Horrific details of an alleged mass honour killing emerged in a crowded Ontario courtroom last week: Three young sisters and their polygamous father's first wife were murdered in the name of religious purity, according to the Crown prosecutor: A staged car accident, plotted and executed, allegedly by the father, mother and brother of 19-year-old Zainab, 17-year-old Sahar, and 13-year-old Gheeti Shafia, whose reportedly brazen refusal to comply with the traditions imposed on Afghan females so polluted the family's honour that only death could remove its taint. In the chilling words of the girls' father, Mohammad Shafia, "They betrayed Islam" by consorting with boys, posing seductively for cell phone photographs, and refusing to wear the hijab. "God's curse on them for generations. May the devil (expletive) on their graves. Is that what a daughter should be? Would a daughter be such a whore?"
According to the Crown, prior to their deaths, the girls repeatedly sought help from law enforcement and professional service providers, but their cries for help ultimately went unmet.
In Western consciousness, honour killings are most frequently associated with poor, developing countries where women are granted few, if any, social and political rights. Yet this alleged quadruple homicide -- apparently the violent manifestation of a deep-seated cultural and religious misogyny, according to the Crown -- took place far from the Shafia family's native Afghanistan. The bodies of Mr. Shafia's 50-year-old wife, Rona, and his three spirited daughters were found near Kingston, Ontario, floating inside a submerged vehicle in the Rideau Canal.
Mr. Shafia, 58, now faces four counts of first degree murder, along with his second wife, Tooba Mohammad Yahya, 41, and the pair's 20-year-old son Hamed Shafia. The accused have pleaded not guilty. On Thursday, Crown prosecutor Laurie Lacelle delivered a detailed opening address to the jury. Citing excerpts from Ms. Mohammad's private diary and wiretapped conversations recorded days after the murders, Ms. Lacelle painted a disturbing picture of the abuse and oppression that dominated the lives of the Shafia women. But perhaps the most tragic aspect of this story is, if it was indeed an honour killing, how easily the deaths of these four women could have been prevented.
In 1980, Mohammad Shafia married Rona Amir Mohammad in a lavish Kabul ceremony. Several years later, when it became apparent that Ms. Mohammad was infertile, he took Ms. Yahya as a second wife. Mohammad's status fell sharply as Yahya bore seven children in rapid succession. Though increasingly relegated to the sidelines of the marriage, Mohammad played a substantial role in the children's upbringing.
In 1992, the family left Afghanistan. They lived in Pakistan, Australia and Dubai before immigrating to Canada in 2007. Shafia, a successful businessman, purchased a triplex in the Montreal borough of Saint Leonard. When he left town on business, his eldest son, Hamed, was appointed head of the household.
It was, according to Lancelle, a household filled with repression, rebellion, and deep tensions. Ms. Mohammad took to her diary to describe the ongoing physical abuse perpetrated by her husband, and the insults and small humiliations levied by Ms. Yayha.
Zainab, Sahar and Gheeti sounded the alarm bells more noisily. Zainab, who was removed from school after Shafia discovered that she had a boyfriend, eventually fled to a women's shelter. Sahar, who loved wearing makeup and fashionable clothes, was spotted with a boy in a restaurant by her 12-year-old brother. He reprimanded her on the spot. She later attempted suicide, the court heard. Gheeti, who was caught shoplifting and sent home from school for dressing inappropriately, repeatedly told authorities that she wanted to be placed in a foster home.
The experiences of the Shafia sisters are becoming all too familiar. A recent spate of honour violence perpetrated in the United States exemplifies the tragic incompatibility between Western liberties and radical Islam. Yet despite increased awareness of these issues, honour crimes remain widely under-reported. Currently, there is no clear picture of the rate at which women fall victim to honour violence, let alone the number of women who submit to the demands of male family members in fear of such violence. Early information gathered from service providers in key states indicates that the problem is more widespread than previously imagined.
Absent specific awareness and training, police officers, crisis centers and social workers are likely ill-equipped to deal with these issues. Although honour violence shares several traits with domestic violence and child abuse, its unique cultural features warrant a specialized approach from social service providers and law enforcement officials. Reported threats of honour violence must be taken seriously. The risks faced by women seeking protection from the state must not be ignored.
This point is vividly illustrated by the manner in which Canadian authorities responded to the Shafia girls' cries for help, according to the Crown. On more than one occasion, Quebec child protection officials investigated complaints from Sahar and Gheeti's school. In the first instance, Sahar clammed up after learning that the social worker was required to tell her parents what they'd discussed. Two days later, Sahar told the social worker that things at home had improved. On another occasion, the girls begged a stranger to call 911 from a street corner near their home, because they felt that their lives were in danger. Police came to the house, but Shafia arrived during the interview and the sisters changed their story.
