It is really about the head and heart. Not the size of the breasts. Or how firm, the body. For me, humour is key. I know that sounds strange. But getting naked with someone is inherently funny. Especially in the early stages. As we try to navigate which legs go where.

There is no absolute and true number when it comes to attractiveness. There are no real fives, eights or threes. Just because our society seems to be confused and mistaken in its understanding and conceptualization of physical attraction, doesn't mean that you have to make the same mistake as an individual. Having a realistic and grounded understanding of what attractiveness is and the role it plays in your life can have a big impact on your mental health.