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Dear Sheryl Sandberg: Please Keep Predators Off Facebook

Posted: 11/16/2012 3:37 pm

Dear Ms. Sandberg,

We are a community of concerned citizens in British Columbia, including Amanda Todd's mother. As
you may know, Amanda was contacted and blackmailed through Facebook by an adult predator who impersonated local teens to enter her circles of friends.

We write imploring you to lead change in the social media industry by correcting the security failures that made such victimization possible.

As shocking as Amanda's story was, there is still much cause for worry. A YouTube channel, The
Daily Capper, openly celebrates and promotes the sexual exploitation of many young girls, fueling
traffic to a dark web of under-age sex sites. Meanwhile, reports out of Indonesia document that predators use Facebook as a key tool enabling them to abduct under-age girls into human trafficking.

Instagram, a photo-sharing program owned by Facebook, now features tens of thousands of images of children uploaded by their babysitters, available for viewing by over seven million daily users. No security prevents the inadvertent publication of profile information such as home addresses and phone numbers, and Instagram has a map function that enables predators to find the location of many photos.

Omegle is a site that invites kids as young as 13 to "Talk to Strangers" via video or text, and integrates directly with Facebook Connect. A simple YouTube search yields online instruction for contacting very young girls, and Omegle itself has a feature through which lurkers can prompt users to interact with each other, and to watch them anonymously.

These examples point to serious systemic design defects that place children and teens in harm's way. Known security gaps in a proliferating host of mobile applications have converted mainstream social media sites into highly effective devices for predators and abusive bullies. And in what can only be described as the cruelest irony, YouTube now sells advertising on Amanda's desperate video cry for help, while in a well-documented trend, her Facebook memorial page was desecrated.

Facebook has become a brand feared by parents, when it should be one they can trust.

We appeal to you as COO of Facebook, a mother, a visionary digital media leader, and member of the board of The Walt Disney Company, to lead industry-wide adoption of systemic security to block predators and abusers from accessing kids on major social media platforms, starting with Facebook itself.

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This is a consumer protection issue. Facebook has over a billion users around the world, of which an estimated 20 per cent, or 200 million, are aged 17 and under. Those users should be secure from contact with unscrupulous predators and abusers.

We are delighted to hear of your current initiative to reduce bullying and make young Facebook users
safer through stronger reporting and educational resources, and we applaud your efforts. Yet while
education of parents and kids is laudable, the onus for safety must not rest solely with consumers. Parents are not equipped to navigate complex technology and what their kids (or their kids' friends) do online is often outside their control.

Indeed, the principles of consumer protection are well established, particularly for products intended for use by children. The burden of ensuring systemic product safety rests with the industry that designs, engineers, markets and distributes it.

Real safety in social media requires systemic change across the industry.

We know that everyone in the legitimate social media industry wants kids to be safe. As a society we have a duty to use all our powers to ensure young people are free from exploitation and abuse.

Over the coming weeks and months our B.C. community will build a co-ordinated effort to press for
industry reform and consumer protection. As one final note, we implore you to ensure that memorial pages are monitored and abusive posts immediately removed.

We would love to meet with you to discuss how Facebook can lead that change.

For Amanda,

Sandy Garossino, civic advocate, business owner, View from BC panelist, CKNW
Raffi Cavoukian C.M., O.B.C., Centre For Child Honouring

Carol Todd, mother of Amanda Todd
Kim Cunliffe, bereaved mother of teen Darin Cunliffe, whose Facebook memorial was desecrated
Kip Woodward, Chair, Vancouver Coastal Health
Dr. Marlene Moretti, Senior Research Chair, Canadian Institutes of Health Research
Saleema Noon, B.A. M.A., Sexual Health Educator
Out In Schools, Drew Dennis, Executive Director, Ross Johnstone, Director of Education
Maureen Palmer, Director CBC documentary Sext Up Kids
Melissa Carr Vancouver's "Top Mom Blogger" http://thethirtiesgrind.com/
Bill Good, host, The Bill Good Show, CKNW, Corus Radio Network
Bridgitte Anderson, VP, Corporate & Public Affairs, Edelman Vancouver View from BC panelist CKNW
Alise Mills, Strategic Communications & Media Relations,View from BC panelist, CKNW
Jen Shaeffers, Executive Director, CKNW Orphans Fund
Jessica Gares producer, The Bill Good Show, CKNW
Michael Tippett CEO, Ayoudo, Co-founder, NowPublic
Michelle Rupp, Community-builder and Principal, Lighthouse Leadership
Peter Ladner, Author, columnist, former city councillor
Bif Naked, International Recording Artist, author, advocate
Grimes, Claire Boucher, International Recording Artist
Shane Koyczan Canadian poet, anti-bullying author and advocate
Linda Solomon, CEO, Observer Media Group, Publisher, The Vancouver Observer
Mark Busse, Partner/Managing Director, Industrial Brand, Vancouver organizer; Creative Mornings
Meeru Dhalwala, Partner, Vij's & Rangoli, author, healthy living advocate

 
 
 

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Whistlejackett
Hey stop doing that
01:13 AM on 11/19/2012
Keep kids off facebook, stop blaming and take responsibility.
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AcunningDisguise
magnus gigas caput
12:11 PM on 11/18/2012
Block them how you don't need to be on facebook to find facebook content or links.
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SanguinesDream
~Scio me nihil scire~
12:27 AM on 11/18/2012
I believe that this is a start.

A start to the waking of our collective consciousness towards bullying and putting words into actions.
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canobserv
08:32 AM on 11/17/2012
how about we just keep our teenagers busy with sports....schoolwork.....hobbies...surrounded by love ......and OFF facebook...
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HUFFPOST BLOGGER
Ike Awgu
03:08 PM on 11/17/2012
But canobserv, then we can't blame other people for problems that are our responsibility (as parents) to take care of. You know, like protecting our children or raising them in stable environments.
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SanguinesDream
~Scio me nihil scire~
12:21 AM on 11/18/2012
Do you actually HAVE any children or any experience raising a child?

Or do you just blame broken homes for creating bullies and allowing the victims to be bullied?
09:58 AM on 11/18/2012
Keeping the kids distracted will only deaden them to the potential of predators and abuse on the net. Let's face it, 10 year olds have far more internet savvy than most of their parents and in this type of society rife with tech it would be better to pour water in a holey bucket and try to get the water a thousand yards without spilling a drop than to try and "block" our kids from the internet.

Instead, parents should be educating themselves. IE: take some security courses on setting up networks and protecting yourself and your family from internet intrusion/exploitation, for both data capable phones and computers.
You don't give a 10 year old the keys to the family car and not think twice.. so why would you do that with a computer that's literally capable of so much potential harm when we know what's out there?
PARENTS and COMMUNITIES are what's needed. People who pay attention and make sure their children are EDUCATED first before just planting them in-front of an interactive TV.

More support from these big corporations that reap profit and leave destitution and destruction potential open with all the exploits they are even aware of but who use disclaimers to remove any obligation of their responsibility.. that needs to be changed.
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Ike Awgu
06:42 PM on 11/16/2012
Article summary: Facebook, please turn on the "predator filter". Signed, people who are oblivious to how the digital world works.