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Honour Killings Go Beyond Mere Homicide

Posted: 10/24/11 05:37 PM ET

Horrific details of an alleged mass honour killing emerged in a crowded Ontario courtroom last week: Three young sisters and their polygamous father's first wife were murdered in the name of religious purity, according to the Crown prosecutor: A staged car accident, plotted and executed, allegedly by the father, mother and brother of 19-year-old Zainab, 17-year-old Sahar, and 13-year-old Gheeti Shafia, whose reportedly brazen refusal to comply with the traditions imposed on Afghan females so polluted the family's honour that only death could remove its taint. In the chilling words of the girls' father, Mohammad Shafia, "They betrayed Islam" by consorting with boys, posing seductively for cell phone photographs, and refusing to wear the hijab. "God's curse on them for generations. May the devil (expletive) on their graves. Is that what a daughter should be? Would a daughter be such a whore?"

According to the Crown, prior to their deaths, the girls repeatedly sought help from law enforcement and professional service providers, but their cries for help ultimately went unmet.

In Western consciousness, honour killings are most frequently associated with poor, developing countries where women are granted few, if any, social and political rights. Yet this alleged quadruple homicide -- apparently the violent manifestation of a deep-seated cultural and religious misogyny, according to the Crown -- took place far from the Shafia family's native Afghanistan. The bodies of Mr. Shafia's 50-year-old wife, Rona, and his three spirited daughters were found near Kingston, Ontario, floating inside a submerged vehicle in the Rideau Canal.

Mr. Shafia, 58, now faces four counts of first degree murder, along with his second wife, Tooba Mohammad Yahya, 41, and the pair's 20-year-old son Hamed Shafia. The accused have pleaded not guilty. On Thursday, Crown prosecutor Laurie Lacelle delivered a detailed opening address to the jury. Citing excerpts from Ms. Mohammad's private diary and wiretapped conversations recorded days after the murders, Ms. Lacelle painted a disturbing picture of the abuse and oppression that dominated the lives of the Shafia women. But perhaps the most tragic aspect of this story is, if it was indeed an honour killing, how easily the deaths of these four women could have been prevented.

In 1980, Mohammad Shafia married Rona Amir Mohammad in a lavish Kabul ceremony. Several years later, when it became apparent that Ms. Mohammad was infertile, he took Ms. Yahya as a second wife. Mohammad's status fell sharply as Yahya bore seven children in rapid succession. Though increasingly relegated to the sidelines of the marriage, Mohammad played a substantial role in the children's upbringing.

In 1992, the family left Afghanistan. They lived in Pakistan, Australia and Dubai before immigrating to Canada in 2007. Shafia, a successful businessman, purchased a triplex in the Montreal borough of Saint Leonard. When he left town on business, his eldest son, Hamed, was appointed head of the household.

It was, according to Lancelle, a household filled with repression, rebellion, and deep tensions. Ms. Mohammad took to her diary to describe the ongoing physical abuse perpetrated by her husband, and the insults and small humiliations levied by Ms. Yayha.

Zainab, Sahar and Gheeti sounded the alarm bells more noisily. Zainab, who was removed from school after Shafia discovered that she had a boyfriend, eventually fled to a women's shelter. Sahar, who loved wearing makeup and fashionable clothes, was spotted with a boy in a restaurant by her 12-year-old brother. He reprimanded her on the spot. She later attempted suicide, the court heard. Gheeti, who was caught shoplifting and sent home from school for dressing inappropriately, repeatedly told authorities that she wanted to be placed in a foster home.

The experiences of the Shafia sisters are becoming all too familiar. A recent spate of honour violence perpetrated in the United States exemplifies the tragic incompatibility between Western liberties and radical Islam. Yet despite increased awareness of these issues, honour crimes remain widely under-reported. Currently, there is no clear picture of the rate at which women fall victim to honour violence, let alone the number of women who submit to the demands of male family members in fear of such violence. Early information gathered from service providers in key states indicates that the problem is more widespread than previously imagined.

