"I really didn’t want anyone to know that I was weak because that’s what I thought it was, I was going to be perceived as weak if I explained this is what I was going through."
Worst combinations that are only going to get worse before they get better. And even once they do get better, there will be a lot of collateral damage left behind to clean up. One could get depressed. But then again, one could look at the calendar and realize that it's Remembrance Day.
Now, I give a lot of money and a lot of time to charitable causes. Yet many times I find myself dressed up and wondering "Just who/what am I raising money for tonight?" But if you give without thought, without conviction, without understanding what you can REALLY do to help, what are you really giving?