In the last week, the 2012 brutal gang rape and death of 23-year-old medical student Jyoti Singh made international headlines, and made my blood boil.
Even my dad, who never talks about violence against women, rape or sexual assault, called me that day in December to tell me what had happened. Indians living all over the world felt a sense of shame, injustice and hatred towards the treatment of women in our home country.
This past week, BBC aired a documentary called "India's Daughter," about Singh's story and the treatment of women in India. For the first time, the news station had access to interview one of the convicted rapists and his lawyers.
Instead of broadcasting what would be a historical moment in raising awareness for violence against women -- and on International Women's Day -- the Indian government decided to censor the so-called controversial documentary. Officials said it could defame India, lead to nationwide outcry and leave the country with a "serious law and order problem," according to police.
As an Indian living thousands of kilometres away, I first started seeing the startling interview clips with rapist Mukesh Singh this week. Like many people, he blamed the victim, questioned her whereabouts that late evening and asked why an unmarried woman was found walking around with a man at that hour. His lawyer compared women to a flower and said Indian society had no place for them.
The clips started cycling around social media sites, people started talking about it on blogs, and I was curious to know how many people I knew would watch it. As Indians, we have a lot to be proud of on the surface. We come from a country with a history and culture like no other, we have some of the most educated people in the world and yes, there's something remarkable about our food and love for cricket.
But when there's anything that will interfere with our pride, people tend to close up. Some Indians I talked to said it would be "too sad to watch," or the BBC and this white filmmaker would only make "Indians look bad." Others said this is not how all Indians feel (which, of course, is correct), while some people just don't care about something happening miles away.
After watching the film, let me be the first to say: unless you've read nothing on how women are treated in India, there's going to be nothing in this documentary that shocks you. Even before this gang rape, and the other countless rapes that happen on a day-to-day basis (the documentary suggests one every 20 minutes), we're talking about a country where families get abortions or abandon their babies if they have girls, acid attacks against women were not seen as an offence under the country's law until 2013, and domestic abuse is a serious problem for Indian women living everywhere, even right here at home.
If you already have a bad taste in your mouth after watching clips and trailers of the accused rapists telling you how women should be treated, don't shy away-- trailers like this are supposed to make you feel awful because they sell.
The documentary also sheds light on the bigger issue of violence against women: how education is desperately needed, and how our mentality of raising girls and boys needs to change. It also goes into the remarkable response from India's younger generation and the riots that followed the attack, along with interviews with some of the country's brightest minds about ending the stigma around rape. And while there is a lot of attention given to the accused, you also hear from their families, their upbringings and why poverty continues to be an ongoing issue.
Yes, it will make you bitter, and yes it will make you upset. If there's one thing you can do on International Women's Day this Sunday, it's to educate yourself on why these problems in India continue to exist.
India's Daughter will air on CBC's the Passionate Eye on March 8, at 10 p.m. ET, and I encourage all Indians, and all Canadians, to watch it.
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An activist places a candle on a pavement during a candle lit vigil to protest against the gang rape of two teenage girls, in New Delhi, India, Saturday, May 31, 2014. (AP Photo/Altaf Qadri)
Indian activists from the Social Unity Center of India (SUCI) shout slogans against the state government during a protest against the alleged rape of a schoolgirl by three teenage boys in Kolkata on June 2, 2014. (DIBYANGSHU SARKAR/AFP/Getty Images)
A police dog sits by the tree where two teenage girls were found hanging after they were gang raped in Katra village in the northern Indian state of Uttar Pradesh state, Saturday, May 31, 2014. (AP Photo/Rajeev Pal)
Activists of various student and youth organizations walk while shouting slogans as they protest against a rise in violence against women in the country and West Bengal state, particularly in Kolkata, India, Monday, June 2, 2014. (AP Photo/ Bikas Das)
Bharatiya Janata Party (BJP) women workers raise slogans and burn an effigy of Akhilesh Yadav, chief minister of the northern Indian state of Uttar Pradesh, during a protest against the gang rape of two teenage girls, in Allahabad, India, Saturday, May 31, 2014. (AP Photo/ Rajesh Kumar Singh)
Activists hold placards to protest against the gang rape of two teenage girls, in New Delhi, India, Saturday, May 31, 2014. (AP Photo/Altaf Qadri)
All India DYO and All India MSS workers protest, blocked college street against the rape of tribal girls, students of class-6 at Chambura Village Birbhum Districts, on June 2, 2014 in Kolkata, India. (Photo By Subhankar Chakraborty/Hindustan Times via Getty Images)
BJP workers protest against state government outside Uttar Pradesh Chief Minister Akhilesh Yadav's office, slamming the poor law and order situation in the state in view of the horrific Badaun gang-rape case, on June 2, 2014 in Lucknow, India. (Deepak Gupta/Hindustan Times via Getty Images)
Indian Bharatiya Janata Party (BJP) demonstrators are hit by water cannon as they stand behind a police barricade during a protest against the recent gang-rape and murder of two girls, in Lucknow on June 2, 2014. (STRDEL/AFP/Getty Images)
Activists from The All India Democratic Women's Association (AIDWA) and Indian Students Union shout slogans in front of Uttar Pradesh Bhawan in New Delhi on May 31, 2014, against the gang-rape and death of two teenage girls in Budaun district, India's northern state of Uttar Pradesh. (RAVEENDRAN/AFP/Getty Images)
Indian sctivists from the Social Unity Center of India (SUCI) shout slogans against the state government during a protest against the alleged rape of a schoolgirl by three teenage boys in Kolkata on June 2, 2014. (DIBYANGSHU SARKAR/AFP/Getty Images)
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