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What All Boys Should Be Told About Rehtaeh Parsons

Terri Coles | Posted 06.10.2013 | Canada Living
Terri Coles

In November 2011, when Rehtaeh Parsons was 15, she went with a friend to a party. Her mother said she was raped by four boys. I've seen a common refrain expressed online: "What are we teaching our kids?" It's a good question to ask when four young men allegedly felt that they had the right to do whatever they liked to a girl

Talk to Your Partner About Sex...and Reap the Benefits

Christine Hart | Posted 03.16.2013 | Canada Living
Christine Hart

For years, I have been perplexed by how rarely we discuss sex with our partners. I recognize these conversations are not easy for many people. When egos are exposed, you need an even blend of vulnerability and humour but most importantly love and respect for each other.

Is It Okay To Watch Adult Material In Public?

CP | Nick Patch, The Canadian Press | Posted 02.04.2013 | Canada Living

TORONTO - There was nothing comfortable about Tanis Miller's recent flight home to Edmonton, crammed as she was into a middle seat in economy, grappli...

Let's Talk About Sex, Muslims

Junaid Jahangir | Posted 12.02.2012 | Canada Living
Junaid Jahangir

Some conservative Muslim leaders, like their Christian counterparts, are disseminating a letter expressing the right of parents to withdraw their children from course content that conflicts with their understanding of faith. The letter expresses concerns about introducing children to sex-education and the realities of queer families.

Not a Biological Parent? How to Tell Your Child

Erica Berman | Posted 11.30.2012 | Canada Living
Erica Berman

As an infertility counsellor, I see a lot of clients who are using third-party family building strategies. This includes using sperm or egg donation and/or a gestational carrier. One of the many concerns these individuals have about family building using these methods is what they will tell their child.

What Sex Sells to Women?

Erika Lust | Posted 11.27.2012 | Canada Living
Erika Lust

I don't believe any single person can say what women want, but I can say with certainty that women do want. And the sooner society, media and business realize that this is the case, that men aren't the only sexual beings, the sooner we'll have greater variety to choose from and representations that reflect us.

Jade Eggs And The Dave Matthews Band: Inside A Vaginal Weightlifting Class

Emelia Symington Fedy | Posted 11.04.2012 | Canada British Columbia
Emelia Symington Fedy

I go up to the 20th floor and she lets me into a tiny studio apartment crammed with women sitting on cushions on the floor. The room is (in my small town opinion) gauche. A white fake fur rug, red satin pillows, gold cord wrapped around the sheer drapes. None of the 12 middle-aged women look like they want to be there. The instructor begins, "Vaginal weightlifting dates back thousands of years to the emperor's concubines in China. They would teach the emperor how to pleasure his many women, how to give and receive multiple orgasms and how not to come."

The Kind of Porn You SHOULD be Watching

Erika Lust | Posted 08.19.2012 | Canada Living
Erika Lust

Porn is out there, it's accessible, and it's here to stay. Sex and porn are so inextricably linked that it's as impossible to imagine the world without the one as it is without the other. The problem with most porn is that it reflects a weird world of hairlessness, bleaching athleticism and diminutive speech. It's not real, and this can lead to some serious social problems for teens.

Is 7 Billion People Too Many?

David Suzuki | Posted 01.03.2012 | Canada
David Suzuki

Supporting more people on a finite planet is a serious challenge. But in a world where hunger and obesity are both epidemics, reproduction rates can't be the main problem. And when we look at issues that are often blamed on overpopulation, we see that overconsumption is a greater factor in environmental destruction.

The Other Reason Your Kids Don't Talk to You About Sex

Josey Vogels | Posted 12.13.2011 | Canada Living
Josey Vogels

I realize a lot of kids feel like parents are the last people they want to talk to when it comes to sex, but isn't that partly because parents are still so awkward and obviously embarrassed by it themselves?

"Where Do Babies Come From?" and More Awkward Conversations With Kids

Josey Vogels | Posted 12.05.2011 | Canada Living
Josey Vogels

"My youngest son wanted to know what the 'part' below his penis was," one mom tells me. "I explained to him that it was his testicles. He quickly replied he didn't like the look of it and could I take them off!"

Hudak's 'Homophobic' Flyer: Intolerant or Informative?

Ontario Election Debate Hub | Posted 12.03.2011 | Canada
Ontario Election Debate Hub

Jason Lietaer (PC): There will always be some kind of allegation of hate or intolerance thrown by the grits. This time, it's homophobia. And it's nonsense. McGuinty's making sure that parents don't have any say in what kids are taught at school about these topics. We stand on the side of parents.

The Real Danger of Sexualizing Young Girls

Trina Read | Posted 11.21.2011 | Canada Living
Trina Read

At least once a year media grabs the next "is the sexual morality of our young women in peril?" headline and runs with it. Unfortunately, this results in yet another young generation of women who suffer the burden of carrying a ton of shame about their sexuality for the rest of their lives.

Having 'The Talk'

Sonya JF Barnett | Posted 11.06.2011 | Canada Living
Sonya JF Barnett

I don't want my son growing up with embarrassment over something so overly hyped as sex. It's just sex. There are worse things than sharing orgasms (as long as he has a condom) and he should understand that sex is for more than reproduction and doesn't have to be done only with someone you love.