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India Gang-Rape Victim's Story: Sad but Common

Posted: 12/28/2012 12:05 pm

In Punjab, India, a young teenager recently committed suicide by poisoning herself.

The story of the teenager grabbed the world's attention initially when she was gang raped and beaten and left to die. As a victim, she went to make a complaint to the local authority and instead she was stonewalled. In addition, she was pressured to drop the case and "either accept a cash settlement or marry one of her attackers."

According to the area police, the young victim was "running from pillar to post to get her case registered but officers failed to open a formal inquiry." Her story mirrors the many injustices I often hear around the world via our multicultural communities in Toronto.

If her case seems to be an exception in the world, it unfortunately is not. In fact, I would like to highlight some of the little known stories of violence against women in the world that has touched me to the core.

Aberash Hailay . In Addis Ababa, Ethiopia, Hailay was an Ethiopian Airlines hostess, young and full of life. One night, her ex-husband made an abrupt visit and started to complain about a potential lover in her life. In a jealous rage, he stabbed both her eyes with a knife and stabbed her several times. She became blind in both eyes and partially paralyzed.

In the Middle East, an Ethiopian maid was recently tortured to death for being "lazy" by her employer. According to witnesses, the "maid suffered daily beatings and died from infected burns, after having boiling water poured over her."

According to the employer's daughter, "the maid was beaten daily and that her mother had rubbed pepper into the maid's eyes." These are some of the international issues that are profoundly touching in our world.

Seventeen years ago, a 12-year-old Canadian was inspired to help change the reality of the world after reading about a murdered child labour activist in Pakistan. For Craig Kielburger, founder of Free the Children, Igbal Masih's story touched him mostly because the young activist was denied his basic rights and was "forced into bonded labor in a carpet factory at the age of four, became an international figurehead for the fight against child labor by 12 years of age, and was brutally murdered in 1995."

In pursuit of a more perfect world, Ottawa's most beloved mayor, the late Marion Dewar, once said, "to end global poverty and injustice, we need to recognize and nurture women's leadership." The reality is, we are not even close to that ambitious admirable objective.

Then again, I hope the stories of these victims and many others will help inspire the Craig Kielburger in all of us.

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  • An Indian protester holds a placard during a protest against a recent gang rape of a young woman in a moving bus in New Delhi, India, Thursday, Dec. 27, 2012. (AP Photo/Altaf Qadri)

  • An Indian police officer, left, sports a cricket helmet as policemen stand near barricades and stop protesters on their way to India Gate while protesting against a gang-rape of a young woman in a moving bus in New Delhi, India, Thursday, Dec. 27, 2012. (AP Photo/Tsering Topgyal)

  • Indian students protesting against a recent gang-rape of a young woman in a moving bus in New Delhi, take out a rally in Kolkata, India, Thursday, Dec. 27, 2012. (AP Photo/Bikas Das)

  • Underprivileged Indians watch a protest against a recent gang-rape of a young woman in a moving bus in New Delhi, India, Thursday, Dec. 27, 2012. (AP Photo/Altaf Qadri)

  • An Indian protester shouts slogans as he is stopped by police during a protest against a recent gang-rape of a young woman in a moving bus in New Delhi, India, Thursday, Dec. 27, 2012. (AP Photo/Altaf Qadri)

  • A young Indian girl clings to the saree of her mother as she participates in a protest against the recent gang-rape of a young woman in a moving bus in New Delhi, India, Thursday, Dec. 27, 2012. (AP Photo/Altaf Qadri)

  • Indian protesters shout slogans while demonstrating against the recent gang-rape of a young woman in a moving bus in New Delhi, India, Thursday, Dec. 27, 2012. (AP Photo/Altaf Qadri)

  • Indian protesters listen to a speaker during a protest against a recent gang rape of a young woman in a moving bus in New Delhi, India, Thursday, Dec. 27, 2012. (AP Photo/Altaf Qadri)

  • Indian women shout slogans as they protest against a recent gang-rape of a young woman in a moving bus in New Delhi, India, Thursday, Dec. 27, 2012. (AP Photo/ Saurabh Das)

  • Indian women hold placards as they protest against the recent gang-rape of a young woman in a moving bus in New Delhi, India, Thursday, Dec. 27, 2012. (AP Photo/ Saurabh Das)

  • Indian demonstrators shout slogans and wave placards as they move towards India Gate in New Delhi on December 27, 2012, during a protest calling for better safety for women following the rape of a student in the Indian capital. (SAJJAD HUSSAIN/AFP/Getty Images)