In June of this year, the AHA Foundation, an organization I founded to help protect women and girls in the West from oppression justified by religion or culture, held a conference on forced marriage and honour violence. The aim of this conference was to share with law enforcement and service providers information on how to identify these cases, best practices for investigating and prosecuting cases of honour violence and honour killings, and guidance on how to protect potential victims. Had any of the numerous contacts the Shafia girls reached out to attended such a training, these women would very likely be alive today.
If anything can be taken from the untimely death of the four Shafia women, it is this: honour violence is happening in North America and our institutions need to quickly educate themselves to be able to properly respond to save lives. These girls embrace our culture and expect that we will protect them from the savagery they left behind in their homes countries -- we owe it to them to do no less.
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Nearly one in every four women are beaten or raped by a partner during adulthood.
1 in 6 women and 1 in 33 men have experienced an attempted or completed rape.
Three women are killed by a current or former intimate partner each day in America, on average.
Over 22 percent of women surveyed, compared to 7.4 percent of men, reported being physically assaulted by a current or former partner in their lifetime.
Approximately 2.3 million people each year in the United States are raped and/or physically assaulted by a current or former spouse, boyfriend or girlfriend. Women who were physically assaulted by an intimate partner averaged 6.9 physical assaults per year by the same partner.
Approximately 37% of women seeking injury-related treatment in hospital emergency rooms were there because of injuries inflicted by a current or former spouse/partner.
Women are at an increased risk of harm shortly after separation from an abusive partner.
http://www.google.com/url?sa=t&rct=j&q=&esrc=s&source=web&cd=10&ved=0CGcQFjAJ&url=http%3A%2F%2Fwww.nnedv.org%2Fdocs%2FStats%2FNNEDV_DVSA_factsheet2010.pdf&ei=umioTqzZH5G3tgfg8LQf&usg=AFQjCNHvJl1N4boWJilMoa8-AvW-g1SZMQ&sig2=PgzCz2Xdtb6NbDgq6654Vg
http://www.huffingtonpost.com/2011/10/26/religion-and-discipline-children_n_1032776.html
""honor killing" is problematic"
- honour killing is not a problematic concept. It is a well known and practiced ritual in mostly muslim communities. Even the punishment for this crime is much much much less than murder.
Ayaan Hirsi Ali has a compelling personal story, as it relates to being raised in a fanatically Islamist culture. I understand some of her opinions and stances, and some of her criticisms are valid. But that being said, she has attached herself to vehemently anti-Muslim organizations, such as the American Enterprise Institute. They've supported the Iraq war, which has lead to death and destruction for millions of Iraqis. She's gone from legitimate critiques, to promoting fear-mongering against all Muslims, and has extended this towards promoting antipathy towards even the Palestinians in the Middle East. It's not so much that she cares for these women who were murdered, as that this case presents her with an opportunity to vent on Islam. Hatred has never been expressed in such a mild-mannered voice as it is coming from Ayaan.
The man in question in this case is a murderer. This is not the first time fanatical faith has been cited to justify a crime. He should be punished to the maximum extent of the law. But let's not use this incident as a pretext to justify condemning anyone who hasn't committed a crime.
It doesn't add up and I don't believe you when you say that you abandoned the faith for you know what the penalty is of an apostate and how muslims look to this issue.
This is what we are facing with regard to religion´s values and laws. It is impossible to like any of it
polygamy
pedophilia
slavery
sex slavery
sex discriminaÂtion
cutting limbs
capital punishment
stoning
lashing
war to spread a religion
discriminaÂtion against other religions
rejection of democracy
rejection of human rights
rejection of freedom of speech
Death penality for apostates.
Here is a video to put this in context. http://www.americanprogress.org/issues/2011/08/ate_shakir.html
Religion does nothing to add for one's life. Amen.
More than three women are killed by their husbands and boyfriends every day -- that is nearly 11,000 since 9/11.
Violent men don't come from any particular religious or cultural category; one in three women around the world has been beaten, coerced into sex or otherwise abused in her lifetime, according to the hotline survey.
This is a global problem that transcends religion, wealth, class, race and culture.
Men in the West still receive better pay for equal work - and women are still treated as sexualised commoditieÂs whose power and influence flow directly from their appearanceÂ."
http://www.huffingtonpost.com/social/kodimirpal/tunisia-elections-ennahda-islamist_n_1028098_114893998.html
In Canada one in three Muslim women have a degree. 5% of Muslim women have Masters - twice as many by percentage than all other Canadian women. 37% of Muslim degree holders focus in male dominated science and engineerinÂg vs the national average of 30% for other women
These people should be promptly deported. ". Exactly!
Everyone should be aware of Ayaan's work.