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Is it Time to Forgive Tiger Woods?

Posted: 03/28/2012 8:06 am

Two and a half years ago the world witnessed an athletic train wreck. One of the most recognizable athletes in our lifetime crashed and burned before our very eyes. Personally, professionally, and as a man.

The events following Tiger Woods' 2009 car accident are well-documented. Torrid affairs, stories of sexual addiction, a family in tatters; the world's best golfer without his major sponsors and unable to recapture the swing that made him a star.

Commentators and sports pundits jumped up and down on the grave of Tiger Woods' golf career, some reveling in the fact that someone so seemingly pristine and perfect was actually deeply flawed at his core.

I'm not sure those same "experts" were feeling so celebratory Sunday.

After years, finally, Woods did something that used to seem so commonplace.

He won.

Now it wasn't the world's biggest golf tournament to be sure. It wasn't a Major or a Ryder Cup. That, however, didn't change a thing for those of us who believe in redemption.

As Woods walked up the 18th fairway to the green at Bay Hill, you could spot a look in his eyes that indicated he was re-focused. His chest puffed out, an extra amount of determination in his stride.

The fans lined the fairway 10-deep to catch a glimpse of the man that made an old habit of walking to 18 with the lead on Sundays.

They weren't alone. The ratings were huge for NBC as well, as 4.8 per cent of households tuned in to see something that was once familiar.

They cheered. And when he putted to close out the victory, they roared, indicating they had forgiven and that it was time to start a new chapter.

The problem is, however, that with Tiger's new chapter, so too comes a new book. Tiger's former swing coach Hank Haney released his new tell-all about the golfer yesterday. In it, Haney describes Woods as cheap, petty, ruthless, and selfish.

Haney told CTV's Canada AM this week that Tiger is "so focused on what he is doing, trying to compete as a golfer, that he is self-centered" and that "his competitiveness is tied to his overall personality."

He claims that Tiger is obsessed with -- wait for it -- golf. That's right! Tiger has a golf obsession! Shocking stuff, huh?

Haney tells stories of how Tiger spends more than four hours looking at his swing in a mirror; that he replies to the doctor who has told him he has a broken leg and his anterior cruciate ligament is about to snap: "Just patch me up doc. I've got a U.S. Open to win. I can deal with the pain."

If you have followed Tiger's career, none of this should be surprising. He is a perfectionist, albeit not when it comes to mating and relating to others. But he is damn sure an unyielding stickler when it comes to his craft.

Many have described Woods' victory on Sunday, the first in 923 days and 27 tour events, as the beginning of phase two of his career.

Sure this is just one tournament. And with some of the nagging injuries Tiger has suffered, the end to his story may be closer than I'd like to believe it will be.

That being said, the Masters is two weeks away. In every year that Tiger Woods has won the Masters, he has headed to Augusta with a PGA Tour victory under his belt. Now that he has one, could the matching green jacket be far behind?

I think he's out of the proverbial woods, back on the prowl, and redemption is only a few strokes away.

 

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06:03 PM on 03/28/2012
never could figure out how so many women he was involved with came forward to say they slept with him....like they were victims. So what if he had a sex addiction. The Crazy size of the divorce settlement is plenty of punishment.
03:25 PM on 03/28/2012
Sure, forgive Tiger. His adoration willl sadly never return because behind his back will always be sneering people and he will not get his advertisers back. Accenture can not link its brand to him again.
03:07 PM on 03/28/2012
I do not see this as being about forgiveness. He did nothing directly to us – so what’s to forgive…?
Tiger may be obsessed with the game – but the game does not bring him gratification. There is no happiness, joy or pleasure...For me, he sucks the life out of the game. He can be intense and still celebrate the fact that he gets to play the game of golf, in some of the most beautiful places on the planet and he's pretty good at it, too...What's not to smile about. . I want to see some joy in his face...smile more...enjoy the moment...
When you approach a passion with joy – you become better at what you do – and you make everyone around you better. I think Tiger needs to forgive Tiger.
02:39 PM on 03/28/2012
Tiger Woods was just being Tiger Woods. I didn't like him before he revealed his true identity to the world. Forgive him? Not necessary in my eyes. In fact, I wish they (the therapists) had left him alone. The golf world was much more interesting.
01:35 PM on 03/28/2012
Think some of you are missing the point...the media and Tiger detractors spent the better part of a year raking this guy over the coals. Doyle's blog makes note of that. It may not be you that has to forgive and forget with Tiger...but it is certainly those detractors that have to bury the hatchet and give him a shot at redemption!
12:45 PM on 03/28/2012
It's not a question of forgiving him. That's not our place. We now know who he is.
12:04 PM on 03/28/2012
Seems like everyone has forgiven or forgot the Chris Brown incident, so why not Tiger?
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Creox
Life is too important to take seriously.
11:18 AM on 03/28/2012
If you are going to assess Tiger I would recommend you try and observe him as a human being first and a Dad, husband and finally a golfer.

He has demonstrated that he is a deeply flawed human being who failed as a husband. He is one of the greatest golfers ever born and to me that means zip tbh.

I am not involved with Tiger in any way beyond the media so what do I have to forgive him for?
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11:11 AM on 03/28/2012
I don't need to forgive him because he didn't do anything personally to me.
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Truth matters.
10:11 AM on 03/28/2012
Tiger was a meal ticket for Haney. Haney is far from alone in that regard. And with his book, Haney obviously still sees Tiger that way.

But more to the point, it's time to stop shedding tears for Elin. She was a nanny when she met Tiger. After 10yrs with him, she's the richest woman in Sweden.
09:16 AM on 03/28/2012
"Forgive?" His personal life is his business, and it's Elin who he needs to ask for forgiveness (good luck with that).

However, I did lose a lot of respect for him; he (tacitly) held himself out as a role model for kids, and that image is in tatters. Re-building an image of himself as a decent human being - not perfect, but honourable - will take a very long time, and a few trophies won't fix it.
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12:35 PM on 03/28/2012
Whatever his relationship is with Elin is their business. They seemed to have reached an arrangement that works so that he can spend time with his kids who are very important to him. He puts every else on hold when they are with their Dad. As it should be. As for being a role model...holding anyone up as some sort of god is risky. He is human and has flaws more or less than the rest of us. A great deal of pressure was put on this guy from the time he was little...remember his dad was Green Beret!! Ask the kids at his learning centre in Cerritos. I'm sure they'll tell you that he is still a pretty cool guy and has many good attributes that are worth learning.
09:02 AM on 03/28/2012
we already forgave him, many months ago. Whats been happening to him is called karma.
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08:53 AM on 03/28/2012
Forgive him for what? He didn't do anything to me.
10:14 AM on 03/28/2012
Exactly!