  • Kashmiri Sikh students protesting against a brutal gang-rape of a woman on a bus last week in New Delhi, shout slogans in Srinagar, India, Thursday, Dec. 27, 2012. (AP Photo/ Dar Yasin)

  • Indian demonstrators shout slogans as they move towards India Gate in New Delhi on December 27, 2012, during a protest calling for better safety for women following the rape of a student in the Indian capital.(SAJJAD HUSSAIN/AFP/Getty Images)

  • Indian demonstrators shout slogans and wave placards as they move towards India Gate in New Delhi on December 27, 2012, during a protest calling for better safety for women following the rape of a student in the Indian capital.( SAJJAD HUSSAIN/AFP/Getty Images)

  • Indian people wear black bands to protest against the brutal gang-rape of a woman on a moving bus in New Delhi, India, Tuesday, Dec. 25, 2012. (AP Photo/ Saurabh Das)

  • Indian demonstrators hold placards as they shout anti-government slogans during a protest calling for better safety for women in India in New Delhi on December 25, 2012, following the rape of a student in the Indian capital. An Indian policeman injured in clashes during a protest over a gang-rape in New Delhi has died a police spokesman said, as much of the city centre remained sealed off following the violence. (RAVEENDRAN/AFP/Getty Images)

  • An Indian woman shouts slogans during a demonstration against the brutal gang-rape of a woman on a moving bus New Delhi, India, Monday, Dec. 24, 2012. (AP Photo/Altaf Qadri)

  • An Indian anti-riot policeman keeps an eye from behind a police barricade during a demonstration against the brutal gang-rape of a woman on a moving bus New Delhi, India, Monday, Dec. 24, 2012. (AP Photo/Altaf Qadri)

  • Indian students carrying placards shout slogans against last week's gang-rape as they protest in central New Delhi, India, Monday, Dec. 24, 2012. (AP Photo/ Saurabh Das)

  • An Indian woman shouts slogans during a demonstration against the brutal gang-rape of a woman on a moving bus New Delhi, India, Monday, Dec. 24, 2012. (AP Photo/Altaf Qadri)

  • Indian protesters hold placards as they demonstrate against the brutal gang-rape of a woman on a moving bus New Delhi, India, Monday, Dec. 24, 2012. (AP Photo/Altaf Qadri)




 

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12:53 AM on 01/11/2013
Selamta, guad Sami! Igzerstelegn le betam tolo articleh; gobez. So good to see people of your calibre writing for this website. And I share your hopes that in our age of mass communication people around the world will no longer tolerate these acts of brutality, as the perpetrators find less and less sympathy or places to hide their crimes.
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12:03 AM on 12/29/2012
totally amazing,some of these people are starving and allow cattle to roam the streets of india without touching them,yet women are beaten,raped then murdered !
11:09 PM on 12/28/2012
Thank you, sir, for pointing out that his situation is hardly unique to India. The situation for women on this planet is an embarrassment to the human race as a whole.

And if Canada and the US think it doesn't happen here, we have a lot to learn.

If the United Nations wants to justify its existence, they would do everything in their power to raise the level of human dignity for ALL humans, man, woman, or child, regardless of race. But the human energy and endeavour that is wasted when half the population is forced into subservience and abuse is an affront to all of us.

Imagine a world where that vast untapped resource is let loose. What could be accomplished?
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08:52 PM on 12/30/2012
JGBurke - thank you for writing. I can not even imagine what can be accomplished - I wish it happens soon
01:32 PM on 12/28/2012
I was raised to accept people from different cultures and races...my parents opened our home to exchange students from around the world...my dad's favorite saying was "the ratio of "jerks" to good guys is the same in every race...however after spending my adult life reading news from as many different sources as I can ... I feel the need to start automatically distrusting men of non-white races until I really have verifiable proof that they are trustworthy! & it's truth that caucasian men are only "slightly" less frightening--rates of spouse & child abuse have probably not dropped much over my lifetime & certainly equality of pay & opportunity are apparently unattainable -but still at least In Canada I can feel mostly safe while riding a bus...where are the men with functioning souls fighting this garbage?? perhaps the 50 million girls sacrificed in Indian gendercides were spared a worse fate...is this what 2013 for the two genders brings?
01:19 AM on 01/11/2013
So, you would feel more comfortable riding a bus in a white neighborhood in South Africa, where rape by white men is equally prevalent as it is among the black population, as opposed to say Armenia, Madagascar or or Japan; "non-white" countries with lower percentage instances of rape than Canada? Sadly, all the good will your father tried to instill in you did not translate into intelligence or reasoning on your part.