Absent specific awareness and training, police officers, crisis centers and social workers are likely ill-equipped to deal with these issues. Although honour violence shares several traits with domestic violence and child abuse, its unique cultural features warrant a specialized approach from social service providers and law enforcement officials. Reported threats of honour violence must be taken seriously. The risks faced by women seeking protection from the state must not be ignored.

This point is vividly illustrated by the manner in which Canadian authorities responded to the Shafia girls' cries for help, according to the Crown. On more than one occasion, Quebec child protection officials investigated complaints from Sahar and Gheeti's school. In the first instance, Sahar clammed up after learning that the social worker was required to tell her parents what they'd discussed. Two days later, Sahar told the social worker that things at home had improved. On another occasion, the girls begged a stranger to call 911 from a street corner near their home, because they felt that their lives were in danger. Police came to the house, but Shafia arrived during the interview and the sisters changed their story.

In June of this year, the AHA Foundation, an organization I founded to help protect women and girls in the West from oppression justified by religion or culture, held a conference on forced marriage and honour violence. The aim of this conference was to share with law enforcement and service providers information on how to identify these cases, best practices for investigating and prosecuting cases of honour violence and honour killings, and guidance on how to protect potential victims. Had any of the numerous contacts the Shafia girls reached out to attended such a training, these women would very likely be alive today.

If anything can be taken from the untimely death of the four Shafia women, it is this: honour violence is happening in North America and our institutions need to quickly educate themselves to be able to properly respond to save lives. These girls embrace our culture and expect that we will protect them from the savagery they left behind in their homes countries -- we owe it to them to do no less.

 
Horrific details of an alleged mass honour killing emerged in a crowded Ontario courtroom last week: Three young sisters and their polygamous father's first wife were murdered in the name of religiou...
Horrific details of an alleged mass honour killing emerged in a crowded Ontario courtroom last week: Three young sisters and their polygamous father's first wife were murdered in the name of religiou...
 
 
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opinionator63
She blinded me with science!
09:27 PM on 11/14/2011
PLEASE do not refer to these mass murders as "honor killings". There is nothing about honor involved. These crimes are committed by men who are so craven and cowardly, so wrapped up in themselves and their own egos, that if the more vulnerable and defenseless members of their own family don't please them in every way at all times, they go into a fury of tantrums and lashing out like a 2 year old who doesn't get his way. These men are an embarrassment to the entire civilized world. In fact, they are incapable of living in a civilized society and are living somewhere in the dark ages. They are so full of rage and hate against women that they don't seem to be capable of empathy or reason or logic or even sense. They are psychopaths, in other words. There is nothing special about bullying and killing those who are weaker than yourself, nor is this about honor. It's about hating women, about men who never made it past the age of 2, emotionally, who have been pampered and powdered and petted as so the point where they are so fragile that they explode in rage when they don't get their way. How embarrassing.
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The Knocker
a mind is a terrible thing to waste
04:18 PM on 10/26/2011
Domestic violence and sexual assault are pervasive and life-threatening crimes affecting millions of individuals across the U.S regardless of age, economic status, race, religion or education. Domestic violence and sexual assault not only severely impact victims but our entire communities and are linked to many other social ills.

Nearly one in every four women are beaten or raped by a partner during adulthood.
1 in 6 women and 1 in 33 men have experienced an attempted or completed rape.

Three women are killed by a current or former intimate partner each day in America, on average.
Over 22 percent of women surveyed, compared to 7.4 percent of men, reported being physically assaulted by a current or former partner in their lifetime.

Approximately 2.3 million people each year in the United States are raped and/or physically assaulted by a current or former spouse, boyfriend or girlfriend. Women who were physically assaulted by an intimate partner averaged 6.9 physical assaults per year by the same partner.

