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Marriage 101: Eight Classes I Wish Existed

Debra Macleod | Posted 05.10.2013 | Canada Living
Debra Macleod

Divorce rates are nasty and too many women find themselves in unhappy, unhealthy marriages. I've compiled a list of eight subjects that, if I found myself Dean of Spouse School, I would recommend as prerequisites to marriage.

Vegas "Sex" Casino: Would You Go With Your Spouse?

Debra Macleod | Posted 04.11.2013 | Canada Living
Debra Macleod

M.S. Shadlock's controversial sexual thriller, The Inferno, is about a "sex hotel and casino" in Las Vegas where you gamble with sex, not money. It explores -- among other things -- what happens when couples push the limits of their sexuality in an effort to spice-up their marriages. Would couples really go to a place like this?

Once a Cheater, Always a Cheater?

The Purple Fig | Posted 04.09.2013 | Canada Living
The Purple Fig

I first heard the statement, "Once a cheater always a cheater" when I was in high school. Maybe some women are born with an innate desire to believe in the ability to change. I know I'm a little more evidence-based myself and if history is any indication, I'd say Don Draper will spend the rest of his fictional life appearing in the beds of women all over 1960s Manhattan.

Eight Ways to Affair-Proof Your Marriage

Debra Macleod | Posted 04.03.2013 | Canada Living
Debra Macleod

People often say that their marriage ended because their spouse had an affair; however, infidelity isn't always the cause of marital breakdown. Usually, it's a symptom of a relationship that is already unhealthy and unhappy in some way. Here are 8 tips to affair-proof your marriage.

Infidelity, Part 2: How to End an Affair

Debra Macleod | Posted 05.04.2013 | Canada Living
Debra Macleod

Time heals all wounds, right? Wrong. If a couple who has suffered through infidelity does not properly recover and heal from it, time only makes the scar more visible. The wound may even re-open now and then. But if a couple uses time smartly, it can soothe the pain and the scar can begin to fade.

Part 1: How Technology Has Enabled Cheating

Debra Macleod | Posted 04.23.2013 | Canada Living
Debra Macleod

Dating and social networking sites provide low-risk, high-excitement ways to connect with strangers and/or reconnect with past friends or lovers. The payoff -- a rush of adrenaline and arousal -- is instantaneous and people often mistakenly believe that they have made an authentic, meaningful connection with someone they have either never met or barely know.

How I Discovered My Husband's Affair

Yummy Mummy Club | Posted 04.21.2013 | Canada Living
Yummy Mummy Club

So, it's less than three weeks before Christmas. Friday night. Friends are winding down from their work week, decorating the tree with the kids, and maybe getting ready for a Christmas party. I just learned of my husband's affair. I picked up a card I found in his gym bag. I read the cover and thought, "Wow! This must be my Christmas card." But I didn't put it down, and the surprise was on me. It was from Karen. Karen? Who's Karen?

Is It OK To Laugh If Your Child Cheats on Homework?

Leanne Shirtliffe | Posted 01.16.2013 | Canada Alberta
Leanne Shirtliffe

My eight-year-old son has been cheating on his home reading. "How is that possible?" you might ask. "How is it possible that he's been doing this for six weeks and you never noticed?" you might ask.

Is Technology Making It Harder For People To Cheat?

CBC | Posted 01.14.2013 | Canada Living

As the email scandal surrounding ex-CIA boss David Petraeus proves, those who decide to cheat on their spouses, as careful as they may think they are,...

Should We Treat the Globe and Mail as a Cheating Student?

Johannes Wheeldon, Ph.D | Posted 11.24.2012 | Canada
Johannes Wheeldon, Ph.D

In a remarkable reply to the detailed allegations against Margaret Wente for repeated plagiarism, the Globe and Mail has shown itself to be unequal to the tasks associated with running a national newspaper. In short, basic journalistic integrity at the Globe is dead. So what might be done?

What Men Can Learn From 50 Shades of Grey

Debra Macleod | Posted 11.12.2012 | Canada Living
Debra Macleod

This widespread resentment toward Christian Grey -- kink version of the Alpha male -- has sparked a furor among men. But men are missing the point. It isn't Mr. Grey's bank account or bondage gear that makes him Mr. Right. The real reason women lust after him is because he makes them feel lusted after.

10 Red Flags Your Partner Might Be Cheating

2 For Couples | Neil Morton | Posted 06.27.2012 | Canada Living

Signs of relationship infidelity come in many forms -- some obvious, others more subtle. "Even before physical cheating comes emotional cheating -...

I Made Out With a Married Man, and Told His Wife

Delaine Moore | Posted 08.21.2012 | Canada Living
Delaine Moore

Last year I spent out eight hours with a handsome "urban cowboy" at a bar. A day and a make-out session later, I found out he was married. I told his wife what had happened. I don't know if I made the right decision, so after a year of not speaking to her, I got in contact with her, and here's what she had to say about knowing that her husband cheated on her.

Think He's Unfaithful? Your Phone Can Tell You

Huffington Post Canada | Brian Vinh Tien Trinh | Posted 03.09.2012 | Canada Living

You might be able to tell a man's personality by the company he keeps, his income by the car he drives, and his interests by his hobbies. But can you ...

Relationship Advice: When to Break Up

Marcia Sirota | Posted 12.11.2011 | Canada Living
Marcia Sirota

If one or more deal breakers are present in your relationship, you'll have to see whether it's possible for you partner to stop what they're doing immediately. There's no point in waiting for them to change. You've already been tolerating the intolerable.

Exes And Facebook: Should You Contact Someone You've Dated?

The Huffington Post Canada | Martha Edwards | Posted 11.29.2011 | Canada Living

Texting and social media are so woven into the fabric of our lives it's nearly impossible to imagine what we did without them. And while texting and F...

The Real Reason Why People Cheat

Marcia Sirota | Posted 11.29.2011 | Canada Living
Marcia Sirota

It's too easy to say that people cheat because they're unhappy in their marriage. I've observed that there are a number of reasons why people cheat, and these have everything to do with the character of the person cheating.

I Cheated on You... Will You Marry Me?

Jowita Bydlowska | Posted 11.02.2011 | Canada Living
Jowita Bydlowska

I believe in love. And I also believe in men having fire lit up under their butts after dalliances, suddenly panicking and making the gravest of life decisions to save the said butts.

How You Know He's Cheating: The Difference Between Women's Intuition and Paranoia

Marcia Sirota | Posted 10.29.2011 | Canada
Marcia Sirota

Ellie has a habit of expecting the worst of others, so when she felt that her husband was keeping things from her, it was easy for me to think that she was imagining things. It turns out that Ellie was right. After months of having been labeled as "crazy" and "paranoid" she was finally, albeit sadly, vindicated.

Site That Exposes Cheaters Could Be Legal Trouble

The Toronto Star | Posted 09.19.2011 | Canada Business

A website where people can anonymously accuse spouses, friends or even enemies of cheating has expanded to Canada, though it’s unclear whether it mi...