02/23/2015 12:33 EST | Updated 02/23/2015 12:59 EST

Dating Deal Breakers: What Men And Women Really Think

Going into a first date with a long list of expectations is a recipe for disaster, but it turns out there are still some deal breakers that just won't cut it.

In the videos by Buzzfeed above (the male version plays immediately after), men and women outline common scenarios that can typically ruin a date. From talking about your ex (which is always a no-no) to eating your meal with your mouth wide open, there are some things that won't guarantee you a second date.

And while we may all have expectations for finding the perfect partner, there is no such thing the perfect person. As online dating site eHarmony notes, creating high standards for someone will always lead to disappointment, because chances are, you'll always be able to find someone's flaws.

Watch the video above to make sure your dating game is on point this year, and a little tip for everyone: keep your phones off the table.

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