iPads And Kids: Does Your Child Really Need One?

Kid Ipad

The Huffington Post Canada   Shelley White First Posted: 09/13/11 04:54 PM ET Updated: 11/13/11 05:12 AM ET

As kids across the country are settling back into school, their parents have no doubt equipped them with binders, protractors and pencil crayons, as they have been for decades. But will an iPad soon be on the list of must-haves for kids in primary school?

PCWorld named the iPad the "Children's Toy of the Year" in 2010. And kids seem to want them. Last November, a Nielsen poll showed that 31 per cent of American kids aged 6-12 wanted an iPad for Christmas. And the Sydney Morning Herald recently wrote about a new trend in toilet training – letting the child use an iPad while on the potty to encourage, er, results.

While it might seem ludicrous for a young child to be using such a sophisticated (and expensive) piece of technology, there is evidence that simply exposing children to technology can spur them to learn how to use it themselves. A recent Canadian Business story noted the extraordinary success of the Hole-In-the-Wall experiment, in which computers were mounted outdoors in a disadvantaged area of India. The local children taught themselves how to use the computers without any guidance, even learning English in order to do it.

So will giving your 6, 7 or 8-year-old an iPad make them into a computer whiz? Spoil them rotten? Or just encourage them to play computer games until their eyes cross? Huffington Post Canada Living asked some of Canada's leading parenting experts to share their take.

Should you get an iPad for your child? See what our experts have to say below the poll:

Quick Poll

What do you think: Should parents buy iPads for their young kids?

Sure, why not? It helps them become tech-savvy

No way, kids need way more for proper development

Hmm, depends on the situation

Judy Arnall, parenting expert and author, 'Discipline Without Distress'

"NO! It's an electronic babysitter for the parent. Parents who buy their young children electronic devices are doing it for themselves, not for the intellectual growth of the child.

"Research shows that kids become tech savvy very fast when they need to, such as high school level, and that young children need experiential learning activities instead of learning from a screen. They need to paint with real paint and fingers, rather than a screen application. The more the learning activity touches the five senses -- hearing, sight, touch, taste, and smell -- the more the child remembers.

"Parents could also be buying it for their own sense of self-esteem. 'Look at my six-year-old computer whiz flying around his iPad - isn't he smart!' Meanwhile, the kids have no communication skills. With their heads constantly pointing down at screens, they have no desire nor need for eye contact or interaction with those in the room. They learn very quickly how to disengage from people."

Beverley Cathcart-Ross, parent educator, counselor and founder of The Parenting Network

"There's not a right or wrong here. A family that has more money at their disposal may see this as making their children that much more savvy technologically. Or there could be the over-indulgent parent who's buying it because it's the hottest thing and they want their child to be the first of the block to have one. So what's the intention? What is the need of the child?

"I typically suggest that parents look at the message they are giving their child if they present their children with something like this and if it's not reflecting their values, then don't do it.

"It's really good if [buying an iPad for your child] is pre-planned and not reactionary, that parents sit down and say, 'This is quite a privilege and yes, there are some conditions around the use of this. I want you to know that a certain amount of hours of screen time a day is appropriate to us, sitting down at a dinner table with no interruptions, these are reflecting our family values.' We need to discuss these things before we release them to our children.

Joe Rich, social worker, CityLine guest therapist and author of 'Parenting: The Long Journey'

"When you're parenting, always anticipate your future battles. For as long as you can, purchase every piece of technology as a family piece of technology. It's the family iPad, it's the family phone, the family computer, because each device is going upstairs to the bedroom earlier and earlier. Parents learned this 40 years ago with television. The iPad sits next to the kitchen and the computers in the family room on the desk.

"The black and white question is 'Should we buy it or not buy it?' But in the real world, of course the family should have an iPad and if little Jeffrey takes to it and uses it a lot that's very good. And if little Jeffrey says to his friends, 'I have an iPad,' Mom says 'Jeffrey!' and he says, 'Okay, it's the family's iPad.'

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Num1Christy
Progressive Ohioan
02:25 PM on 09/20/2011
Why does it have to come down to one way or the other. Both of my kids (4 and 6) have iPod touches, have their own computer, and use my iPad on a regular basis... they also read books, do hands on art projects and activities, one dances and plays tennis, the other does martial arts, and they play outside at every opportunity. Well rounded is what we, as parents, are suppose to strive for. Technology is the future, I personally don't want my children left behind.
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JackpotFishyPoopyPants
09:11 PM on 09/19/2011
6-12?!? There's a huge difference between a 6 y.o. and a 12 y.o.!

