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Those Smiling Cuban Faces Really Get to Me

Posted: 12/31/2012 4:09 pm

Tim Knight writes the regular Watching the Watchdog column for HuffPost.

I came to Cuba because it's the only island I could find that's cheap (I'm a writer), has palm trees, warm sea, good scuba diving and, since it's an officially Marxist-Leninist socialist republic, is godless, therefore likely to ignore Christmas.

It's the Cuban faces that I remember best now.

Cubans can't stop smiling. Their average wage is $20 a month, they can get locked up for saying impolite things about their government, yet they can't stop smiling.

They smile when I get to the hotel two hours late because my plane is delayed by snow in Toronto and it's close to midnight and they've been waiting for three hours so they can show me to my room and hand me my room key before finally heading home to their families.

They smile when they talk about the American embargo which is illegal under international law and has kept them amongst the Third World have-not nations for 53 long, cruel years.

They smile when they pour yet another Cuba Libre for yet another arrogant, drunken foreigner.

The Northerners at the bar and around the pool and at the beach don't smile. They grimace when they meet. They gurgle when somebody makes a joke. They giggle when somebody slips and falls on the stone pathways after the rain. They guffaw when they're drunk.

But they don't smile.

It's the contrast that gets to you. The contrast between the warm, open, generous faces of the Cubans who have nothing and value everything, and the cold, closed, selfish faces of the Northerners who, by contrast, have everything and value nothing.

It's the faces.

  • The distant faces of the British who once ruled the world and still pretend they're strolling the corridors of power although everyone knows they're a lot closer to the Third World than the first.
  • The lost faces of the Russians who until recently were co-rulers of the world, still resent the fact that the decadent West won and the worker's paradise lost, and pretend that they're not minor Russian Mafia even though no honest Russian can afford even the low prices here.
  • The tight faces of the Germans who once tried to rule the world and still claim somebody else ran the camps.
  • The bored faces of the Italians who, under another name, did rule the world long ago and now aspire to real democracy because enough of their politicians are out of jail to form a government for a month or two.
  • The smug faces of the French who fantasize that they don't care who rules the world as long as the wine is French, the accent Parisian and the world appropriately weary.
  • The polite faces of the Canadians who still pretend they're part of the club that rules the world even though they'd be the 51st American state if it wasn't for the fact that the Americans have quite enough problems as it is and certainly don't need those damned Québécois separatists to make things worse.
  • American faces aren't seen around Cuba any more (unless you peer through the barbed wire of the illegal military zoo called Guantanamo Bay). They're not here because the Americans (who do still rule the world) find it politically useful to pretend that this island of just 11-million people is a threat to peace, democracy, freedom, the pursuit of happiness and the American way.
  • In splendid contrast are the warm, smiling faces of the Cubans who will never rule the world but have a powerful love of life and enormous dignity so they don't have to pretend anything, but hope that when Fidel dies, it will be a nice idea to try democracy.


Since I'm a straight man, I'm naturally interested in the women here at the resort.

They are almost all Northerners and I can report that they are not happy.

You can tell from their faces and their behaviour, particularly when they're drinking those sweet Cuba Libres, that they feel somehow betrayed. That life has not lived up to their expectations. That the world has not delivered what they deserve.

Compared to the Cubans they have unimaginable wealth. But they are not happy.

Their faces are tight, their mouths thin, their eyes cold. And when they talk to other tourists (and to the Cubans who serve them with considerable generosity and politeness) their voices are abrupt and chilling and without courtesy.

These women spend much of their time complaining. It's too hot or too cold. The food is too spicy or too bland. The entertainment is lousy (which happens to be true, but it's also free).

These women wear ugly, elaborate swimsuits too small for their abundant flesh. I suspect that if they ever knew real passion -- the sort of passion that brings unendurable pleasure and le petit mort -- it was long ago and much too embarrassing to repeat.

Oddly, these Northern women who come here for cheap vacations seem like losers.

Yet the Cubans who live and suffer in this rigid communist state seem like winners.

In spite of the Americans trying to starve it into submission, Cuba has graduated from being a cut-rate American brothel to one of the few countries in the world where everyone can read and write, health care is free, and old people are looked after with respect.

Sure, everyone is poor, farmers still plough with oxen and criticizing Fidel's politics isn't the best way to be named a Hero of the Cuban Revolution. In fact, it can get you locked up in rather nasty jails.

But that's the government (which is appropriately paranoid). And these smiling ordinary Cuban people are not the government and have won a famous victory against a famous bully and they're proud of it.

They've stood up to the Americans -- the most powerful nation the world has ever known -- and beaten them. They've survived 53 years of American threats, embargoes, invasions and assassination plots.

They've said screw you, baby, to the biggest bully on the block, and survived.

If you had a record like this, you'd smile too!

I know there were smiles on the faces of the Cuban people this Christmas because -- unlike most of us -- Cubans care more about the value of things than the price of things.

Viva Cuba libre.

 

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Humberto Capiro
09:52 PM on 01/01/2013
RATHER THAN HEAR FORM THE TOURISTS THAT DONT LIVE IN CUBA ANYWAY, LETS HEAR FROM THE EVERYDAY CUBAN CITIZEN!

