are some of my favourite gift ideas for moms in that first year of motherhood.

Helicopter Parents Are Raising Unemployable Children

Marcia Sirota | Posted 05.10.2017 | Canada Parents
Marcia Sirota

Helicopter parents think that they're doing what's best for their kids but actually, they're hurting their kids' chances at success. In particular, they're ruining their kids' chances of landing a job and keeping it.

Motherhood Shouldn't Diminish Serena Williams' Success Story

Kirsten Parucha | Posted 04.24.2017 | Canada Parents
Kirsten Parucha

Well before she became the most adorned tennis player in the Open era, Serena had already solidified herself as one of the greatest athletes of our time, and with this next chapter in her life, she's proving motherhood coalesces with womanhood, and a professional career isn't an obstruction between them.

Parents Travelling With Young Kids Deserve Our Kindness Not Mistreatment

Samantha Kemp-Jackson | Posted 04.24.2017 | Canada Parents
Samantha Kemp-Jackson

It's a terrifying thing, the prospect of boarding a plane with two babies or toddlers, while you are the person who must endure the daggers being stared at you by other travellers who are anticipating mayhem. Two babies (or toddlers) and a non-stop flight to a not-so-local destination do not a perfect scenario make.

Have A Happy, Healthy Pregnancy With These Top Tips

Sarah Mickeler | Posted 04.21.2017 | Canada Parents
Sarah Mickeler

Growing a baby is exhausting! With Mother's Day right around the corner, it's important to remember to take time for yourself and to take care of your own health and wellness -- for the sake of you and your baby bump.

The Push And Pull Of Motherhood

Shawna Scafe | Posted 04.11.2017 | Canada Parents
Shawna Scafe

I remember watching a friend parent her five-year-old boy. I didn't have kids yet, but I saw how he would push the limits and anger her. I was so impressed that she kept her calm and always welcomed him into her arms for a hug and moved on with a good attitude. I knew I wanted to be a parent like that. Forgiving and moving on, like I meant it.

My Daughter Will Remember My Love, Not My Imperfections

Alyce Kominetsky | Posted 04.07.2017 | Canada Parents
Alyce Kominetsky

Are we enough as moms? Are we doing a good enough job? Are our kids missing out? The list goes on and on my friends. Why do we do this to ourselves? Our kids love us. Unconditionally. They love us when we are at our best, but they love us just the same when we're not.

This Is The Joy And Weight Of Motherhood

Alyce Kominetsky | Posted 03.31.2017 | Canada Parents
Alyce Kominetsky

In the quiet of your room I felt myself fighting back tears. In the quiet of your room I realized how quickly you are growing. In the quiet of your room I felt the incredible pressure. In the quiet of your room I felt the weight of being your mom. Being a mom, being your mom, is my greatest joy. But it is also my biggest responsibility.

'Lucky' Is The Strength To Turn The Page On Life's Tough Chapters

Mary-Jo Dionne | Posted 03.31.2017 | Canada Living
Mary-Jo Dionne

Lucky isn't picking the right six numbers. It's seeing that the sad times let you better love the sweet ones. That sickness lets you better love health. Lucky is milking every word out of the good chapters. And when you're in a bad one, lucky is having enough strength to turn the page.