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The Purple Fig is a blogazine for real women by real women (cool, strong, outspoken women you’d want to have a glass of wine with). Raw, relatable stories on everything from looking for love to staying in love; from partying to parenting; from cooking to meditating.

It is a community where women share personal stories — no ego, no shame. We're about life, love and all of the stuff that makes us yearn, squirm, and giggle. These stories make up the authentic and intriguing journey of a woman. Share your story and join the convo.

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Tips for a Healthy, Natural Pregnancy

(0) Comments | Posted May 22, 2013 | 11:31 AM

In the modern world we live in, almost everything we use includes chemicals and artificial ingredients. Understandably, many pregnant women are wary of exposing their unborn baby to harsh, unnatural substances. Here are a few simple changes I made during my pregnancy to avoid exposing my baby to harmful substances.

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I Called Off My Wedding and I'm Happier Than Ever

(18) Comments | Posted May 16, 2013 | 8:24 AM

On a mid-summer's night, as I was leaving work, I saw my boyfriend standing outside in front of a limo with flowers in his hand. He looked nervous and sweaty. Bewildered, I greeted him with just as much nervousness. Later that evening he proposed, and suddenly I was a fiancée.

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We Are All More Than Just Moms

(1) Comments | Posted May 8, 2013 | 7:52 AM

When we think of a modern mom, we may picture a woman in a business suit, rushing to the door of an elementary school with her kid trailing behind. She's got to be at work in 20 minutes. Her son is not going to be late today! She's got her...

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A Day in the Life of a Mom

(0) Comments | Posted May 7, 2013 | 5:26 PM

Get up. Get yourself up because if you roll over it will be far more painful to get up later and you won't have gotten a work-out in. Get up. Whatever you do, remember the passport forms today.

Drive. Push it push it, spin, spin, spin. Do you want to...

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I Lost All My Hair, But I Feel More Beautiful Than Ever

(0) Comments | Posted May 1, 2013 | 12:24 PM

Today something really interesting happened to me. I went to the mall and two people told me how much they loved my hair. They loved the colour and they loved my curls. They said they wished they had hair like mine. My response? "For the low cost of $26.99 you...

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It Is Impossible For Me To Say "I'm Sorry"

(3) Comments | Posted April 26, 2013 | 6:10 PM

I am hardly ever wrong. And when I am, I hardly ever apologize for it. I know it's a problem -- both thinking that I am always right and hardly apologizing. There are many reasons that have led to me becoming an unapologetic person. Whatever the excuse, I am afraid...

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How Losing Weight Almost Made Me Lose My Mind

(5) Comments | Posted April 25, 2013 | 8:04 AM

By Andrea Ashby

So I stood there, pantless and confused.

Looking at my reflection, I didn't see anything drastically different about my appearance, as I had always known it to be. I concluded that I was maybe slightly thinner than usual, but my stride told me that "slightly" was a...

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How Changing My Diet Helped My Anxiety

(0) Comments | Posted April 9, 2013 | 12:22 PM

I am a 34-year-old wife and a mother to a nine-year old daughter. From the age of 15 on I began to develop anxiety. The majority of it hit me while in high school. I was a perfectionist and aimed high when it came to grades. As soon as I...

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Once a Cheater, Always a Cheater?

(12) Comments | Posted April 9, 2013 | 7:22 AM

Last year, at the end of Mad Men's season 5, we were given reason to speculate about Don Draper's ability to change his philandering ways. "Are you alone?" asks a woman at the bar where Don sits. He turns to her with a look of indifference...

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Raising a Child After the Loss of my Mother

(3) Comments | Posted April 3, 2013 | 7:00 AM

I don't want to miss this. My kids are young, and I'm the most important person in their world (other than dad, of course). Some day they will have their own lives and wives and babies and won't need me any more. I imagine one day I'll be a 60-year-old...

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That Mom Losing Patience With Her Son? Don't Judge Her

(55) Comments | Posted March 29, 2013 | 5:04 PM

When I became a mother five years ago I naively assumed that having a child meant a woman had grown up. Gone would be the petty insecurities, comparisons and judgements that women so cruelly share during the teenage years and beyond.

I was wrong.

Two children, two cities and many...

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Is Twitter Like Online Therapy for Teens?

(0) Comments | Posted March 26, 2013 | 8:17 AM

Twitter can be noisy. Silly. Crude. Mundane. Commercial. Self-promoting. Therapeutic. Wait, what was that last one?

I won't lie, the reason I got into Twitter had to do with the second-last descriptor. When I set my sights on publishing a novel for teen girls, I thought I should...

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I Was a Mute and I Got Over My Panic Attacks With a Little Help

(10) Comments | Posted March 23, 2013 | 8:12 AM

When I was 25 years old, I went mute. Not for a few seconds, not for a few days, or weeks, but months.

A conversation that went beyond a minute or two would have me in the throes of heart palpations, hyperventilation, and sweating. Talking, for me, evoked acute panic...

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Can Mothers and Single Women Remain BFFs?

(7) Comments | Posted March 19, 2013 | 7:00 AM

To My Dearest Mommy Friend,


We've known each other since we were practically babies, since before we can remember even knowing each other. Now you're a wife and mother to a four-year-old with another baby on the way. I, on the other hand, am still single, trying to...

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A Man's Take on The Bachelor Finale

(8) Comments | Posted March 12, 2013 | 5:26 PM

Every Monday night I need both of my boys asleep by 8 p.m. I eat my dinner on my lap, and I have a pint of coke with ice in it. After a day of targets and sales pressures, this is my escape. I tell my wife that whatever she...

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Breastfeeding Sucks

(89) Comments | Posted March 9, 2013 | 6:23 AM

The first two days with my newborn were hell.

Those weren't exactly the words I'd expected to come out of my mouth as a first-time mom, but from the moment my new little man laid eyes on my breasts, his reaction was to scream. I had intended to breastfeed,...

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Turns Out I Love Being a Mother After All

(1) Comments | Posted March 7, 2013 | 6:50 AM

In 2005 my life was very different than it is now. A job in advertising afforded me a very indulgent lifestyle and I spent every cent on purses, high heels, and enjoying myself. Having a child was the last thing on my radar.

In fact, from a pretty young age...

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Dina Pugliese: Fighting Self-Doubt To Get Her Dream Job

(1) Comments | Posted March 1, 2013 | 4:38 PM

"From an early age, I second-guessed myself. I didn't have the confidence to put myself out there." Not the words you'd expect from a popular TV personality.

Every morning, along with her co-hosts Kevin Frankish, Jennifer Valentyne, and Frank Ferragine, Dina Pugliese interviews,...

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Anxiety in Children: Are We To Blame?

(18) Comments | Posted February 26, 2013 | 4:26 PM

You cannot flip open a newspaper, a magazine or scan Facebook without noticing the rise in anxiety and depression amongst young teens and adults. Many articles call it an epidemic, documented by a severe spike in suicides, prescriptions and counselling appointments on university campuses.

As a counsellor at a major...

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How Having a "Type" Almost Made Me Miss Out on Love

(42) Comments | Posted February 22, 2013 | 7:55 AM

By the age of 34, I was somewhat of an expert on "types." I had dated them all. I have been like a casting director in my own dating show. As soon as I saw one characteristic that was categorized under a type that I wasn't looking for, I'd think,...

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