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If You Think Having Three Kids Is Hard, Try Four, Five and Six

Kathy Buckworth | Posted 05.15.2013 | Canada Living
Kathy Buckworth

A study by Today.com that suggests three is the most stressful number of children to have. A mom of three explains that the stress level increases when it comes to things like crossing the street, versus two kids. But I have four kids, and to the best of my recollection, I don't recall sprouting an extra arm when that last child arrived.

The Magic and Mayhem of Modern Mummyhood

Jennifer Pellegrini | Posted 05.12.2013 | Canada Living
Jennifer Pellegrini

In my life, I have enjoyed 15 Mother's Days. The first one got off to a bit of a rocky start, (let's just say there's a certain man in my life who wil...

Would The Circus Buy My Four-Year-Old?

Melissa Carr | Posted 05.09.2013 | Canada British Columbia
Melissa Carr

There are days when I feel like there is an alien invading my little boy's body...who is this demon? His sister went through a bit of the same at this age. Willful. Stubborn. Naughty. My darling son is all this with the added bonus of also being completely irrational (no...you cannot wear your basketball shorts out in the freezing rain), disobedient (I already told you, you are not allowed to eat Easter eggs for breakfast) and violent (if I had a dollar for every time I've gotten a foot in the boob...).

The Mother I Am Is Different Than the Mother I Thought I'd Be

Terri Coles | Posted 05.09.2013 | Canada Living
Terri Coles

I'm starting to accept that all the research in the world can't prepare you for the day-to-day realities of parenting, and that the parent you hope to be isn't necessarily the parent you will be when you are faced with the child you end up with -- who is, after all, an individual in his or her own right. What matters is that I am the right mother for him, and he is the perfect child for me.

Baby, I Have Breast Cancer: Breaking the News to a Child

Natacha V. Beim | Posted 05.08.2013 | Canada Alberta
Natacha V. Beim

As a parent, there is nothing more disconcerting than having to take something from your child. I've had parents call me late in the evening to ask me to open the school doors so they can recover their child's blanket.

What Do You Do When Your Kid Is Being Bullied?

Stephanie Knaak | Posted 05.05.2013 | Canada Living
Stephanie Knaak

"My daughter is 11 years old.The boys and the girls at school call her names that shouldn't even exist. They tell her she's ugly, that her face is like a pancake smothered in poop. They have created a 'We hate Brittany' club. I tell myself all the time -- 'this has to stop. And it has to stop now. Today.' But it never does."

Why I'm Not Hiding The Ugly Truth Of My Eating Disorder From My Kids

Marci Warhaft-Nadler | Posted 05.02.2013 | Canada Living
Marci Warhaft-Nadler

Recently I was asked if I ever worried that I was putting my children at risk for developing eating disorders by being so open and honest about my own. The truth is that they always knew their mom was a bit "different," they just didn't know why. I may have convinced myself that they were oblivious to my disorder, but how could that be true when we'd be walking out the door to go for dinner and one of them would ask, "Are you eating today, Mommy, or just watching?" or they'd shout, "Look, Mommy's a dinosaur!" because the bones of my spine would poke out so sharply from under my skin.

You Are Four Years Old Today

Vicki Murphy | Posted 05.01.2013 | Canada Living
Vicki Murphy

Max James Murphy, you sneaky rascal. How are you growing up so darn fast? You are four years old today. I am in awe. When people asked how old you...

Be the Mother You Wish You'd Had

Sylvia Forrest | Posted 04.30.2013 | Canada Living
Sylvia Forrest

No pain could have cut deeper than when my son told me he didn't know how it felt to be happy, when I was doing everything in my power to give him the best life I could. You just can't prepare for that. My job was to love him desperately, and never to give up hope. I did the best I could.

Reject "Girl Things" and "Boy Things" -- Sex Organs Don't Dictate Nurturing Or Adventure

Anupreet Sandhu Bhamra | Posted 04.28.2013 | Canada
Anupreet Sandhu Bhamra

"Look mom, Kabir is pretending to be a mommy!" My then four-year-old daughter pointed enthusiastically at her year-old brother, who lovingly pushed a ...

Trying to Balance Parenthood, My Work and My Passion

Vicki Murphy | Posted 04.29.2013 | Canada
Vicki Murphy

Oh look, a couple hours of spare time to blog. It was hiding behind the creative brief I brought home from the office, which was behind the dog's dand...

We're Done Having Kids: Knowing When To Stop Making Babies

Melissa Carr | Posted 04.27.2013 | Canada British Columbia
Melissa Carr

My daughter keeps asking for a little sister. At first it was cute...then it started to evolve into a daily request, which became harder and harder to address. I can relate. I also wanted a sister growing up. But now, I can't deny the fact that after 4.5 years postpartum, I finally feeling like I have my body "back." I am quite certain that I don't want to go down the pregnancy path again.

