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Debra Macleod

Marriage Author-Expert & Educator

Debra Macleod, B.A., LL.B., is an international marriage author-expert and couples mediator. Visit her private practice at DebraMacleod.com.
Is Your Marriage Counsellor a

Is Your Marriage Counsellor a Home-Wrecker?

In many cases, couples' counselling can be the final nail in the marital coffin. Why? Because counselling is a practice that focuses on the self. This "all about me," approach is the precise opposite of what struggling spouses need to save a marriage in crisis. It's naïve to think that an individual's personal experience with marriage doesn't factor into the relationship advice they dispense.
12/14/2012 08:21 EST
Eight Ways to Make Your Husband Want You

Eight Ways to Make Your Husband Want You Again

It's a devastating thing for a woman to admit -- that her husband seems to have lost his desire for her. Women often jump to the conclusion that unsatisfying sex is the reason for the chilly temperatures. Yet as often as not, men withdraw from their wives for non-sexual reasons. Check out these eight Do's and Don'ts to see whether any of them might help reignite his spark for you.
12/04/2012 12:13 EST
What Men Can Learn From 50 Shades of

What Men Can Learn From 50 Shades of Grey

This widespread resentment toward Christian Grey -- kink version of the Alpha male -- has sparked a furor among men. But men are missing the point. It isn't Mr. Grey's bank account or bondage gear that makes him Mr. Right. The real reason women lust after him is because he makes them feel lusted after.
09/12/2012 08:01 EDT
Eight Common Sex Problems and How to Solve

Eight Common Sex Problems and How to Solve Them

The truth is, both men and women tend to complain about the same things when it comes to sex, particularly when they're in a long-term relationship. Here are eight of the most common complaints I hear from couples, along with suggestions to turn a partner's frown upside down.
08/03/2012 02:46 EDT
Smut With Soul: 50 Ways to a Sexier

Smut With Soul: 50 Ways to a Sexier Marriage

According to a recent survey in the UK's <em>Daily Mail</em>, almost 80 per cent of women and 90 per cent of men were excited by the domination and submission theme of the 50 Shades trilogy. Why? Well, if you've been having sex with the same person, in the same place and positions for years, it is incredibly exciting to have that person behave in a way that is unfamiliar and unexpected.
07/05/2012 02:00 EDT
Is Your Marriage in a Bad

Is Your Marriage in a Bad Mood?

Don't make any stupid mistakes when your marriage is in a slump. Don't drown your sorrows in a bottle of Jack or jump into bed with the first Facebook friend to give you a poke. For better or for worse, remember? Most marital bad moods will pass quickly enough, but serious mistakes in judgement will hang around a lot longer.
05/24/2012 04:35 EDT
Is Your Affair More Than Lust? Take This

Is Your Affair More Than Lust? Take This Test

For those who find themselves swept up in the high seas of an affair, it's easy to think that you've fallen in love; however, before you make that life-changing and hormone-charged assumption, ask yourself a few of the following questions about your forbidden paramour.
05/14/2012 07:47 EDT
The Comic Convention: Where Couples Who Play Together Stay

The Comic Convention: Where Couples Who Play Together Stay Together

Cosplay -- dressing in costume as characters from comics, science fiction or anime -- is a worldwide phenomenon that thousands of couples, from nerds to neurologists, have embraced as a way to indulge in some healthy escapism while simultaneously having a blast with each other at comic conventions.
05/04/2012 04:01 EDT