Approximately 37% of women seeking injury-related treatment in hospital emergency rooms were there because of injuries inflicted by a current or former spouse/partner.
Women are at an increased risk of harm shortly after separation from an abusive partner.

http://www.google.com/url?sa=t&rct=j&q=&esrc=s&source=web&cd=10&ved=0CGcQFjAJ&url=http%3A%2F%2Fwww.nnedv.org%2Fdocs%2FStats%2FNNEDV_DVSA_factsheet2010.pdf&ei=umioTqzZH5G3tgfg8LQf&usg=AFQjCNHvJl1N4boWJilMoa8-AvW-g1SZMQ&sig2=PgzCz2Xdtb6NbDgq6654Vg
04:53 PM on 10/26/2011
Women should be protected from religious and social oppression and the last thing we need is religion to cover up women and practice discrimination against them in the name of subjugation to allah or god.
06:21 PM on 10/26/2011
Sometimes women are killed and subjugated in the name of Jesus as well -
http://www.huffingtonpost.com/2011/10/26/religion-and-discipline-children_n_1032776.html
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Sheldon archer
Facebook name is Yuyun Archer
01:37 AM on 10/29/2011
Nice Christian country.
01:38 PM on 10/26/2011
Comments such as "they kill their daughters" or "honour killings happen regularly in these communities" are perfect examples of why the term "honour killing" is problematic. This particular family from afghanistan suffered abuse and died as a result of the actions of someone who is likely mentally unbalanced. There are other families from afghanistan that are loving and supportive to their daughters. Perpetuating stereotypes about communities is wrong. Domestic violence towards women exists everywhere as others have mentioned. These all could be labelled honour killings because they are committed to repress women or a woman has stepped out of the confines of what is expected of her. Canadian culture is not immune to the same problem. Look around at your own communities for trends of woman-hating, sexism, and chauvinism before you point your finger.
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greggied
Prying open my third eye
03:38 PM on 10/26/2011
It's just that many Muslims believe this way. Muslim women believe what they have been force-fed for centuries.
10:29 PM on 10/26/2011
Yes and as western women we also believe what we have been force-fed. We live in a culture that does not recognize women's wisdom as we age, does not promote women to positions of leadership as easily as men, and does not pay women equal to men.
07:16 PM on 10/26/2011
It is incredible and a shame how you try to maneuver around the issue by giving different excuses to the perpetrato­rs and the practice. Then you try to shove this issue under the domestic abuse file. Ignoring the fact that these crimes are committed because women wanted to practice their freedom and fell victims to the rule of culture and religion.

""honor killing" is problematic"

- honour killing is not a problematic concept. It is a well known and practiced ritual in mostly muslim communities. Even the punishment for this crime is much much much less than murder.
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08:51 PM on 10/26/2011
True, but it's not limited to Islam, unfortunately. Where I live, the majority of honor killings occur within Sikh families.
10:05 PM on 10/26/2011
"honour killing" is not recognized in Canadian law. The prosecution is laying forth the accused's views in order to establish intent to murder. This combined with the acts of murder will ensure a conviction if proven beyond a reasonable doubt. Whether he intended to do it to protect the family reputation, to further his own interests, out of a twisted interpretation of religious texts, because he hates women is relevant only insofar as it establishes intent. My point is that your concern that the punishment for an honour killing will be less is not founded in Canadian law. If you are referring to other law and other areas of the world that is fine but this is not defined as an honour killing here and we are talking about an incident that happened on Canadian soil therefore Canadian law applies. It is simply a killing, not an honour killing. We are better off removing the concept of 'honour killing' because if he is guilty, the penalty will be severe. Domestic violence is domestic violence regardless of the color of your skin, your creed etc. We should not assume that a community as diverse as Muslim communities are, condone the killing of daughters, genital mutilation etc. This is stereotyping an entire religious community unfairly. One does not have to be Muslim to see that this is unjust.
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IbrahimSapien
Admit it, chicken nuggets are awesome.
11:46 AM on 10/26/2011
I was raised into a Muslim family, but abandoned the faith in favor of reason and consequently atheism since my teenage years. I agree there's a lot about Islam that warrants criticism. The same applies to all religions.

