Earlier this week, the internet erupted with a video of 68-year old Greece, New York bus monitor Karen Klein being viciously bullied and berated by a group of four middle schoolers.
The students poked and prodded Klein while dropping every four letter word imaginable in between repeated comments on the woman's hair style, appearance and family situation. The appalling video has become more of a sensation than last year's Casey Heynes video, where an Australian teenager fought back against a bully -- and won.
Since the New York bus video shot to popularity, Klein has done interviews with all of the major cable networks and umpteen national newspapers to share her side of the story. She's honest, not particularly eloquent, and does not seek revenge. All she wants is an apology.
Whether or not Klein will receive the apology she seeks is still unknown, but she will be receiving a large, as-of-yet undetermined sum of money for her ordeal. On Wednesday, a Toronto blogger put a fundraising goal of $5,000 on Indiegogo.com, hoping to raise some money for Karen Klein to take a vacation. In 24 hours, $340,000 had been raised, with the number still rising (the amount at the time of publishing is $540,000).
Neither Klein nor anyone in her family requested this money, and it is her choice as to what she does with it, but she doesn't deserve it.
The more-than-16,000 strangers who have donated to Klein in merely a day are hopping on a bandwagon that made the bus monitor the overnight postergirl for bullying. However, Klein's reality is just as real to countless young children and teenagers who endure this ridicule on a daily basis. Those youngsters aren't blessed with six-figure donations for their troubles.
Every epithet and threat Karen Klein had to endure on her fateful Monday afternoon bus ride was one of the many that I heard on a daily basis. I'm not alone.
Nearly all of the bad words in my vocabulary today are there because they passed through my ears as I cried my way through elementary school and high school for years. I'm not jealous of Klein's receipt of such a substantial gift, although, if such a campaign were started for me I doubt I'd complain. My issue is with the thousands of people who found it so easy to put their credit card number into a website to help a woman unknown to them a week prior rather than taking action on the broader bullying epidemic.
Parents of bullies are often ignorant to their children's schoolyard behaviour. Parents of the bullied are usually kept in the dark by their children. Parents of the bystanders are just happy their children aren't in one of the other groups. Everyone has a responsibility to take an interest in bullying. Writing a check is not taking an interest.
What happens when Klein cashes her check and the world moves on? Until another video gets posted, likely nothing.
We shouldn't need to wait for evidence of one person's troubles to be blasted across televisions and radios around the world to be aware of an issue that will outlive the hype of Karen Klein.
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People saw the YouTube Video and the IndieGoGo campaign and exercised their free will. They didnt need to consult with a reporter to help make the decision for them.
What we are seeing here is the democratization of the news media. People are reacting to news as it is being made, rather than having to be told by the media what they should do.
This enrages many reporters, after all, they spend hours of research crafting wonderful articles and stories that even win prizes and yet they cant sell a darn newspaper.
Along comes this guy from Toronto with a story about a bullied Grandmother and all of a sudden he raises more money than the reporters stories have made over their entire career.
Such is the new face of news media. You really have to know what people want to see and hear and be there with a bucket so people can drop a dollar or two in should they wish to help the poor woman.
Maybe reporters could take a lesson from this and jump on some causes of their own. Who knows maybe their campaigns could end up refunding the news industry !
Giving comes from the heart. It makes us feel good to help this abused old lady and to know our gift will improve her life. Why are so so uncomfortable with this overwhelming display of love and empathy, I wonder??
And yes...you are envious.
life never ceases to amaze me.. It gives and gives and not only to the deserving.. We eat,, we breath, we lay down our heads and sleep, we open our eyes to see, we live on a habitable planet, we have people in our lives to love us, the trees produce and the water flows.and the planet keeps on giving.. never once asking if there are to those among us who do not deserve joy and sustenance.I know this.. If we do not strive to complete the circle we cease to be .Giving is synonomous with living.
Because Canadians do not like bullies.
THis explains a lot:
http://www.huffingtonpost.ca/andrew-lawton/
Who was it taking the video? Who uploaded it and what coordination was done to have it immediately linked on every news website? Who coordinated with one Max Sidorov to provide a donor page? Who coordinated all the appearances? Please understand that the system is rigged and most are suckers while only a few are beneficiaries.
Max and the mainstream media took very good care of Ms Klein.
I'm tired of watching people play victim. If you were dealt a sorry lot in life, do something about it or not, but no complaining when nothing changes if you choose the latter.
I'm not saying Klein deserved this teasing at all, and she has been through so much. I can only assume that she just broke down at the moment and couldn't summon up the energy to fight back, which is OK. But it sets a bad example, IMO, to younger generations that they should just sit back, cry, and accept their lot in life.