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Lauren Messervey

Writer and blogger

Lauren Messervey is a writer and blogger from Halifax, Nova Scotia. As a lover of all things Canadian, Lauren loves delivering her observations on life as a citizen of the True North, strong and free. She currently resides in Toronto, Ontario.
How Social Media Helped Keep This Terminal Cancer Patient

How Social Media Helped Keep This Terminal Cancer Patient Alive

In September of 2013, Jocelyn Leda Simard was diagnosed with stage four breast cancer and bone metastases. Her family was told that she would likely not survive to see Christmas. Shattered, but strong, her family members refused to give in to despair. It was then that her son, Justin, came up with an inspiring idea.
04/27/2014 23:14 EDT
In Defense of

In Defense of Selfies

If I may be honest, I love taking selfies. I think if you like how you look one day, you have the right to show it. You have the right to like it on Facebook. By God, if others like it, they have the right to like it on Facebook too, and you have the right to like them for liking it. If a selfie makes you happy, take it and tweet, Instragram and Facebook the holy hell out of it!
04/10/2014 12:48 EDT
Why Mental Illness Is As Serious As This Life-Threatening

Why Mental Illness Is As Serious As This Life-Threatening Disease

If a person is suffering from something that you don't understand, it doesn't mean that their suffering is invalid. A person can't judge the anxieties of another person based on the scope of their own experience. Each human being is an individual, so take the time to inform yourself.
04/06/2014 11:05 EDT
Why Everyone Doesn't Like

Why Everyone Doesn't Like You

We can't be Sally Field on Oscar night all the time. We will all be served with harsh criticisms, strange accusations, and cruel comments every once in a while, and it's how we deal with it that really demonstrates the true nature of our character. If you know who you are and strive to be the best person that you can be, you have nothing to worry about.
03/04/2014 12:22 EST
Being Super Fit Doesn't Mean You Don't Have an Eating

Being Super Fit Doesn't Mean You Don't Have an Eating Disorder

My friend's foray into the world of fitness modelling inspired me to take a look at the term "eating disorder" in my trusty dictionary. I am completely shocked and saddened that the fitness model craze is not only unrecognized as another eating disorder, but is also encouraged by the hardcore fitness community.
02/03/2014 05:12 EST
How the

How the "Ugliest Woman in the World" Overcame Bullying

If you google the keywords "ugliest woman in the world", an image of Lizzie Velasquez will come up. Lizzie became aware of this in the ugliest manner that any person could discover such a thing; she saw a video with that tagline on YouTube.
01/12/2014 10:49 EST
I Could Have Been a Honey Boo-Boo (or Why I'm Glad My Mother Saved Me from

I Could Have Been a Honey Boo-Boo (or Why I'm Glad My Mother Saved Me from Pageants)

In time, all of my pageant friends became so obsessed with their appearances that they made every woman who walked down the street into a comparison, celebrating when they discovered that they were still the "fairest of them all" and reaching a near breakdown when a long-legged stranger made them feel as though there was more work to be done. A petite blond at a cafe immediately made them "fat." A girl with acne made them scoff and cackle like hens. In time, the side show of pageantry bled off into their every day lives with such vehemence that each moment became a graceless performance.
01/01/2014 11:19 EST
Pickup Artists, Brash Boys, and Sexual

Pickup Artists, Brash Boys, and Sexual Harassment

In the past day, two events occured: a kindergartner kissed a female classmate's hand, and a group of Toronto-based "Pick Up Artists" were shooed away from the Eaton Centre by public outcry and security teams. One of these situations has resulted in sex offender charges, and it's not the one you think.
12/12/2013 08:30 EST
Hey Maria Kang, I'm a Size 0 But I'm Not

Hey Maria Kang, I'm a Size 0 But I'm Not Healthy

I was born small, grew up a size 0, and am still a size 0 today. I have friends that are slender, and I have friends that are curvy. I have friends who you would consider to be overweight. The truth of the situation is that every single one of them is in better health than I am.
12/04/2013 12:44 EST
Health in the Time of Fast

Health in the Time of Fast Food

I still visit the memory of my four-piece McNuggets with fond love, but I think I'll stick to my granola and yogurt. In the end, I'd rather be healthy.
11/25/2013 01:45 EST
How Yoga Saved My

How Yoga Saved My Life

If you had told me 10 years ago that I would become a believer in the power of yoga, I would have laughed at you. I would have laughed long and loud before telling you to go back to the hippie colony from whence you came. Back then, yoga was nothing more than a trend to me, a trend that bred an army of vacant, granola-crunching women who were evolving into bizarre contortionist people. I wanted no part in it.
11/09/2013 01:16 EST