Ayaan Hirsi Ali has a compelling personal story, as it relates to being raised in a fanatically Islamist culture. I understand some of her opinions and stances, and some of her criticisms are valid. But that being said, she has attached herself to vehemently anti-Muslim organizations, such as the American Enterprise Institute. They've supported the Iraq war, which has lead to death and destruction for millions of Iraqis. She's gone from legitimate critiques, to promoting fear-mongering against all Muslims, and has extended this towards promoting antipathy towards even the Palestinians in the Middle East. It's not so much that she cares for these women who were murdered, as that this case presents her with an opportunity to vent on Islam. Hatred has never been expressed in such a mild-mannered voice as it is coming from Ayaan.

The man in question in this case is a murderer. This is not the first time fanatical faith has been cited to justify a crime. He should be punished to the maximum extent of the law. But let's not use this incident as a pretext to justify condemning anyone who hasn't committed a crime.
05:10 PM on 10/26/2011
You agree there's a lot about Islam that warrants criticism but seem to deny that part of the values of muslim culture and religion are built on systematic repression of women. You call this man a criminal and a murderer but fail to mention that the reason for his actions are cultural and religious. Then you attack the writer for criticizing Islam and and accuse here of spreading fear-mongering against muslims.
It doesn't add up and I don't believe you when you say that you abandoned the faith for you know what the penalty is of an apostate and how muslims look to this issue.

This is what we are facing with regard to religion´s values and laws. It is impossible to like any of it

polygamy
pedophilia
slavery
sex slavery
sex discrimina­tion
cutting limbs
capital punishment
stoning
lashing
war to spread a religion
discrimina­tion against other religions
rejection of democracy
rejection of human rights
rejection of freedom of speech
Death penality for apostates.
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GeoffreyF
Pragmatic Liberal in Massachusetts
09:34 AM on 10/26/2011
I think that demonizing one cultural group for abuse while ignoring what happens in other cultural groups must be taken in context. How many "Honor Killings" by Muslims in North America? 2? 3? Then how many wives and childrens were murdered by Christians, Jews etc? even per capita? It is not "mere homicide" and the cultural connections when they are cited are excuses. It is Homicide, beating and maiming - no matter the culture. Prosecute the crime, not the culture.

Here is a video to put this in context. http://www.americanprogress.org/issues/2011/08/ate_shakir.html
10:22 AM on 10/26/2011
You say prosecute the crime, not the culture - but it is the culture that is causing the crime.
08:07 AM on 10/26/2011
Excellent Journalism... Excellent...
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joedas
My former employer would forbid it,
06:23 AM on 10/26/2011
and from those wonderful and chaste priests who consider Gays as crying out to heaven for vengence.

Religion does nothing to add for one's life. Amen.
03:01 AM on 10/26/2011
I wonder if it is possible to instill the concept of one's own Honor Death before taking a life. Come to this new country adopting a new view that if something is that disturbing, do yourself in. Honor, there is none in a person, in America, standing before a judge for cowardly taking no less your children's life. Let is be known the definition of honor is quite different. Compared with showing their body or having sex, which are not ideal things, killing your kids here is viewed different than over there. This is dishonorable and should occur well before the injection kicks in. Sounds like more public service announcements and awareness is needed.
02:45 AM on 10/26/2011
Excellent article. I have read the author's books about her hardships on her way to psychological liberation of her environment. I am glad that she managed to escape this horror life. It is still beyond me how the prejudices still persist even in Canada. This is a tragic story. It is really sad that the father claims innocence. I hope things will get better in the future for other girls who are in similar situation.
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The Knocker
a mind is a terrible thing to waste
02:37 AM on 10/26/2011
"According to a recent National Domestic Violence Hotline survey, 4 million American women experience a serious assault by a partner during an average 12-month period.

More than three women are killed by their husbands and boyfriends every day -- that is nearly 11,000 since 9/11.

