Porn shows lots of penises, vulvas, and orgasms, but it doesn't show -- it can't show -- the things about sex that most people value: talking, laughing, kissing, whispering, negotiating, appreciating, cuddling. Feeling special, feeling desired, feeling graceful.
Dr. Marty Klein is a sociologist and policy analyst in Palo Alto, Calif. His new book from HarperCollins is SEXUAL INTELLIGENCE: What We Really Want From Sex -- And How to Get It.
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