Sexualizing Girls In Media Can Cause Long-Term Harm; Parents Must Take Charge, Expert Says

Young Girl Sexualization

The Huffington Post Canada   First Posted: 09/02/11 03:51 PM ET Updated: 10/29/11 06:12 AM ET

After a summer of controversial photo shoots featuring young girls in lingerie and padded push-up bras, parents may be breathing a sigh of relief as cooler weather comes our way.

Back-to-school usually means less scandalous clothing options and a quick survey of major retailers websites like Joe Fresh, GapKids, H&M and The Children's Place confirmed that jeans, hoodies and cardigans are the staples for this season.

Abercrombie & Fitch Kids may have even learned its lesson from the padded bikini scandal earlier this year, somewhat -- their girls' offerings are tame for the most part, but it seems the clothier couldn't resist adding a few lacy camisoles that look a little mature for the swing-set set.

Parents' relief at a season of more substantial clothing selection is warranted: exposing kids to images that oversexualize young girls or allowing them to dress or behave too maturely can cause long-term harm, as explained in a article on ksl.com. Brigham Young University professor Heather Johnson explains in the piece:

"Those types of things set our girls up for horrible situations like eating disorders, low self esteem, depression issues," said Johnson. "All of that can come from putting our little girls in advance situations that they're not ready for."

While images of sexualized young girls abound and consumers want to blame the media, parents ultimately have the last word and should be setting firm boundaries around clothing decisions, Johnson says.

"As parents we have the experience to foresee where the decisions young are going to lead them as they get older," Johnson told Ksl.com.

And there has been a lot of navigating for parents to do this summer, which has been particularly rife with media and advertising images that show young girls in questionable clothing or modelling campaigns.

One of the latest controversies featured young girls in revealing undergarments posing for a French lingerie company that carries a line aimed at girls as young as four.

Jours Après Lunes features bras and panties for girls and carries a “loungerie” line for younger baby girls and toddlers. But its founder has vehemently defended her clothing line as age-appropriate and an alternative to young girls buying lingerie that's too old for them.

Media brands are also guilty of featuring very young ingenues: Upcoming young Hollywood actresses like Elle Fanning and Chloe Mortez were featured in controversial photos this summer and the latest, 10-year-old model Thylane Blondeau, was featured in French Vogue wearing short skirts, heels and makeup -- appalling critics and parents alike.

The kick-off to this spate of incidents came in March, when American retailer Abercrombie & Fitch was slammed for offering padded and push-up bras for 7-year-olds in their summer bathing suit collection. Similarly, American Eagle caught flack for their push-up bras adding two cups for 15-year-olds.

Some parents are taking action, but not necessarily for the right reasons. The parents of a 15-year-old model are suing retailer Urban Outfitters, two other stores and a photographer for $28 million after the store produced T-shirts of their daughter posed without a bra with her legs open on a motorcycle. The parents, however, had approved the photo shoot and were suing over rights.

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After a summer of controversial photo shoots featuring young girls in lingerie and padded push-up bras, parents may be breathing a sigh of relief as cooler weather comes our way. Back-to-school us...
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05:10 PM on 09/04/2011
What is wrong with parents? Let little girls be little girls. They grow up way to fast to begin with. They do not need padded swimsuits at 7 or padded bras. For crying out loud they are still babies. And for the perents to sue give me a break, they agreed to it now they want more. Nothing like exploiting your child. Some people make me sick!!!!!
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08:42 AM on 09/04/2011
Since the birth of my first daughter, who is now 20, I have held one philosophy. My children are my responsibility, to love and protect. Children are not property. You dont own your kids. You job as a parent is simple. Show them love and protect them from danger. You have to let them be kids, and find their own way. Again YOU DONT OWN YOUR KIDS...they are not toys to be trotted out.
01:31 PM on 09/03/2011
Do we really have to ask the question 'is it harmful?" Or need an "expert" for their analysis.
Wake up! All of our instincts, intuition, common sense, logic or whatever you want to call it says this is SICK...if not evil...just ask a survivor of molestation what the results are. The media is catering to the paedophile or even .... nurturing new ones....The protection of children (and their innocence) need to be a priority. Nobody seems to care about somebody else's kid. Personally, I would never buy any product from a company who uses this kind of advertising, and there are other who come very close.
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db44
From My Perspective
09:40 AM on 09/03/2011
The practice of fast-tracking children through their early years is probably being done by parents trying to deal with their own development issues. No matter how you argue this, the children are the losers when they are robbed of being children. db
09:23 AM on 09/03/2011
It all comes down to the parent, because they are the ones doing the buying. Mother had the final say over what was bought, and what I wore. I wanted to prance around like Madonna, but she wasn't having it. In the end I pranced around in the safety of my home, and when I left the house, I had to be appropriately dressed. In the end, I grew up learning that I better depend on what was in my head rather than what I was showing in my clothing.
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CabCurious
let's be honest
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09:24 AM on 09/03/2011
you do see the difference between adults and children... right? i cannot begin to understand how you could draw a parallel between a story about Gaddafi's ADULT daughter, and young children. additionally, the Heather Morris article was questioning the judgement of a photo shoot in which she was made up to look like a battered woman, and i am fairly certain the good people at KY are not looking for single-digit-aged lesbians to feature in their latest ad campaign. so, basically... if HP features any article about a woman who is not wearing a burka, they are supporting the sexualization of young girls? i do not get most of the objection people have to this story, but yours is the most puzzling thus far.
08:51 AM on 09/03/2011
I'm just curious if all the posters who think dressing up little girls in sexy clothes is great would feel the same way if they did the same thing to boys?