Violent men don't come from any particular religious or cultural category; one in three women around the world has been beaten, coerced into sex or otherwise abused in her lifetime, according to the hotline survey.

This is a global problem that transcends religion, wealth, class, race and culture.

Men in the West still receive better pay for equal work - and women are still treated as sexualised commoditie­s whose power and influence flow directly from their appearance­."

http://www.huffingtonpost.com/social/kodimirpal/tunisia-elections-ennahda-islamist_n_1028098_114893998.html
02:04 PM on 10/26/2011
Thank you for quoting yourself to provide substantiation for your statements.
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08:54 PM on 10/26/2011
Shhh. He's hoping we won't notice.
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oxjr
02:15 AM on 10/26/2011
Most Muslims immigrate to places like Canada, the US and Britain to escape this backward thinking. They move here so their children can excel - both the boys and the girls. Before you go and paint the families of this religion with the same brush as Mr Shafia, consider the facts.

In Canada one in three Muslim women have a degree. 5% of Muslim women have Masters - twice as many by percentage than all other Canadian women. 37% of Muslim degree holders focus in male dominated science and engineerin­g vs the national average of 30% for other women
01:54 AM on 10/26/2011
Excellent post....I agree with everything the author writes but let's stop using the term honor killing....this term comes from the perspective of sick and abusive cultures....it's murder...it should not be masked by the term "honor"
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GeoffreyF
Pragmatic Liberal in Massachusetts
09:35 AM on 10/26/2011
There are no "Sick and Abusive Cultures". Even in places such as Afghanistan or Pakistan, this is rare. There are murders and spousal abuses everywhere.
04:13 PM on 10/26/2011
How do you know that honor killings are "rare" in Pakistan and Afghanistan? Do you have any figures to back that up?
brokerthanu
all acts of love and pleasure are my rituals
03:12 PM on 10/28/2011
Let's not euphemize. Honor-killing is what it is called by the people who practice it. Who are you trying so hard not to offend? Do you think progressive Muslims can't recognize it for what it is? The best way to not get conflated with misogynist murderers is to point clearly and yell loudly at them.
01:24 AM on 10/26/2011
"if these are the kinds of values they bring to my country, then I don't want them here.

These people should be promptly deported. ". Exactly!
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flossophy
the unfamous anti-establishment classical liberal
12:28 AM on 10/26/2011
Kudos to H.P. for publishing Ayaan Hirsi Ali.

Everyone should be aware of Ayaan's work.
11:16 PM on 10/25/2011
So what solutions would you actually suggest (I see nothing presented). Cut down on immigration? Arrest parents even if people retract their testimony? Outrage is easy, solutions are a bit harder to come by. I'm sure your friend Bolton has some great ideas on how to deal with these sort of things.
11:45 PM on 10/25/2011
Read the second to last paragraph again (or, more likely, this time). All she said was officials, police, and teachers need to respond to the warning signs that potential victims may show. That's it. There's nothing about preemptive arrests, nor is there any anti-immigrant bigotry. Granted, it doesn't sound like a sweeping miracle-cure that will keep a bruise from ever again marring the cheek of a Muslim woman on the Western hemisphere, but it's a start.
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GeoffreyF
Pragmatic Liberal in Massachusetts
09:39 AM on 10/26/2011
The solution is simple. Have an active, specifically skilled sex crimes and domestic abuse unit in your city or county. Both police and prosecutors should be well trained in bringing criminal abusers to justice. This is not about one culture and this focus on "honor killings" or supposedly unique defects in a culture is a distraction. Her statement "mere homicide" says it all. Nothing mere about Homicide, it is criminal, prosecute it and look in this case to how the Police in that jurisdiction missed the signs.
08:01 PM on 10/26/2011
I had the same reaction when I saw "Mere Homicide", in what kind of mind is there such a thing as "mere" homicide. That heading alone told a lot about the author's mind set and it's lack of perspective being stuck on one particular aspect only.