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08/11/2018 13:46 EDT | Updated 08/13/2018 14:34 EDT

New Study Suggests Happy Couples Have Similar Texting Habits

The study also found that frequent sexting can lead to conflict in a relationship.

Couples who text in a similar way report more relationship satisfaction, according to a new study.
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Couples who text in a similar way report more relationship satisfaction, according to a new study.

New U.S. research reveals some of the ways that texting, as well as sexting, can bring couples closer together. But there may be a downside to these more recent forms of communication too, which can lead us to feeling more isolated from partners and others.

The research, carried out by investigators at Pace University and Purdue University Fort Wayne, involved a series of studies looking at different ways texting can impact our relationships.

First study compared couples' texting habits

In the first study, the researchers surveyed 205 adults in romantic relationships between the ages of 18 and 29 about their texting habits and relationship satisfaction.

They found that participants who described their partner as having a similar texting style to themselves reported greater relationship satisfaction. It didn't seem to matter whether the messages sent were loving or complaints about a problem in the relationship, as couples were in sync about the kind of texts they sent to each other.

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Second study looked at texting motivation

Although the second study also found that texting can bring people closer, it also revealed that it drive people apart, depending on what motivates people to text.

Here the researchers surveyed 982 adults between the ages of 18 to 29, finding that besides texting each other for practical reasons, people also text to escape their present situation, because they are bored, or because they prefer expressing themselves via text than talking on the phone or in person.

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Couples who don't have similar texting habits don't have as much relationship satisfaction, according to a new study.

"We text to check in with our spouse during the work day and to stay connected with friends far away, but we also text to avoid dealing with relatives at the family party and to break up with someone," said Leora Trub, Ph.D., of Pace University.

"Texting can become a crutch and eventually become a barrier to creating meaningful interactions," added Trub. "Texting all the time can also come from being lonely or bored, and that can lead to isolation and alienation."

Third study examined sexting

The third study focused on sexting, surveying 615 adults who were in committed relationships. The team found that the majority of participants did not sext with their partner, and although non-sexters were just as happy in their relationship as people who did sext, sexters did report more sexual satisfaction than the non-sexters.

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"Sexting may help couples with intimacy and to spice things up, but we definitely did see the negative side of too much of a good thing," said one of the co-authors of the study.

There was, however, a downside to sexting: the researchers found that people who sexted several times a week, and those who sexted every day or multiple times per day, were more likely to experience conflict and mixed feelings in their relationships, more likely to use social media to engage in behaviors linked to infidelity, and more likely to view more pornography.

"Sexting may help couples with intimacy and to spice things up, but we definitely did see the negative side of too much of a good thing," said co-author Michelle Drouin, Ph.D.

The findings were presented at the annual convention of the American Psychological Association, which runs August 9-12 in San Francisco.

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