YOUTUBE: DOCUMENTARY: "Cuba and the Elephants" - Full version w / English Sub-titles: A Look at Cuba, in reality beyond its tourist attractions. A documentary that takes us to reflect on the achievements of the socialist system and how truly the common Cuban people live. A production of the Political Institute of Peru for Liberty. DOCUMENTAL: Cuba y los Elefantes - Versión completa w/ English Sub-titles :Una mirada a Cuba, a su realidad más allá de sus atractivos turísticos. Un documental que nos lleva a reflexionar sobre los logros que se pregonan del sistema socialista y lo que verdaderamente vive el pueblo cubano. Una producción del Instituto Político para la Libertad Perú (iplperu.org).
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=jCIk66EPIV4&feature=results_main&playnext=1&list=PL9241B0E7F766DBA0&fb_source=message
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Humberto Capiro
09:49 PM on 01/01/2013
THE "NAIVETE" OF THESE TOURIST IS ASTOUNDING!

ALJAZEERA VIDEO: Cuba dissidents Ladies in White & Antonio Rodiles @ 8:50 - After 53 years of revolution, Cubans ar increasingly exasperated by the restrictions imposed on them by the country's change-averse communist regime. In spite of, or perhaps because of, recent modest economic reforms, activism is growing as the government's opponents overcome their fear of arrest and take to the streets. But it is not easy. Today, even the church based Ladies in White -- a group of women relatives of imprisoned activists - say they are routinely spied on and arrested. Nevertheless, inspired by the Arab Spring, the Ladies are determined to keep up their protests, sensing that the regime's grip on power is fading and that sooner rather than later it will be forced to give way.
http://www.youtube.com/watch?feature=player_embedded&v=XgylqDUh5-I

AMNESTY INTERNATIONAL VIDEO: Routine repression in Cuba - Harassment and detention of political dissidents, human rights activists, journalists and bloggers across Cuba has risen sharply over the past 24 months. - Mar 22, 2012
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=fyWLTbHMHmc&feature=youtu.be
05:46 PM on 01/01/2013
I went on a tour of Havana from the resort with a guide who was uber educated and sp[oke English so well I thought he was Canadian at first. He was proud to recite the history of his country and he certainly was not entirely positive about the governmet saying he could make more as a guide than teaching at the local University. But I've gone to Cuba four times and I love the place & the people. They are a little shadier in soliciting tips than they used to be but hell I'm happy to give it to them because as the author says they are the happiest, friendliest people anywhere and it's not fake either.
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SimonLeigh
04:04 PM on 01/01/2013
Inequality of income has been shown to cause misery and societal collapse. Cuba doesn't have that American problem.
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LauraNo
02:37 PM on 01/01/2013
Although everything stated here is greatly exaggerated and Cuba does have its share of greedy, grasping resenters who use political influence or crime to personally benefit themselves, there is some truth here too. Most Cubans do seem much happier, at least the ones with jobs at the resorts and also those acquainted with those with jobs at the resorts. I'd like to see an in-depth study of Cuba and it's culture and people. Excess does not equal "enough", humans are made of much more than greed and we won't be happy til we find a better balance.
01:08 PM on 01/01/2013
Vaguely true perhaps but vastly exaggerated. Go off resort and not all Cubans are smilling. On resort thry are smiling because they have to, it is part of their job. And yet I too noticed that (almost) all they tourists Hola'd their brains out at the Cubans but virtually scowled at each other. As for the Russians I suspect that many of them are now Canadian doctors, dentists, etc.
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Aude Sapere
04:35 PM on 01/01/2013
A small part of what you say is true, but Cubans also have more of a sense that whatever troubles they may have to endure, that they all share in those troubles, and that will can find solutions together. They are also very well informed about the world, and they don't uncritically envy the rest of the world, contrary to what some people posting here would have you believe. For example, the ox-drawn plow was revived after Russia stopped exporting subsidized oil in 1992, and farmers had to revive traditional techniques,which had almost bee lost to history. Lo and behold, after these techniques were re-mastered, the food they grew was better. Now Cuba is a world leader in organic farming because they had to adapt, and they knew how to share their knowledge. Their knowledge is now being exported all around the world, which is one asset they have in abundance. They show how people can prosper if they are willing to share, and not locked into a war of each against the other.
04:56 PM on 01/03/2013
Cuba is still getting subsidized oil but now from Venezuela but perhaps not to the extent as before. Yes many things in Cuba are right but there are difficulties ahead. Eg. what happens to their Venezuelan oil if Hugo Chavez is no longer around? Their medical care is excellent but not all doctors will be willing to continue to work for a few hundred dollars a year when they know doctors just 100 miles away are earning a thousand times as much. They are trying to gradually move in the direction of a mixed rather than pure socialist economy , EG. houses now can be sold, and there will be gltches along the way, partly because some of the economy is underground at present.
Any tourist has experiences of Cubans envying or asking for their shoes, hat, etc. They are not some kind of supremely superior being immune to all the toys and trinkets to which we in the First World have succumbed.
I was just trying to express the opinion that in the final analysis Cubans are people just as we are. We should not look down on them, but we should not mythologize them either.
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TT Esty1
Where did the 7 Dwarfs work?
03:01 AM on 01/01/2013
Prediction: USA will withdraw all hostile action towards Cuba within two years. Cuban Floridians will be mad because their devil has been taken away and they will need to consider assimulating. Touchy political power positions will be threatened. Petitions will be made to grant Florida land to Israel. Cubans will see Florida as a vacation destination.
10:57 PM on 12/31/2012
Mr. Knight, okay, I get it. You are freshly back from a vacation in the south. You are no doubt tanned and feeling the excitement and energy of being away. But I have to say with all due respect to your, no doubt, wonderful time, are you not in the space of being in lah lah land. You see, for me, after returning from a vacation, I cannot get off the ceiling for a few days. Things where ever I was just always seem better. I notice others have this same type of syndrome. I have heard it said from people freshly back from holidays "oh the people in ...land are so much nicer than here, the food is so much better." I always scoff when I hear these comments. Yes, Cuba does have a unique history. Yes, you were likely treated extremely well and there were smiling faces but we also have these faces and not all of them frown. I guess I am saying do not pick up a paint brush and make a mark suggesting all are happy. It is like everywhere. Some people are happy and some are not. It is life. Remember, you were on a holiday--away from your usual habitat.
10:17 PM on 12/31/2012
Yah, sure.