I wouldn't get one for a kid who's six, but a 12 year old could handle it.
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HeresaClue
Grrrrrrr.....
03:07 PM on 09/19/2011
My daughter started using my ipod touch and ipad when she was 1 1/2, when I was pregnant and spent a good deal of time in the hospital waiting room for my appointments. She's now 3 and is adept at using them to play games that develop her coordination and are helping to teach her math and her alphabet. She doesn't NEED these things, but she enjoys using them just like she enjoys going to the park, gymnastics classes and drawing. As long as kids are on them for long periods of time, they are as valuable a teaching tool as anything else.
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Mr Anonymous
Mumpsimus, I am not entertained!
08:16 PM on 09/14/2011
This is the typical notion of people in the world today, they don't understand the difference between need and want. Needs are air, food, water, shelter. Wants would be an Ipad.
Whats wrong with having your kids play outside, being socially active with other kids their age, and learning to do something other then just sit in front a sceen all day?
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HeresaClue
Grrrrrrr.....
03:15 PM on 09/19/2011
It's really not an either/or proposition.
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Mr Anonymous
Mumpsimus, I am not entertained!
03:54 PM on 09/19/2011
I realize that, but too many kids now-a-days have problems with reading and crossing the midpoint, because they don't use time playing and moving around, instead they're in front of a screen twindling their fingers on a game with each hand stationarily set at each side.
06:47 PM on 09/14/2011
My daughter uses my iPad, the same one I use for client meetings, or looking up recipes in the kitchen. Using technology doesn't mean she doesn't play outside, or doesn't read books, it simply expands her horizons and allows her to continue being who and what she is: a native technology user. My 6 year old can read, write, and type better than most high school children, including my 14 year old brother who claims to "hate computers" because his mother thought it was more important for him to go play outside. Now he has a huge learning curve to catch up on that other kids his age don't. Whether you like it or not, computers are an integral part of life, as are other forms of technology, the earlier we teach our children how to use them responsibly the more responsibly they will use them and the greater the advantage they'll have in school and in life.
10:51 AM on 09/14/2011
The more technology we give our kids, the more it stunts their learning. No one really needs an iPad so why do kids need them? They should be playing outside.

When I was younger, we weren't allowed to use calculators at school. I feel like I was smarter then. Once they allowed us to use them, I didn't think as much since the calculator did all the work.
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Pectin
Lie to me...
10:58 AM on 09/19/2011
"The more technology we give our kids, the more it stunts their learning. "

Utter nonsense.
11:31 AM on 09/19/2011
It's true. They shouldn't be using as much technology as they are currently using, it makes them distracted and doesn't work their minds.
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JackpotFishyPoopyPants
09:14 PM on 09/19/2011
Ridiculous.

My kids are getting a balance of technology and old-fashioned reading. They are learning interactively and recognizing letters earlier. My son watches a reading show on PBS, plays educational games on my iPhone and get a bedtime story every night. I just learned that he's only one of a couple Kindergartners coming to school with the ability to read. Diversify. It's the secret to everything. (Except marriage. Probably shouldn't do it there.)
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Jenn May
"insert clever quote here"
01:35 AM on 09/14/2011
Does my child need one? No.

Will I get one someday, that he can use? Probably yes.

I agree with the sentiment that we should not hide our children from technology. However, technology will not raise my child, be the sole teacher of my child, nor be a babysitter to my child.

The best lesson to our children, is to let them be an active participant in our everyday lives and explain things to them. They don't need TV to keep them busy while we cook, they should be a part of it, learning about measuring, eating properly, what goes into a meal. They don't need computer games to have fun, when there are sports and activities outdoors, books to read, and things to learn.

These things are ok as a sometimes thing, but we don't "need" them. They will have plenty of time later to become tech savy.
10:25 PM on 09/13/2011
NObody really needs an Ipad
07:28 PM on 09/13/2011
No, young kids do not need an iPad, or a computer, or a TV, or a phone, etc.

We have one TV. It is in the family room. We have several computers. None are in the kids bedrooms - all are where what is on the screen can be easily seen from the door or open area.

I may buy an iPad for my wife so that she can browse and read when she is not feeling well and is lying down in bed. I have no doubt that my son will use it when he can, but it will be his mother's.

They can read books. As the library gets better support for e-books, I will get more e-book readers.
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Arti Patel
10:52 PM on 09/13/2011
all a kid needs is some sunshine and the great outdoors.
09:11 AM on 09/14/2011
Yes, books are more useful... and less expensive.