What if there were contests where little boys were dressed up like chippendale dancers and did sexy dances onstage? How would you feel about that?
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Darrin Brown
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11:35 AM on 09/03/2011
The frightening thing is quite a few out here (male AND female) would like that.

Parents, please, PROTECT YOUR KIDS!
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CabCurious
let's be honest
08:46 AM on 09/03/2011
Meanwhile... HuPo runs constant, non-stop sexualized main-stream Entertain Tonight articles that completely undermine this self-professed message.
08:26 AM on 09/03/2011
After my daughter finished her daycare they had a "fashion show" at the end and all the little girls were dressed up like dolls and pranced around. It was disgusting, My daughter didnt want to be in it and I didnt either.

How are we going to show the next generation of women that you can be successful using your mind and getting an education if all we do is highlight the sex part? What if did the same thing to boys?
08:08 AM on 09/03/2011
When do little girls get to be little girls ???
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08:40 AM on 09/04/2011
Mine did. Played in the dirt, rode bikes, played barbies. No pagents, no dressing them up like dolls. I have three daughters, oldest is 20. They all know their own worth. We teach them self respect, dignity, compassion and love.
04:40 AM on 09/03/2011
I'm so tired of this so called controversy with Abercrombie Kids! Abercrombie Kids is NOT sized for the "swingset-set" and has nothing to do with sexualizing 8 year old girls. Unlike Gapkids, which is sized for kids over the age of 5, Abercrombie Kids is geared for kids from 12 to 17 (the girls' sizes fits heights from 56 inches to 64 inches tall). Growing up as a "late bloomer", I know I would have loved to have been able to buy a bathing suit top with a little padding when I was in my teens so that I could look more like the rest of my already developed girlfriends. I certainly wasn't trying to appear provocative or sexy for grown men, I just wanted to avoid the bullying I got from the boys in my junior high for being flat-chested - it was merciless and resulted in me avoiding the pool for three summers. Now I'm a mom to twins in Grade 9 and find that Abercrombie Kids offers that perfect bridge between children's wear and adult wear for the young teen set.
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01:38 AM on 09/03/2011
i do not care what anyone says, i blame the parents purchasing any of this garbage far more than i blame the retailers. i see grown women with their pre-teen daughters in the mall buying "look alike" outfits that look ridiculous on both ends. had anyone seen that story about the 'Toddlers & Tiaras' contestant with the Dolly Parton padding (link below)? it's like the whole world has gone mad. when you have so many parents with no common sense, how can you expect any better from their children?

http://www.huffingtonpost.com/2011/09/01/toddlers-tiaras-boobs_n_944687.html

http://tlc.discovery.com/videos/toddlers-tiaras-doing-dolly-parton.html (video on tlc's website)
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Californiagrove
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04:55 AM on 09/03/2011
Oh please, Toddlers and Tiaras is harmless fun. Little girls playing dress up. Win a crown, prizes, stage hams. Big friggin deal.
06:10 AM on 09/03/2011
you have got to be kidding
08:30 AM on 09/03/2011
I'm sure all the predators and perve*ts out there dont think its a big deal either.
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nopojoe
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01:30 AM on 09/03/2011
Somehow a prof from BYU talking child development lacks any credibility. I would as likely take the word of a scrawny priest from the Catholic church talking to me about the sanctity of marriage.
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GreenCanadian
is mixing the new record
01:15 AM on 09/03/2011
My wife and I had a baby girl on Sunday night, I don't care how loudly she doth protest, she will be allowed to wear a bikini when she is 25 and I can't watch over her with a baseball bat anymore.
09:19 AM on 09/03/2011
Congatulations!
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05:35 PM on 09/03/2011
Thank you angry beaver!!!

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08:27 PM on 09/05/2011
Good Luck and remember to have lots of fun with her, it goes by very fast!
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BCSLAVE
Got a key?
12:31 AM on 09/03/2011
no need to read the story just the headlines. What a shallow and sick situation.