That doesn't explain why 98% of Cubans would give an arm or a leg or both to reach the Florida coastline.
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Tim Knight
10:29 AM on 01/01/2013
Your percentage (and the dismemberment attached) is, of course, wildly hyperbolic. Anyway, I didn't explain Cuban emigration matters because they had nothing to do with my story which was about people who have very little coming in contact with people who have much and coming off as being far pleasanter to be around.
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LauraNo
02:44 PM on 01/01/2013
Who says 98% would anything? You made that up because you like to think that. You might be surprised to learn how many people apply to immigrate to places OTHER than your precious, oh-so-exceptional USA with it's high crime, low education, low health care, high discrepenacy between rich and powerful overlords and the rest of the country in income and prospects and it's high rate of poverty. Of course many Cubans would like to move to the US but that is a very different statement than saying they wish to be made permanently disabled in order to come here and then starve to the death. How ridiculous.
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Humberto Capiro
10:05 PM on 12/31/2012
YOUTUBE : CUBAN Documentary - "Wishes on a Falling Star"- While the Castro brothers face their certain end, an uncertain future hangs over the island. Some people are afraid, many cannot wait, but all shudder and hope that the changes will be positive.
This documentary leads the audience through the discovery of this hope, through a tourist's camera which looks to be turned off and oblivious to the conversation at hand, yet is focused on candidly capturing each person's wishes. There is the old guerrillero who took part in the revolution, the lady who met Che Guevara and lives thanks to the government social card, and also the young boys and girls -- those who wish to make a career within the rules, as well as those who only try to escape abroad. Clandestine underground shops, businessmen experienced in all things illegal, dodgy pimps, mothers who force their daughters into selling their bodies -- the hidden face of the State which welcomes tourists into its luxury resorts is openly displayed beyond censorship's control. Castro's supporters and dissidents, young and old -- none deceive themselves that the star of the revolution will shine on for much longer. And this is what this project focuses on: the wishes on a falling star.
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=Afnx7j1m6eA&annotation_id=annotation_725071&feature=iv
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Humberto Capiro
10:03 PM on 12/31/2012
NOW LETS HEAR FROM THE EVERYDAY CUBAN SHALL WE!

YOUTUBE ENTIRE DOCUMENTARY: "Grandchildren of the Cuban Revolution" - The Grandchildren of the Revolution gives the youth a voice to share their feelings of hope and despair. Some speak with humor, many do it in defiance. The film tries to capture the vibe of Cubas youth today. Featuring artists like: Los Aldeanos, Porno para Ricardo, Silvito El Libre and bloggers Claudia Cadelo, Yoani Sanchez and Laritza Diversent, the film was directed by Carlos Montaner with the help of young camera men and women who visited the island throughout a span of several months.

SPANISH WITH ENGLISH SUB-TITLES

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=-KVqUrOBiQQ
08:23 PM on 12/31/2012
So, did you actually meet people from Russia, Germany, Italy, France, Canada and the US? Or were you just speaking generally from life experience? Never been to Cuba, but it sounds like the people are nice. I have heard that the women of Cuba have far fewer inhibitions than the above nationals which begs the question...why were you looking at all the european women? After all....when in Rome.
06:44 PM on 12/31/2012
Oh, something else I noticed. People from ex-East Bloc countries who visited Cuba out of nostalgia.
06:43 PM on 12/31/2012
Try living in a Cuban city for a while, then you'll know that Cuban's are not really happy, they lead lives of quiet desperation actually. It's human nature to make the best of whatever situation your in, and cubans are very good at that but if they had the chance they'd all leave in a heartbeat.
06:41 PM on 12/31/2012
Yes, yes, yes, I know, I was there...