More specifically, the Guiterrezes got matching tattoos that spoke to both their individual identities and their identity as a couple.
“We saw an quote on Pinterest that said, ‘I’ll keep you safe. You’ll keep me wild,’ and it spoke to us,” Katherine told HuffPost. “Emily is the calm, level-headed one and I’m more spontaneous and carefree, so we instantly knew the quote was the perfect one for Emily. We tweaked mine to say, ‘You’ll keep me safe. I’ll keep you wild.’”
When the Toronto couple wed in 2016 after six years together, the tattoos made bold, splashy statements in their wedding photos.
Tattoo artists around the country say that many couples just like the Gutierrezes are forgoing the standard name tattoo ― “Jen” or “Max” tattooed across a bicep, for instance ― and choosing something a little more unique to their relationships.
“Couples tattoos are best when they have actual artistic value and a reason to be kept in the event the relationship doesn’t work out,” said Brittny Abad, a tattoo artist at Rosewater Custom Tattooing in Portland, Oregon.
“I always recommend that people avoid names at all costs because names are so difficult to work around,” she said. “That being said, I’ve met more people who are actually perfectly happy keeping their couples tattoos after a breakup than people who want cover-ups.”
The key to a good couples tattoo design, Abad said, is to base your idea off a mutual love you have for something, whether it’s a movie quote or a favorite food.
“We wanted something that mattered to us and would remind us of each other whenever we’re apart,” Felycia told HuffPost. “The banner over it says ‘forever cheesy pizza pals,’ which describes our relationship: goofy and filled with too many cheesy puns.”
Other couples opt to get tattoos in lieu of traditional wedding rings, like Jason DeMar and Kristin Hope of Detroit, Michigan.
“We got tattoos done in February as [a way of having] unconventional, unofficial, totally-not-recognized-by-the-state kind of wedding,” Hope told us. “Given the divorce rates nowadays, nothing is more permanent than a tattoo.”
What happens if a tatted couple were to break up and want the tattoo gone? Often, the same tattoo artist will cover them up. If the tattoo is sizable, many people have them lightened or removed by tattoo removal specialists.
Jeannie Beaver, a lasering specialist and family nurse practitioner at Newport Tattoo Removal in Costa Mesa, California, said that roughly half the laser removals she does in any year (“it’s hard to say how many, but the number is definitely in the hundreds”) are couple tattoos.
“Most of the time, people come in because their current partner really wants them to get rid of their ex’s name or the reminder,” she said. “In some cases, it’s causing a rift in their current relationship.”
New partners aside, exes are often fine with the reminder of past love. That’s true for Jenna Van Camp, a makeup artist from Cheektowaga, New York who got matching inner lip tattoos with her former boyfriend in April. Hers says “forever,” his says “young.”
“I picked young for him because that’s his last name and I thought, ‘How could we go wrong with his last name on him?‘” Van Camp told HuffPost. “I got ‘forever’ because I felt like we still have so much time to grow but it’s important to always remain young at heart.”
That evergreen message still holds true for the 24-year-old, so the tattoo ― and the Instagram post about it ― stays.
“It’s fine because him and I are still friends,” she said. “We’re cool.”
To read more backstories on couples’ tattoos ― from the perspective of tattoo artists and the lovebirds themselves ― scroll down.
Larisa Fowler"My fiancé Dan and I got our matching tattoos on April 27, the day of our 10th anniversary. The meaning is simple: we both like the rockabilly/retro/vintage lifestyle, so the tattoos are a representation of each of us, in quirky, alternative way that fits our style. We wanted them as a commemoration of being together for a whole decade. This was unique to us." -- Larisa Fowler from Hampshire, England
Deborah Bistrussu"My husband Kevin and I got the matching tattoo this past January. We both love tattoos and thought this would be a beautiful symbol of our love! My husband is represented by the sun in the tattoo; he's always bringing light to the relationship. He has such a good heart, sometimes he does too much for others. I'm represented by the moon because I have a little bit darkness inside me! I can see through people and know if people are bad or good. I can be considerate, too, though. I work as a caretaker. The moon and the sun are like yin and yang -- inseparable." -- Deborah Bistrussu from Belgium
Erin Sullins"This specific couple wanted to visibly celebrate and share the fact that their marriage had finally been accepted as legal in the public eye, which was something they hadn't been able to do before. They wanted bright, beautiful rainbow colors to show off everything they loved and worked for. They were so excited and it was a great experience for me." -- Erin Sullins, a tattoo artist at Monolith Tattoo Company in Nashville, Tennessee
Josh Brown"The couple wanted to commemorate a beautiful relationship after eight years together. I think for this client and her boyfriend it was more about coming into the shop and getting tattooed together, to make it like a special date where they both got something memorable." -- Josh Brown, a tattoo artist at LAX Tatu in La Crosse, Wisconsin
Nimrod Dagon"My boyfriend Nimrod and I have been together for a year and a half. We have three matching tattoos in all. Just a few weeks ago, we got a simple love heart on our arms It was hand drawn on the spot by my boyfriend while we were on vacation." -- Kristóf Steiner from Tel Aviv, Israel
Tiahnee Paterson"My husband Hayden has the geometric orange lobster, and mine is the blue water color outline. They are actually on opposite arms, so that when we hold hands they fit together. They're actually inspired by the TV show 'Friends.' Hayden and I both loved the show and this is a reference that Phoebe made about Ross and Rachel. She tells Ross that Rachel is his lobster because lobsters mate for life!" -- Tiahnee Paterson from Melbourne, Australia
Brittny Abad"The couple got matching skulls with 'Till Death' written under them, as a nod to their wedding vows -- they are high school sweethearts who married. Thus far, they've been super happy with the tattoos." -- Brittny Abad, a tattoo artist at Rosewater Custom Tattooing in Portland, Oregon