Baby Fever: Does The Biological Clock Exist?

The Huffington Post Canada   First Posted: 09/13/2011 5:12 pm Updated: 10/16/2012 12:59 pm

Do you go gaga for tiny onesies? First in line to hold the newborn that someone just brought into the office? Can't stop watching reruns of Kate Plus Eight (which seems like the only way you'll catch Kate and clan from now on)?

You, are possibly suffering from baby fever. But before you freak out about the deafening sounds of your biological clock ticking, here's something that might give you a bit of comfort: You're not alone.

A recent study has found baby fever is, in fact, a real thing and it affects a large number of people -- men included. "Baby fever is this idea out in popular media that at some point in their lives, people get this sudden change in their desire to have children," lead researcher Gary Brase says in a release featured on The Globe & Mail. "While it is often portrayed in women, we noticed it in men, too." Brase and his wife, Sandra, began studying baby fever over a decade ago after the birth of their second child. They tested their theories through a series of questionnaires aimed at young adults.

They found baby fever was more common in women than men. When asked what they desired more -- a baby or sex -- women usually chose babies and men typically chose sex. "We found this kind of ironic because sex and having a baby are causally related," Brase tells Science Daily.

The Brases also looked into the causes of baby fever. The number one predictor of whether baby mania would take hold of someone was positive exposure to a baby. In other words, if you spend a fair amount of time around the cutest, most perfect little angel, you're pretty likely to want one of your own. The opposite is true as well -- if you're exposed to Satan's tiny minion, it can significantly decrease your desire for a child.

Practical factors also came into play -- issues like your finances, your career and your social life can also diminish your desire for a little one. In some cases, this can be the deciding factor for couples: "Having children is kind of the reason we exist -- to reproduce and pass our genes on to the next generation," Brase adds. "But economically, having children is expensive and you don't get any decent financial return on this investment. And yet, here we are, actual people kind of stuck in the middle."

Bottom line? Don't hang out with babies unless you are prepared to be subjected to their jedi mind tricks. We're kidding, of course. But the next time you find yourself cooing over tiny booties and feeling a pang in your uterus, keep in mind it could just be a fleeting case of temporary baby mania.

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01:09 AM on 09/21/2011
I think it's part hormonal reality. Unmarried, in the middle of university in my early 20s (but with a long term boyfriend), I went through a few months of craving a baby...like, dreaming about having one, fantasizing about it. It was like being thirsty...jonesing for a lil' fertilization. In my early 30s, party days and university over, career settled and in a wonderful marriage, I made a calculated Grown Up Decision to have kids. No baby fever, not at all. Admittedly...snuffling the head of an infant does tend to set those hormones off again, ever so slightly...
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annasophie1228
how you like them apples?
01:44 PM on 09/14/2011
its real for me. i've been suckin' down yams and folic acid for months.
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american-dolt
Divide and Conquer
01:16 PM on 09/14/2011
Lets at least pretend it does.
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MissFrijole
My bite is worse than my bark.
12:39 PM on 09/14/2011
I think society and culture have something to do with this "fever." We are expected to have babies at a specific point in our lives and when it doesn't happen, there is this invisible pressure from the outside that makes our "biological clock" go off. I feel it now, at 26 and childless. I don't really like children and am not ready financially or anything for a baby...but something inside me insists I should have one soon. I just don't want to be 40 with a young child...it's a catch-22.
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peegan
Silence like a cancer grows...S/G.
01:24 PM on 09/14/2011
It is not just society, it is biological. Like it or not, nature wants you to procreate. It does everything it can to see that you do. That is how the species goes on. Overpopulation and pollution and diminishing food and water sources be da mned, nature wants you to mix up that DNA and make the next generation. Research has shown women engage in very specific behavior when ovulating. We will tend to wear sexier clothes, are more likely to put on make up, are more likely to except an invitation out. There was even a study that showed women's "gaydar" gets more acute when they are ovulating. Thank G we have brains to help us over ride all that so hopefully we don't have those kids before we're ready.
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orbo
Moving Forward!
12:16 PM on 09/14/2011
Nope, it’s just media hype!
imonlyhereforthelaughs
Politicians...they ruin everything.
12:11 PM on 09/14/2011
When my wife and I married, she was 38, had two young kids (5 and 3), and had her tubes tied.

We had the discussion on 3 extended occassions about whether she should have the tube retied so we could have a baby. Each time it was after her exposure to a friend or coworker's new baby, and all three discussions were initated by her.

So, yeah, from a male perspective, I;d say this exists.
imonlyhereforthelaughs
Politicians...they ruin everything.
12:15 PM on 09/14/2011
Oh, and her last time was when she was 41.

Recently...she is 54 now...the 3yo (now 19) asked her why she didn't have another baby with me. She went into a sort-of deep thought about it for the next few days. Wondering what life would be like with a third.
11:55 AM on 09/14/2011
I experienced several bouts of baby fever in my late 20's, I have been with my husband since my early 20's. I ignored it best I could and then at 30 had my first baby. I would say it definitely exists.
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shel3364
11:53 AM on 09/14/2011
Mine's digital. Very quiet. No alarm.

I'd much prefer an animal. I figure nature needs people like me to help with population control.
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SF TKF
Cthulhu thinks you'd make a nice sandwich.
11:41 AM on 09/14/2011
I'd rather have a puppy.
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peegan
Silence like a cancer grows...S/G.
11:50 AM on 09/14/2011
Old joke...Let's see if it gets through.

Boy and his dad are walking together and they see to dogs doing it. Little boy asks dad what they are doing. "They're making puppies," says the dad. A few days later the little boy accidentally walks in on his parents and asks what they are doing. "We're making babies," says the dad. The little boy thinks about it for a moment and says," Turn her over dad, I'd rather have a puppy."
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peegan
Silence like a cancer grows...S/G.
11:50 AM on 09/14/2011
should read "two"
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shel3364
11:56 AM on 09/14/2011
That's funny
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Mrs Norman
The system only works if everyone is included.
11:23 AM on 09/14/2011
I would say yes a biological clock does exist. Women are born with eggs that they will carry throughout their life. As they age those eggs also becomes older and harder to fertilize. Getting pregnant is a lot easier in your twenties than it is in your 40s. There is a clock in your body and it is ticking..