A Reminder to Live Life Large and in Colour

Lori Gard | Posted 04.20.2013 | Canada Living
Lori Gard

Oh! how easy it would be to just hide under the covers and ignore the bad guys. Pretending it would all go away it we just make a simple wish. But life is far better lived in 3-D. Lived in colour. Lived out loud, and very, very large.

Five Ways to Deal With Your Kids in Public Bathrooms

Samantha Kemp-Jackson | Posted 04.18.2013 | Canada Living
Samantha Kemp-Jackson

The thought of entering a public bathroom with your kid is more than you can bear. Have no fear the next time this scenario presents itself. There are, thankfully, some very simple tips and strategies that parents can use. Following are the top five ways to deal with public bathrooms when out with the kids.

SavvyMom Roundup: Margaret Thatcher According to Russell Brand, and more

Minnow Hamilton | Posted 04.11.2013 | Canada Living
Minnow Hamilton

Hockey Parents, judging parents, Downton Abbey withdrawal, energy shots and Margaret Thatcher all caught my attention this week. 1. This is a classi...

Commando Parenting My Independent Daughter

Jeni Marinucci | Posted 04.08.2013 | Canada Living
Jeni Marinucci

I turn to my daughter. She is 14, and busy perfecting the act of looking at once both pensive and haughty. Finally she admits something. "I'm thinking about the bus. You said you wanted to teach me to ride the public bus. That I need to be more independent." I did say that...

How Pageant Parents Teach Us What Not to Do

Yummy Mummy Club | Posted 04.08.2013 | Canada Living
Yummy Mummy Club

To most parents Toddlers & Tiaras is so offensive that we can hardly watch it, let alone relate to it. While this may be obvious to many, what we often fail to see are the grains of these behaviours "normal" parents may engage in. Here are the top five lessons all parents can take from these pageant-parents in order to help their daughters build authentic and long-lasting self-esteem.

That's Right: I Yell at my Kids

Heather Korol | Posted 04.04.2013 | Canada Living
Heather Korol

Some families have a chore board or a swear jar -- we have a yelling chart. Some days I have the most blocks on the yelling chart but some days I win the best mommy ribbon. I know my mothering isn't prefect but I'm not failing either. I'm trying.

Teaching Your Child to Cook Healthy Meals at Any Age

Natacha V. Beim | Posted 04.01.2013 | Canada Alberta
Natacha V. Beim

Having your child prepare a healthy meal for the family seems like an unattainable dream for most parents. However, if you instil the habit of cooking in your child at an early age, you are providing them with the skills they need to live a healthy life, and having fun while doing it.

Who Are We to Judge Moms Who Need a Break?

Lori Gard | Posted 03.28.2013 | Canada Living
Lori Gard

There is a picture of a mama and her kids at the park. The kids are happily playing on the playground equipment while the mom checks a message on her phone. What could she be doing? Could a very important phone call just have come in? And who are we to judge?

The Top 10 Lies Parents Tell Their Kids

Samantha Kemp-Jackson | Posted 03.26.2013 | Canada Living
Samantha Kemp-Jackson

The reality of being called "mom" or "dad" means that you're gonna have to bend the truth somewhat. The lies parents tell their kids range from the ridiculous to the sublime. These lies can range from a simple white lie to a real doozy. It's all just a matter of scale. Whatever it takes, right?

Why Every Family Needs a Mission Statement

Kathy Buckworth | Posted 03.22.2013 | Canada Living
Kathy Buckworth

As the boss of your family, you will likely find a mission statement handy, if for no other reason than to remind yourself of what you were thinking when you brought these people into the world. And why you shouldn't take them out. Corporately, a mission statement should address the employees, the shareholders, and the customers. Here's a quick primer on adapting those three categories to family life.

What We Must Learn From Steubenville

Erin Chrusch | Posted 05.18.2013 | Canada Alberta
Erin Chrusch

As I read the reports, it is hard not to remember what it was like when I was in high school. I grew up in a typical small prairie town with good, honest hard-working people. Yet I'm sure that if we're being honest with ourselves, most of us know that what happened in Steubenville could have easily happened where we lived, in any city or town.

Facebook Pics Can Be Happier Than Real Life, and That's OK

BabyPost | Posted 05.18.2013 | Canada Living
BabyPost

I am pretty honest in my photo representation of my life with my children on Facebook. I posted many pictures of my screaming newborns, and when my children are doing something particularly impertinent, I'll post that too. It's not lying to post a happy-looking picture that isn't really representative. It's not misleading.

My Brave Little Toddler Does Disney

Vicki Murphy | Posted 05.18.2013 | Canada Living
Vicki Murphy

You never really know what kind of youngster you've got until you test him out in the real world. Our recent trip to Orlando confirmed that our little junior is quite the joiner. We shouldn't be surprised by his courage, I suppose. His nickname is Turbo Ginger for god sakes.