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Lauren Messervey

Writer and blogger

Lauren Messervey is a writer and blogger from Halifax, Nova Scotia. As a lover of all things Canadian, Lauren loves delivering her observations on life as a citizen of the True North, strong and free. She currently resides in Toronto, Ontario.
Bill Cosby's Wife Is Another Victim, Whether She Knows It Or

Bill Cosby's Wife Is Another Victim, Whether She Knows It Or Not

As a victim, as a woman who was not believed, as someone who has had to live with the trauma of being abused for the better part of a decade, I really feel for Camille Cosby right now. What horror would she have to face in admitting that 59 women can't be wrong?
06/19/2017 09:48 EDT
Dress Codes Are About Fear Of The Female

Dress Codes Are About Fear Of The Female Body

By deeming what is normal to be inappropriate, we turning women's bodies into a real thing of horror. I am praying that there was not a single person on that plane who would have mentally drawn a connection between a ten year old in leggings to a sexual object. But isn't the thought that the conclusion could be drawn part of the problem?
03/29/2017 10:54 EDT
Trump's America May Finally Force Us To Wake Up To Our

Trump's America May Finally Force Us To Wake Up To Our Prejudices

All of a sudden, it was OK for America to get back into hate crimes again. Behaviour that had been previously seen as scary stories from a discarded history text book are suddenly back in the news. Here we are, a long history of "haven't we become so much better" wiped clean with story after story of bigotry, Islamophobia, and Neo-Nazi ideals rising from the ashes.
02/23/2017 11:19 EST
Dear Barack Obama: I Miss You

Dear Barack Obama: I Miss You Already

I know that being the president of the United States has been hard for you. Although you gave it your best shot, not everyone is happy with what you've done in the past eight years. But despite this, there are some people who still think that you're pretty neat. I'm one of them. And I'm not the only one who is really going to miss you.
11/09/2016 10:33 EST
PTSD In The Wake Of Abuse Is A Reality For Many

PTSD In The Wake Of Abuse Is A Reality For Many Women

Teal Swan was only six years old when she found herself in the hands of her abuser and forced into a nightmarish world that a lot of people were unwilling (or unable) to believe. For the better part of 13 years, she was was raped, beaten and psychologically tortured by people who she was told to trust.
10/12/2016 11:06 EDT
Cyberbullying Hurts Even More For Teens Facing Mental

Cyberbullying Hurts Even More For Teens Facing Mental Illness

Everyone is struggling and the cure isn't going to come from a Google suggestion. The conversations we are having now are important, especially when talking to teens about Internet use. For the teens that struggle with mental illness, however, this conversation is potentially life saving.
09/19/2016 11:54 EDT
My Headphones Aren't A Barrier, They're My

My Headphones Aren't A Barrier, They're My Lifeline

Despite retaining my "anti social in style" persona, I've been interrupted more times than I can count by men telling me to take off my headphones so that they can talk to me. There have been times when they have literally jumped in front of me and blocked my path so that we could just "have a conversation" (and it's always the same one). The whole interaction is not just annoying; it often borders on invasive.
09/02/2016 09:27 EDT
Maybe Professional Cuddlers Are Exactly What Our World

Maybe Professional Cuddlers Are Exactly What Our World Needs

There are a lot of really awful things happening in the world right now. Fear, though an important mechanism for survival, is also something that can stop you from having a real human experience. There ARE good people in this world. You just have to be open to them. As strange as it may sound to you, a professional cuddler specializes in this kind of thing.
06/24/2016 01:39 EDT
An Open Letter To The Father Of Stanford Rapist Brock

An Open Letter To The Father Of Stanford Rapist Brock Turner

In the days following a heart-breaking letter from the victim, Brock Turner, promising frat boy, now rapist, has had the public in an uproar over the disgustingly light sentence he received. It was bad enough that a judge was more worried about the life of a rapist than he was about the life of a victim, but Turner's father, Dan, made the world even more sick to their stomachs. In a statement to the court, Mr. Turner said that Brock would, "Never be his happy go lucky self with that easy going personality and welcoming smile," and that a heavy punishment would not match his son's "20 minutes of action."
06/07/2016 05:41 EDT
When You Don't Want to Believe He Did

When You Don't Want to Believe He Did It

We see celebrities who we admire as "friends". We support their work, we cheer them on, and we ardently defend them when someone makes an accusation against them. In the eyes of millions of people, Johnny Depp is a hero, an onscreen buddy, and who wants to believe that your best film buddy abused his wife?
06/02/2016 11:53 EDT