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Donald D'Haene

Donald D'Haene lives in London, Ontario, is an author (Father's Touch,, and was one of the male Survivors on the Oprah 200 Survivors Episode of The Oprah Winfrey Show

Donald D'Haene is a resident of London, Ontario, an author (Father's Touch,, and was one of the male Survivors on the Oprah 200 Survivors Episode of The Oprah Winfrey Show, November 2010.

I Marched For Hillary In Niagara Falls (Sort Of)

I noticed a man checking his iPhone ahead of me and reading aloud GOP candidates poll numbers for Trump, Cruz and Kasich to what appeared to be his father and mother. Was that a look of glee I spotted that Trump was number one?" I whispered to my friend same. "Oh no. Don't go there."
04/18/2016 04:48 EDT

Society Still Guilts Sexual Assault Victims For Defending Themselves

I grew up with men and women of faith telling me that a woman who does not physically fight off a rapist is guilty of fornication, yet she must not fight off a physical attack because violence is a sin. Methinks only the accused comes out of these scenarios without blame. Am I right?
02/12/2016 10:53 EST

Why I Spent Canada Day in Line at The Mandarin

On Canada Day, July 1, the Mandarin's 22 locations across the province of Ontario opened the doors and closed the tills to the tune of $500,000 for approximately 30,000 people, celebrating 35 years of serving Chinese food. I got there at 10:20 and the lineup was already 500 strong.
07/04/2014 12:48 EDT
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Is the Homosexual Man's Obsession With Dolls Just a Myth?

Did you hear about the Drag Queen Ken-Barbie? It "came out" with three, count 'em, three of Barbie's dresses? Mike, a Barbie-loving, 30-something year-old man who never left home would know all about that. Barbie seems to have turned into something of a gay icon. The coming out process is two-fold: "They disclose their sexuality. They profess their love for Barbie."
10/30/2013 12:12 EDT

Six Degrees From Steven Truscott

As a child, I scanned the shelves of the library until I finally found The Trial of Steven Truscott, by Isobel LeBourdais. I was fascinated with this young boy's tragic life and prepared my class report. "I think Steven is innocent," I declared in front of the class.
06/26/2013 05:30 EDT

Two Gay Men Debate Gay Pride Week

My best friend for a quarter century has been "out of the closet" all of his life. Me -- since I was 26. We find we agree on almost everything except Mariah Carey, Katy Perry and gay pride. He calls Pride "a bunch of half-naked gays taking up space on a main street -- why bother?" I say it is one of the most important celebrations a gay or lesbian may choose to partake in.
06/19/2013 05:55 EDT
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Is London, Ontario Ready For Avenue Q?

Original Kids Theatre Company Alumni are presenting the first local production of the Tony Award-winning smash hit Avenue Q later this month. The Canadian troupe has learned all the right tricks with life-size replicas of the puppets used on Broadway, so I took my interview to the true stars of the show -- the puppets themselves!
06/14/2013 12:37 EDT

The "Sisterhood" of my Travelling Pants

Travelling is an interesting exercise for a writer. It's not like I hope something interesting will happen; it just does. As usual, I always have my note pad and pen tucked away for easy access. Much...
06/02/2013 09:18 EDT

Is This My Life, Or a "Mad TV" Skit?

Sometimes my life is like an episode of MAD TV. Always has been. I guess, always will. This week specifically reminded me of this classic MAD TV skit called "Shot In The Head" I got "shot" in the head...
05/28/2013 11:58 EDT

Dishing With Elvira Kurt

Elvira Kurt was voted Funniest Female Comedian at the Canadian Comedy Awards and received a Gemini nomination for her one hour comedy special Elvira Kurt: I'm a Big Girl Now. That special also nabbed...
05/22/2013 05:15 EDT
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Evil Exists, But It Will Not Always Triumph!

I knew several things. That I would finally meet my sister. And finally, confirmation of what I had known for two decades: my sister was also sexually abused by our father. Knowing something to be true and finally staring truth in the face is overwhelming. I would never feel the same as I did before that Wednesday morning.
04/17/2013 08:26 EDT

Q and A With Mamie Van Doren

Mamie Van Doren, the American actress, model, singer and sex symbol was born Feb. 6, 1933. She has a star on the Hollywood Walk of Fame at 7057 Hollywood Boulevard. This is an edited version my email...
03/25/2013 11:30 EDT

How I Told Gay Youth It Gets Better

A couple of years ago, the Learning Coordinator for Safe Schools asked me if I would be a keynote speaker at their annual Gay Straight Alliance Conference under the theme: It Gets Better. Here's what I said.
03/04/2013 12:23 EST
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Seth MacFarlane's Sexism Crossed the Line

This year's Oscars felt like hours of hell on earth. A boob song, a gay chorus to help deliver it, Captain Kirk's cue-carded rescue, non-stop comments on how women looked, dieted (or not -- see the Adele joke), stripped, when they're old enough to bang George Clooney or at the right place (Jack Nicholson's). Now I'm so politically incorrect it's not funny but I found all that, swallowed whole, a bit icky.
02/27/2013 12:44 EST

Why I'll Never Marry My Partner

All these years later I'm still laughing at (and constantly reminded of) my maid-of-honour status. Like when I stood up for my friend who married his partner. And every time we go to Las Vegas and Elvis and wedding chapels pop up more often than jackpots.
02/22/2013 08:25 EST

Justin Trudeau -- More Than Just a Pretty Face

On the eve of my birthday I shook hands with someone who might be Prime Minister of Canada one day. But it's such an odd thing -- in the time it took him to warmly shake my hand -- it was Justin Trude...
02/10/2013 09:19 EST

Why I Wouldn't Want a World Without Awards Shows

Award season is upon us and with it the often-heard complaints: awards are silly or they don't mean anything. Those declarations are a tad presumptuous, aren't they? After all, what is an award? A prize or other mark of recognition given in honour of an achievement.
02/04/2013 05:31 EST